Men Who Turn Bitter After A Divorce

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Your Happy Ex

Utica, NY

#1 Dec 31, 2013
Do you know a guy that turned bitter after getting divorced?
truth

Jamesville, NY

#2 Dec 31, 2013
For many guys including myself, we were brought up in a day and age where you we were taught to put our wife on a pedestal and give our families the best. We believed in working hard. Unfortunately, there are far more factors working to destroy the traditional family unit than we could have ever imagined. Regardless of fault, it's not easy for anyone today man or women, to sit back and watch your finances get destroyed.

Use mediation and avoid the courts.
Insidious_Sid

Edmonton, Canada

#3 Apr 25, 2014
I'm as bitter as h3ll and I've come to believe that most women are just parasites in pretty wrapping and that it really just comes down to what they can get out of a man and how well they can blame him for their own personal character flaws and shortcomings before they walk off (most often better off for having been with the guy). You know you're bitter when you're not rebounding after being a prolific rebounder in the past. Honestly, if I was on a date and am asked the famous "So.... what do you DOOOOOO?" question I'd say "I'm an unemployed semi-professional drummer living in my brother's basement... oh, and I hope this place isn't too expensive for you..."
duh

Long Island City, NY

#4 Apr 25, 2014
Insidious_Sid wrote:
I'm as bitter as h3ll and I've come to believe that most women are just parasites in pretty wrapping and that it really just comes down to what they can get out of a man and how well they can blame him for their own personal character flaws and shortcomings before they walk off (most often better off for having been with the guy). You know you're bitter when you're not rebounding after being a prolific rebounder in the past. Honestly, if I was on a date and am asked the famous "So.... what do you DOOOOOO?" question I'd say "I'm an unemployed semi-professional drummer living in my brother's basement... oh, and I hope this place isn't too expensive for you..."
That's why you need to look for an equal. I don't feel sorry for men who marry just for looks or marry someone much younger than them. You didn't care when you married her when she didn't have a pot to piss in but then you complain about it years later. Too bad for you. I'm glad these women walk away better of financially than when first entering into the marriage.
Yeah Right

Utica, NY

#5 Apr 25, 2014
I was bitter for about a week, then I had a blast for years
Ckck please

Worcester, MA

#6 Apr 25, 2014
Me too !
Next pres

Holyoke, MA

#7 Apr 25, 2014
Me three
life is good

Clifton Park, NY

#8 Apr 25, 2014
Most women wouldn't know what to do with a good guy if they found one. In fact it's not until they get into their 40's and 50's while facing the prospect of being alone forever do they start to realize their looks are fading fast. Only then do they realize the mistake they made along the way. Nice guys who work hard are boring if you ask today's Current generation of women obsessesd with independence and looks. Television is much too blame. Simply put, women today are more confused than ever. So guys, don't take them serious and play on, because the minute you take em serious....your toast. Always keep the deck stacked with a back up on tap. Never get caught empty handed. They wanted the double standard, so give it to em and do the same thing back. In other words...play their game to win!!!!
Run for the border

Mountain View, CA

#9 Apr 25, 2014
Next pres wrote:
Me three
No bitterness only regret I didn't ship her out long before I did.
Valley Hoe

Marlborough, MA

#10 Apr 25, 2014
Women in their fifties got lots of baggage as well. Alot of them will die alone. You would think in your forties and fifties the drama would end. But alot are trying to be their daughters. Women today are wacked.
Route 66

San Jose, CA

#11 Apr 26, 2014
Bruce K.
threw it all away

Rome, NY

#12 Apr 26, 2014
I dumped my husband for a lot of reasons. Now I'm 60 single and sorry I did it. Oh Well life goes on. Till this day he's still bitter.
ummm

New Hartford, NY

#13 Apr 26, 2014
Your Happy Ex wrote:
Do you know a guy that turned bitter after getting divorced?
Most of them, just read these posts! Here's a tip, get over yourselves.
Hey there

Enfield, CT

#14 Apr 27, 2014
life is good wrote:
Most women wouldn't know what to do with a good guy if they found one. In fact it's not until they get into their 40's and 50's while facing the prospect of being alone forever do they start to realize their looks are fading fast. Only then do they realize the mistake they made along the way. Nice guys who work hard are boring if you ask today's Current generation of women obsessesd with independence and looks. Television is much too blame. Simply put, women today are more confused than ever. So guys, don't take them serious and play on, because the minute you take em serious....your toast. Always keep the deck stacked with a back up on tap. Never get caught empty handed. They wanted the double standard, so give it to em and do the same thing back. In other words...play their game to win!!!!
I'll be true to you if you are decent looking and true to me .

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