my wife just had a baby. question.

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proud_dad

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Jul 19, 2012
 
My wife and I are both white (I'm not racist- in fact my best friend is black and my wife is close to him as well.)
Anyway, we just had a baby, and the baby has dark skin and the sort of hair that black people have. My wife says that some of her grandparents had black siblings who passed away before we got married and I was just wondering what the odds were of our baby's skin being dark colored.
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Jul 19, 2012
 
proud_dad wrote:
My wife and I are both white (I'm not racist- in fact my best friend is black and my wife is close to him as well.)
Anyway, we just had a baby, and the baby has dark skin and the sort of hair that black people have. My wife says that some of her grandparents had black siblings who passed away before we got married and I was just wondering what the odds were of our baby's skin being dark colored.
See ya soon on the Maury show you dumbass.LMao....
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Jul 19, 2012
 
Get a paternity test fast! Cause sweetie by what ur describing to us is telling me that you are NOT the father!
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Jul 20, 2012
 

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proud_dad wrote:
My wife and I are both white (I'm not racist- in fact my best friend is black and my wife is close to him as well.)
Anyway, we just had a baby, and the baby has dark skin and the sort of hair that black people have. My wife says that some of her grandparents had black siblings who passed away before we got married and I was just wondering what the odds were of our baby's skin being dark colored.
Used to work OB most people don't know this but when black people have babies the baby's skin is usually white. So ironically the black husband
would be thinking what you are. Having said that not sure what's going on, but if you feel in your gut maybe your not the father .
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Jul 20, 2012
 
Dont you ever think maybe your wife cheated with your so call best friend?
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Jul 20, 2012
 
Lmbo wrote:
Dont you ever think maybe your wife cheated with your so call best friend?
I agree! Seek a DNA...and if you don't want your wife to know then do it secretly...take a strand of hair from baby..or go to local lab and ask for the swab and u can rub the inside cheeks of the baby and have urself tested as well....goodluck!
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Jul 20, 2012
 
honestly if you anydoubt in your mind then I would have a DNA test done because once you build a bond with this child it is going to be twice as hard to deal with the truth. So do it ASAP and if it is your child love your wife and child as if you where living your last day on earth
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Jul 20, 2012
 
Looks like your best friend is the daddy and not you !!!
proud_dad

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Jul 20, 2012
 
My wife would never do that to me! To those of you suggesting that!
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Jul 20, 2012
 
Denial !!
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Jul 20, 2012
 
I suggest asking a pediatrician.
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Jul 20, 2012
 
proud_dad wrote:
My wife would never do that to me! To those of you suggesting that!
Why get on here asking for opinions then? Also, why put it out there that your best friend is black. You obviously had to have thought that or you wouldn't have told us about it.. Duh
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Jul 20, 2012
 
have u seen me ,myself,and irene.if not i suggest u check it out.
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Jul 20, 2012
 
Proud dad- I'm just wondering.... what was your wifes expression when she first saw the baby? I'm sorry but something is kinda fishy if you ask me. You need to talk to your n-laws and find out about those siblings that she's talking about.....hmmm??
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Jul 21, 2012
 
If you love your wife just love the baby like its yours.don't listen to anybody telling you anything different. I mean if you truly believe in your heart that she wouldn't do anything like that.good luck and God blessed
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Jul 21, 2012
 
proud_dad wrote:
My wife would never do that to me! To those of you suggesting that!
u never know!!!...u never really know a person...but it is a good idea to get a dna done for your sake and the knew buddle of joy..but there was a case where there was a black couple who's daughter came our white and blond hair..white ran in her family...
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Jul 21, 2012
 
proud_dad wrote:
My wife would never do that to me! To those of you suggesting that!
You know the old saying once you had black you aren't going back. You are a dumb *ss...you are a fool...really you wife wouldn't do that to you. LOL>
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Jul 21, 2012
 
Research Sandra Laing it happened to her and her family. There's a movie called Skin and a book called When she was white by Judith Stone telling this story. However, her father had to do a blood- typing test for paternity (dna testing didnt exist) to prove he was her biological father so that they could legally declare her white (this was back when there was segregation). I dont know how often this actually occurs though. When i saw the movie was when i found out that its possible. But its a true story......good luck.
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Jul 21, 2012
 
Yes it's very possible. If you or your wife have any blood relatives who are/ were of African American descent, it's possible that the genes have surfaced down the line. A baby is a baby who cares about color or hair type we are all of mixed race in some form or another
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Jul 21, 2012
 
strange wrote:
Yes it's very possible. If you or your wife have any blood relatives who are/ were of African American descent, it's possible that the genes have surfaced down the line. A baby is a baby who cares about color or hair type we are all of mixed race in some form or another
I know someone who had a baby with blue eyes. And no one that we know of has colored eyes on either side. So the genes somewhere down the line from either mom or dad from an ancestor may have hit the baby. And this is a mexican baby I'm talking bout.

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