Why do women get with guys who have n...
Class of 1969

New York, NY

#23 Nov 11, 2009
You can stop "looking, however, you must be willing to put yourself in the environments that greatly increase your chance of finding someone, even though you stopped "looking".

Do you appreciate art, dance or the theater ?

Do you attend public events i.e. Utica Monday Nites,(Saranac Thursdays are out), Munson-Williams outdoor displays, outdoor summer events throughout the Valley ?

What about on-line? Completely safe, you make all the calls with regards to progressing forward...

You have to put yourself out there where there are people that have similar likes, ethics, and morals as yourself. Birds of a feather DO flock together, ya know ...
okk

New Hartford, NY

#24 Nov 11, 2009
Jaz25 wrote:
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I just want a man that's not gonna hurt me.. and that treats me like I am supposed to be treated! that's all I am asking for. Not much of anything really. But I still can't find that. I don't get it. I want a good man that's gonna treat me right. I don't care what they do for a living just as long as they can take care of themselves...
You will find it Jaz. You are one of the most understanding and caring (arent many)people on here. Keep looking. Good things fall to the people who deserve it.
1 Who knows

AOL

#25 Nov 11, 2009
The truth wrote:
These women are damaged goods.They have low self esteem no matter how hard they try to hide it. They only feel good about themselves when they have a man who they feel NEEDS them and depends on them. It gives them self gratification. Any man who is about something is a threat to them and causes them to look at their own lack of ambition and positive qualities. Been their and not going back to another crazy Utica female.
mrs kim suppa falls into this category
ImAkoonWHOfarts

New York, NY

#26 Nov 11, 2009
Jaz25 wrote:
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I have since stopped looking in the bars for these so called "good men". I just feel like if it is meant to happen then it will but I have stopped looking.
Do you do anal?

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#27 Nov 11, 2009
I think I found a good guy... we will see!
Bad news

United States

#28 Nov 11, 2009
just want to know wrote:
Most women don't give a guy a chance with a half of life or job. They like people to depend on them for money cars food.They love that long tee shirt white baggy crooked hat baggy jeans clock on the neck held by a dog chain. Empty pocket no they heve pot blunts and a house key a benefit card. People don't be offended i hope this isn't you i speak of.

Not me I love for my man to be successful and I go for mines also so we a team... Don't know what women you've cam across but sorry to say they are not women... Any woman who doesn't want you to do better has something wrong... Being with a hustler isn't easy... So keep looking til you find that not so crazy woman.

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#29 Nov 13, 2009
Update: that guy that I met was no good.. see what I mean people.. the guys out here suck!
Rome Fool

Liverpool, NY

#31 Nov 13, 2009
Well Jaz look at it this way stop tryin so hard and when you least expect it you will find someone worthy of ya.

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#32 Nov 13, 2009
Rome Fool wrote:
Well Jaz look at it this way stop tryin so hard and when you least expect it you will find someone worthy of ya.


I am not trying! these scumbags keep coming to me.. I wish a good man would come to me. I would love that

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#33 Nov 13, 2009
Ian Hob wrote:
Sorry to hear that Jaz you seem nice. Keep trying.
I am very nice and all I want is a guy that won't hurt me or doesn't just want to "hit it and split it". that's all I am asking for but it's hard to find I guess
dixie chick

Auburn, NY

#34 Nov 13, 2009
Class of 1969 wrote:
I just want a man that's not gonna hurt me.. and that treats me like I am supposed to be treated! that's all I am asking for. Not much of anything really. But I still can't find that. I don't get it. I want a good man that's gonna treat me right. I don't care what they do for a living just as long as they can take care of themselves...
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Jaz, they are out there. Are you "looking" in the not-so-good places i.e. bars, bars or bars ?
I do know what you mean, however, there ARE many nice guys out there that will treat a woman like she deserves. I must assume that you lead a good, clean life, yes ? If that's the case, then you will find a good man.
Know what ? Believe it or not, most "good" guys are a bit on the shy side. Yes, it IS true. I am sure that you and most women have been approached many times, but I will bet you a dollar on a dime, that most of those that do approach you are not the type that you would like to have a long-termer with.
With this said, do not feel "shy" about taking the first step. It will NOT be misconstrued as you being aggressive or that you are looking for you know what. Try it. When you see someone "of interest", take that step.
Nothing gained, nothing lost.
But more so, nothing ventured, nothing gained ...
Good luck !
Like they say, "Look out for those quiet ones". They are usually tigers in bed. Meowwwww!!!
Rendezous

Cortland, NY

#35 Nov 13, 2009
Jaz25 wrote:
Update: that guy that I met was no good.. see what I mean people.. the guys out here suck!
Wait a second. You can't just make a statement like that and not expound on it. Why was he no good?

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#36 Nov 13, 2009
Rendezous wrote:
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Wait a second. You can't just make a statement like that and not expound on it. Why was he no good?
He seemed nice and told me all this shit but found out that it was bullshit and he's about to get married in a month and his girl is about to have a baby any day now... why can't people just be honest?
CarpalChic

Brooklyn, NY

#37 Nov 13, 2009
Jaz25 wrote:
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He seemed nice and told me all this shit but found out that it was bullshit and he's about to get married in a month and his girl is about to have a baby any day now... why can't people just be honest?
just curious, Hun... where did you meet him?

“Yeah so.... Whats your point?”

Since: Sep 09

a place some where.

#38 Nov 13, 2009
I wont date a guy with no job or life. Does not matter the race.

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#39 Nov 13, 2009
CarpalChic wrote:
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just curious, Hun... where did you meet him?
sadly myspace... which probably wasn't the best idea...
It Is Me

New York, NY

#40 Nov 13, 2009
Wow , looks like you have a nice rack! I'm unemployed and live with my parents in a trailer. How would you like a pearl necklace????

Level 1

Since: Nov 09

Syracuse, NY

#41 Nov 13, 2009
It Is Me wrote:
Wow , looks like you have a nice rack! I'm unemployed and live with my parents in a trailer. How would you like a pearl necklace????
ill!!!! yea you have a job to talk to me... I don't take care of people who can take care of themselves
It Is Me

New York, NY

#42 Nov 13, 2009
Jaz25 wrote:
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ill!!!! yea you have a job to talk to me... I don't take care of people who can take care of themselves
Rack still looks GREAT!!!!But I'm confused, from what you wrote you want someone you have to take care of???If so look up Sam, he's alittle slow and lives with his mom!
Good guy

Syracuse, NY

#43 Nov 13, 2009
Jaz25 how old are you? what age range in MEN are you looking for?

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