why r good friends so hard to come by?

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fedup

Utica, NY

#1 Mar 6, 2013
Is there any such thing as a true, honest friendship anymore? I'm really starting to lose faith.
hank hill

Vandergrift, PA

#3 Mar 6, 2013
Yes, but they're not easy to find.
Bill Potoczny

Utica, NY

#4 Mar 6, 2013
Little girls are better, soft, undeveloped, they give you feeling only a freak can get.
First

Milford, MA

#5 Mar 6, 2013
You've got to be the friend a friend would like to have.

Level 8

Since: Jul 12

Brooklyn, NY

#6 Mar 6, 2013
Because most people are azzholes
KY WELLER34

Syracuse, NY

#7 Mar 6, 2013
I have 2 types of friends. Those I banged and those I wanna bang.
The Cretin

New Hartford, NY

#8 Mar 6, 2013
KY WELLER34 wrote:
I have 2 types of friends. Those I banged and those I wanna bang.
Both are made of plastic and filled with air..........Cretin!
Bosnian

Holden, MA

#9 Mar 7, 2013
First wrote:
You've got to be the friend a friend would like to have.
Well said honest trustworthy true friend
fedup

Utica, NY

#10 Mar 7, 2013
KY WELLER34 wrote:
I have 2 types of friends. Those I banged and those I wanna bang.
Unfotunately, this is true all too often. Esp. With guys.
fedup

Utica, NY

#11 Mar 7, 2013
bud peck wrote:
Yes, get a dog or a cat. They love you unconditionally.
So true!!!
fedup

Utica, NY

#12 Mar 7, 2013
First wrote:
You've got to be the friend a friend would like to have.
I like to think i am!
Bosnian

Holden, MA

#13 Mar 7, 2013
fedup wrote:
<quoted text>I like to think i am!
U have something to tell me say it in my face!
mary

Nassau, NY

#14 Mar 7, 2013
Bosnian wrote:
<quoted text>U have something to tell me say it in my face!
Someone feelin guilty? Lol
Bosnian

Holden, MA

#15 Mar 7, 2013
mary wrote:
<quoted text>Someone feelin guilty? Lol
Yeah she is
fedup

Nassau, NY

#16 Mar 7, 2013
Bosnian wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah she is
I have nothin to feel guilty about, believe me.
knine

Nassau, NY

#17 Mar 7, 2013
Dont worry. It will get easier by the minute. Dont waste ur time. Females cant get along and if its a guy friend they usually only want one thing from a female. Once she stops that he wont want to know u. Sorry but its the truth. Good luck to u.
sadly

Utica, NY

#18 Mar 7, 2013
Unfortunately, one of the people will always be more committed to the friendship than the other. This doesn't make the other a bad person, just a simple fact that once this realization occurs, one of two things will happen: the person giving more will eventually grow tired and resentful of investing more into the friendship and walk away, or the taker will sense the impending "break up" if you will, and displace blame through any perceived fault in the other person that they can conjure up. Either way, the friendship is now irretrievably broken.
truthspoken

Utica, NY

#19 Mar 7, 2013
sadly wrote:
Unfortunately, one of the people will always be more committed to the friendship than the other. This doesn't make the other a bad person, just a simple fact that once this realization occurs, one of two things will happen: the person giving more will eventually grow tired and resentful of investing more into the friendship and walk away, or the taker will sense the impending "break up" if you will, and displace blame through any perceived fault in the other person that they can conjure up. Either way, the friendship is now irretrievably broken.
friendships are hard work. To be a friend you must me honest,non-judgmental, committed,interested and supportive among other things like YOU gotta be FUN. A friend can make you smile even on your worst day.

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