Marrying because of child

Marrying because of child

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Marriageisbeauti ful

United States

#2 Feb 23, 2013
That's the responsible thing todo.... Also they can before a kid. Soon or later marriage is going to be distant cause no one is living up to it... Everyone sees easy away out instead of staying committed.
Curious wrote:
Why do men feel like they have to marry the women they knocked up?
Wouldn't you marry them before you got them pregnant.
True

Lockhart, TX

#3 Feb 23, 2013
Women are stupid for marring just because they are pregnant. the way I see it .. You will be making 2 mistakes. One you have to accept and live with, the other you don't.
true

New Braunfels, TX

#5 Feb 23, 2013
Curious wrote:
Well then why make the child suffer from a divorce or a unhealthy relationship between the parents.
In my opinion I think men should be careful on who they sleep with and a women should always be cautious with her body.
Not many women know that they have a free medical assistance just for being a lady for personal women needs.
It's free too.
But then again they are too lazy to help prevent unwanted babies.
I totally agree. Some women just use the pg card to try to trap a man. That never works...well at least in one case I know of. After having 3kids from this man...basically all one night stands bc he had a wife (exwife) now he never committed. Then he moves on and tries to be happy after being single for yrs nd bouncing from woman to woman....there she goes again with her nasty tricks nd gets pg on another one nighter....and he's still not committing. As a matter a fact he's fixing to marry this woman he's been with now for over a yr. So some women are trifling. So sad for these kiddos, the momma don't even take care of them. Leave grama to do the raising.
ugh

United States

#7 Feb 23, 2013
Accepting wrote:
Girls need to accept the truth that he knocked you didn't mean he wanted you hoes
Lol! True...but some women think these men actually love them...their just an easy lay willing to get nasty in bed that's all it is. And some men are just weak whn pussy is offered and thrown in their face. Some women need to have some self respect. And I am saying some men....bc some men can change...if they want to.
no pressure

Denver, CO

#8 Feb 24, 2013
Don't play that card! You know what your getting yourself into when you decide not to use protection. It takes two son. Be smart next time.
no masd

United States

#10 Feb 26, 2013
Watt. Ever....nuttin goin to change in this world......men will b men ...
Because

Carrizo Springs, TX

#11 Feb 26, 2013
Why wrote:
The baby mamas always have a hold on the guys & they know that they can threatened them with not seeing the kid...
I hate baby mamas
I think you're a lil j/s or alot what is it to you if you hate bbymamas and If they get married? Maybe it was about time they did!
shhh

Universal City, TX

#12 Feb 27, 2013
Get over it
no mas

United States

#13 Feb 27, 2013
Pull out on time...si no u r screw 4 eighteen year's ....dont b scrard...
true

Uvalde, TX

#14 Feb 27, 2013
both are to blame. both are stupid. neither have any self-respect.

Guys are too busy thinking about getting off, and girls think they want kids and a family so they spread their legs thinking it's going to be what they want.

Since: Jan 13

United States

#15 Feb 27, 2013
Why wrote:
The baby mamas always have a hold on the guys & they know that they can threatened them with not seeing the kid...
I hate baby mamas
I second this! That's the only way they feel they can have them wrapped around their finger when shit don't go their way.they're completely pathetic but then they wonder why they can't communicate w/o shit being complicated! Grow the fk up and learn how to be civil for the childs sake.
Because

Carrizo Springs, TX

#16 Feb 27, 2013
I think all you ppl need to getover it its not just the womens its the guys too if you know you anit ready for a baby then wrap it up its not that hard.
ohhhh

San Antonio, TX

#17 Mar 1, 2013
because condoms always work????? regardless accidents happen in all shapes and sizes resulting in pregnancy its ultimately the woman's choice if she wants to raise a child alone without a father or if she waits to find the man she wants to be the father of her children

regardless if this couple is marrying because shes pregnant sounds like they were not in a very committed relationship to begin with that right there would be the first sign this is not going to work

but by all means i don't know who initiated the proposal of marriage it could have been the girl trying to snag a guy it could have been the guy trying to do the right thing either way it sounds forced and could lead to some very unnecessary pain down the road for all three(if they don't have more) of them

i don't believe children should be bargaining chips or souvenirs of where you've been

it's not an accomplishment to get pregnant and give birth any little girl can go out and get knocked up (as has been proven in the youth lately)

but it takes a woman to own up to what she allows to happen to her body and be responsible in the way she cares for herself and her future
no mas

United States

#18 Mar 1, 2013
Takes two!
Because

Carrizo Springs, TX

#20 Mar 1, 2013
ohhhh wrote:
because condoms always work????? regardless accidents happen in all shapes and sizes resulting in pregnancy its ultimately the woman's choice if she wants to raise a child alone without a father or if she waits to find the man she wants to be the father of her children
regardless if this couple is marrying because shes pregnant sounds like they were not in a very committed relationship to begin with that right there would be the first sign this is not going to work
but by all means i don't know who initiated the proposal of marriage it could have been the girl trying to snag a guy it could have been the guy trying to do the right thing either way it sounds forced and could lead to some very unnecessary pain down the road for all three(if they don't have more) of them
i don't believe children should be bargaining chips or souvenirs of where you've been
it's not an accomplishment to get pregnant and give birth any little girl can go out and get knocked up (as has been proven in the youth lately)
but it takes a woman to own up to what she allows to happen to her body and be responsible in the way she cares for herself and her future
WOW who wants to read you're long broning story its sound like you're mad at the world cause some make it and you didt in you're MARRIAGE!Just get over it it takes two not ONE.
modern mythology

Uvalde, TX

#21 Mar 1, 2013
Because wrote:
<quoted text>WOW who wants to read you're long broning story its sound like you're mad at the world cause some make it and you didt in you're MARRIAGE!Just get over it it takes two not ONE.
Obviously you didn't take the time to read what you quoted. If you had, you'd agree that not every case is the same. Even if all precautions are taken, a pregnancy can still occur with two responsible individuals who were not planning to stay together. If both parents are amicable about the separation and terms are agreed upon, why should the child have to suffer through a marriage where neither parents love each other? Even at a young age children can sense this and it will affect them emotionally.

Even while I say this, there are still exceptions to the ideal so there isn't a clear cut way to deal with it. So i'm sure there are many responsible single parents that would appreciate it if you didn't infer that they can't raise their children by themselves just as well as if they had a spouse, because I'm sure there are more than a few examples in Uvalde who are making it work just fine.
more

Crystal City, TX

#22 Apr 23, 2013
You shouldn't marry just because you have a child together. You have to love and trust each other.
wahwahwah

Eugene, OR

#23 Apr 23, 2013
who cares...Is their lives yeah it's f*cked up but, what done is done...move on folks, nothing to see here lol
lol

San Antonio, TX

#24 Apr 24, 2013
I don't believe just cuz ur pregnant u have to get married. My daughter was pregnant at 16 her BC 19, they wanted to get married and i refused to sign for her to get married! I told her if you feel the same way when ur 18 then u can sign. She was already in a bind being pregnant y would i enable her to make another wrong choice. She's 19 now and has thanked me for not signing. She finally left her bf about 1y and 1/2ago best decision she's made cuz he was a mommas boy and didn't want to work. She went to college graduated a blue cord for Cum Laude and now shes a Registered Medical Assistant IM so proud of her and i love my granddaughter so much she's a blessing but marriage is not the answer under certain circumstances!
lol

San Antonio, TX

#25 Apr 24, 2013
Sorry one more thing i was engaged at 19 then got pregnant and i called off wedding cuz i wasn't ready we had our daughter at 20 and i finally was ready for marriage at 22yrs old now were still here 18 yes later 21 yes total with 3 kids and 1 granddaughter!

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