An Editorial On Valentines Day

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Just Observing

Utica, NY

#1 Feb 14, 2014
Another Valentines day. What have you done?

As I sit in this restaurant, I look around & see the valentine couples. Most don't even talk to each other. They go through the motions. You can always tell the married couples by this. They check out other tables, read the menu, rarely say a word to each other. Sad.

You have the couples that rush out & return with flowers, candy, cards. For what? Most of the time they fight, argue & call each other horrible names. Most are bastards in one way or another to live with. They think by treating you on a special day (birthdays included), you forget. This is funny. After your day is over, it's just back to the same old treatment. Bitching, complaining. They throw it up in your face that they bought u this or that or took you out. Oh boy.

Then we have the couples that degrade their mate to others, abuse, control & then at home call them 'hun'. Another laugher. Then you have the abusee try to explain to friends just how much in love they are with each other & how long they have been married. Are they kidding?!
They don't think others see how lousy their marriages/relationships are?!

Marriage is like a deck of cards. In the beginning, all u need is 2 hearts & a diamond. By the time it ends, you wish you had a club & a spade!

Welcome to the world where being nice never gets you anywhere!!!

Thank God we can't see into the future, otherwise, we'd never get outta bed!!!

And, I will say, not ALL marriages/relationships suck. Just MOST do.
Sylvia Plath

Houston, TX

#5 Feb 14, 2014
Just Observing wrote:
Another Valentines day. What have you done?
As I sit in this restaurant, I look around & see the valentine couples. Most don't even talk to each other. They go through the motions. You can always tell the married couples by this. They check out other tables, read the menu, rarely say a word to each other. Sad.
You have the couples that rush out & return with flowers, candy, cards. For what? Most of the time they fight, argue & call each other horrible names. Most are bastards in one way or another to live with. They think by treating you on a special day (birthdays included), you forget. This is funny. After your day is over, it's just back to the same old treatment. Bitching, complaining. They throw it up in your face that they bought u this or that or took you out. Oh boy.
Then we have the couples that degrade their mate to others, abuse, control & then at home call them 'hun'. Another laugher. Then you have the abusee try to explain to friends just how much in love they are with each other & how long they have been married. Are they kidding?!
They don't think others see how lousy their marriages/relationships are?!
Marriage is like a deck of cards. In the beginning, all u need is 2 hearts & a diamond. By the time it ends, you wish you had a club & a spade!
Welcome to the world where being nice never gets you anywhere!!!
Thank God we can't see into the future, otherwise, we'd never get outta bed!!!
And, I will say, not ALL marriages/relationships suck. Just MOST do.
Go buy yourself a sun lamp. The vitamin D might improve your outlook. Things aren't so bad It's called life.
outraged

Utica, NY

#7 Feb 15, 2014
Simple wrote:
<quoted text>That's too dark. Accept what comes in life and all the rest is blessing. Don't get married until 36-40 and do it once with a like minded beauty who takes care of herself and who's mom is also petite and perfect. She has to be smarter and an equal earner to you. Commit to growing old fat & maybe even ugly together, it happens there are wonderful examples all around in life it is the ONLY way. Accepting and commit. Give her everything you have and leave her alone unless she needs you and never let her know what you're worth until the end. This was easy.
Some just don't get that opportunity because their life was cut short.
Its ME

Utica, NY

#8 Feb 15, 2014
I had the best valentines day ever! Finally found the love of my life :)
Rosy Palm

Utica, NY

#9 Feb 17, 2014
Its ME wrote:
I had the best valentines day ever! Finally found the love of my life :)
Is it your right or left hand?
Better than sex

Houston, TX

#10 Feb 17, 2014
If you didn't find love, cheer up. GO BUY SOME HALF PRICE Valentine candy
Its ME

Utica, NY

#11 Feb 17, 2014
Rosy Palm wrote:
<quoted text>
Is it your right or left hand?
Oh it's all of him! Not my hands.
Don't be jealous ;)

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