What is your biggest regret?

What is your biggest regret?

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Brad

Utica, NY

#1 Jul 8, 2013
Mine is not getting closer to my mother before she died. Although I cared for her during her last days, it wasn't quality time because of her stroke. I guess we both made mistakes but losing her made me realize that sometimes we dwell on things we shouldn't and the day will come when it's to late to say I love you. In a strange way, I feel losing her has made me a better person, more forgiving, more sensitive to others, but mad at myself for allowing little thing to bother me so much. I lost the one person that loved me the most in my life, a person that could never be replaced, I lost my mother. I will never have another one.
Good Hearted Post

Agawam, MA

#2 Jul 8, 2013
Good post Brad, u hit a lot of points im sure many people feel. Unfortunately, prepare urself for someone to ruin this post w insensitive childish comments.
The First from lainey

United States

#3 Jul 8, 2013
My biggest regret is not banging those two black guys in a McDonalds restroom last nite. I should have done it. I may never get the opportunity again.
Linda

Cortland, NY

#4 Jul 8, 2013
Brad, I lost my Mom 6 years ago. It still hurts today. I feel for you. Great Post! She knew you loved her!
brown trout

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Jul 8, 2013
Brad wrote:
Mine is not getting closer to my mother before she died. Although I cared for her during her last days, it wasn't quality time because of her stroke. I guess we both made mistakes but losing her made me realize that sometimes we dwell on things we shouldn't and the day will come when it's to late to say I love you. In a strange way, I feel losing her has made me a better person, more forgiving, more sensitive to others, but mad at myself for allowing little thing to bother me so much. I lost the one person that loved me the most in my life, a person that could never be replaced, I lost my mother. I will never have another one.
I here you brad!
CCP Is Trash

Schenectady, NY

#6 Jul 8, 2013
Not leaving the utica region right after college.
wish I was never born

Utica, NY

#7 Jul 8, 2013
My regret, being born! I wished that I was never born since I have watched life pass me by without me permitted to being a part of life.

I wish I was never born!
CCP Is Trash

Schenectady, NY

#8 Jul 8, 2013
wish I was never born wrote:
My regret, being born! I wished that I was never born since I have watched life pass me by without me permitted to being a part of life.
I wish I was never born!
This seems to be every uticans regret.
You tell me your age

Utica, NY

#11 Jul 8, 2013
stay in school wrote:
What I regret most is all the bad decisions I made as a teenager (mainly, experimenting with drugs and getting lousy grades). Poor decisions we make when we're growing up can set us up for failure as adults.
ill tell you , your not that old .
Read

Utica, NY

#12 Jul 8, 2013
wish I was never born wrote:
My regret, being born! I wished that I was never born since I have watched life pass me by without me permitted to being a part of life.
I wish I was never born!
the purpose given life .

“I Make you wonder”

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#13 Jul 9, 2013
My regret is that I never took the opportunities set in front of me. I had every chance to do something great but was never motivated. Such a waste.
Getting Herpes

New York, NY

#14 Jul 9, 2013
F*#king two pigs while drunk.
salop

Danielson, CT

#15 Jul 9, 2013
My biggest regret is not being able to help the people of lampedusa anymore than making public aware. I wish I could be on the front line of battle and fight along side my brothers united in destroying illegal immigration

Boycott the pope
brown trout

Brooklyn, NY

#16 Jul 9, 2013
stay in school wrote:
What I regret most is all the bad decisions I made as a teenager (mainly, experimenting with drugs and getting lousy grades). Poor decisions we make when we're growing up can set us up for failure as adults.
sometimes the less you learn in school. the more you know as an adult. I'm all for education. however only the truth shall set you free.
so so sorry

Utica, NY

#18 Jul 9, 2013
wish I was never born wrote:
My regret, being born! I wished that I was never born since I have watched life pass me by without me permitted to being a part of life.
I wish I was never born!
I wanted to 'judge' your comment 'sad', but there is no sad. my dear, life will pass you by without you being a part of it ONLY IF YOU LET IT! I don't know how old you are, but it is never to late...trust me, I WAS THERE, and with help, there is life, and hope, and beauty, and tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!
you know nothing

Utica, NY

#19 Jul 9, 2013
Read wrote:
<quoted text> the purpose given life .
Sorry, but that isn't enough for your statement suggests that 'purpose of life' is a function for others to torment and abuse someone for their own jollies and kicks. For that purpose alone, death would be better than life for when one is not to have a life for themselves then the best outcome is death especially when all one sees is death on a continual basis.
As one wrote about their mom, I can top that, I know someone who shoved it up their mom's a$$ & more right along with Slocum Dickson telling this woman she has lung cancer and then when she demanded a sputum test they told her they have the courts on their side! Excuse me, a lung biopsy is a dangerous thing to do but not only did they do that they also named the man whom the nurse practitioner said ran the show and called the shots, D. Victor Pellegrino and the name was Diane Hilton! So not all society is worth anything and look at this area it is much riddled with death and destruction.
Patty

Cortland, NY

#20 Jul 9, 2013
I wish I was dead too. HELP??? Where? I've had all kinds of help but nothing works. I'm all alone with no family around. Life Sucks and then ya die! I would never end my life but pray every night that I don't wake up in the morning! And, no sorry to say I have no friends. If I were to die no one would know for weeks! My landlord would come a calling for rent........ I know SAD!
Abraham Lincoln

Dallas, TX

#21 Jul 9, 2013
Not shipping the SREGGIN back to africa.

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Utica, NY

#23 Jul 9, 2013
missy wrote:
Is being in your thirties too young to have regrets?
Not at all Missy. care to share your thoughts?
no regrets

Utica, NY

#24 Jul 9, 2013
wish I was never born wrote:
My regret, being born! I wished that I was never born since I have watched life pass me by without me permitted to being a part of life.
I wish I was never born!
what is so bad and WHY has life passed you without you being permitted to being a part of it??? also, if I may ask, how old are you?

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