Clinton Figure Skating Club

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concerned

Denmark

#1 May 19, 2009
They continue to ask for their threads to be removed. They do not want any discussion about the club. The board members want to continue to control the club from behind the scenes. It's a mess...the club is filled wioth Alcoholism, Adultry, Corruption, and Coersion. The board will not remove the cancerous members. They are circling the bowl.......
Frustrated Parent

Staten Island, NY

#3 May 26, 2009
The issue is really how much control the board should have over who coaches your child. If the coach and your child have a good relationship, isn't that really what it is Suppose to be about??????
Searching

Clinton, NY

#6 May 27, 2009
confused

Pompano Beach, FL

#12 May 29, 2009
so what is this blog really about?
stud

Auburn, NY

#13 May 29, 2009
not sure
confused

Pompano Beach, FL

#14 May 29, 2009
I often go to the topix blogs from the utica area as i lived there most of my life and when I saw this blog a while ago I was quite dismayed! To think that parents and children were writing such nasty things made me think I was reading a HIGH SCHOOL blog! Then all of a sudden it disappeared so I thought maybe the folks at topix got smart because all the things they had on there were quite obviously against everything that is the rules of this forum site....
Unfortunately I see someone started all over again. You, whoever you are, do yourself a favor and stop this stupidity before YOU get named and all your shortfalls and such get said! It is obvious top me that Skater parent WAS on this very board. Hmmmm..... interestingly enough I see this person is unhappy not only about the original topic(?coaching issues?) but how things were ran. If so, skater parent, why didn't you do something to change it when you had the chance? Or did you do soemthing wrong and get yourself ostracized? You know what they say.... Thou doth protest too much!
Grow up, stop the bashing and look at the big picture, there are obviously more than just a few kids affected right? Don't they matter and doesn't the fact that the other coaches there are still working mean something? Obviously they lived up to their ends of the bargain!
I usually refrain from this nonsense but I see the bashing from the original forum is returning and this is once again becoming a slander fest. Some of us don't care what you think of these other people. I for one am making a very LOUD complaint to topix!
confused

Pompano Beach, FL

#19 May 29, 2009
dontbefooled wrote:
Concerned, I have no idea what your blathering about. I'm confused as to why someone living in West Palm Fla would have or take the time to visit this shithole of a blog. You must not have much of a life if you do. Do you really live there or are you really part of the CFSC? Anyway, this isn't about a coach, it's about a group of narcissistic women with severe myopic views on how the organization should be run. They continue to disrespect themselves, the club, and the town. Unfortunately, they are in control. Currently, this is no place for a teenage girl. What will she learn? How to sleep around, or be drunk in public? The club is circling the bowl..
I said what I said! I do have a life, but i doesn't mean i don't look a a blog from my old hometown. Why would you suggest otherwise? What kind of an idiot are you anyways? Oh I know One who has nothing better to do than write blogs under different names or maybe you have some "adult" help with the big words.
Call the usfs, have them "fix" your problems, if this is truly is all the bad things you have said, then it sounds like an open and shut case. YOU GET A LIFE!
confused

Pompano Beach, FL

#20 May 29, 2009
dontbefooled wrote:
Concerned, I have no idea what your blathering about. I'm confused as to why someone living in West Palm Fla would have or take the time to visit this shithole of a blog. You must not have much of a life if you do. Do you really live there or are you really part of the CFSC? Anyway, this isn't about a coach, it's about a group of narcissistic women with severe myopic views on how the organization should be run. They continue to disrespect themselves, the club, and the town. Unfortunately, they are in control. Currently, this is no place for a teenage girl. What will she learn? How to sleep around, or be drunk in public? The club is circling the bowl..
oh and let the "club circle the bowl" why do you care?
Searching

Clinton, NY

#21 May 29, 2009
jonas wrote:
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Obviously, very few, if any, CFSC board members have actually read this document. Particularly, the "ethics" section.
The board members are most likely VERY aware of this document and hope no one else is, as it outlines precisely how to deal with them: Organize an uninvolved group of people to investigate and interview all parties and then make a ruling. Apparently there have been similar problems in the past, as the document states: "Ninety-eight percent of the people who sit on boards have good intentions and
are all “trainable.” But the other two percent are usually the problem and can be the
most destructive members of the team. This two percent can be characterized as
serving for the “power or authority” that they feel comes from the position. They usually
have hidden agendas and unfortunately cause 98 percent of the problems and consume
98 percent of the board’s time. This is the chief reason to have a clear process for
dealing with these caustic people and the conflict that comes along with them. If
ignored and not dealt with, this type of conflict can destroy a club." A board member had previously asked you, "why don't you leave and go elsewhere? If I were that unhappy, I wouldn't stay". This coming from someone who MADE you unhappy.
slander

AOL

#22 May 30, 2009
this is rediculous, this has turned very ugly and people who work very hard for free are getting hurt. why are people so interested in lying and making up stories, topix needs to control and report those who are writing this slander! very sad! good for west palm sticking up for this too!!!
skatergurl

West Bend, WI

#23 May 30, 2009
slander wrote:
this is rediculous, this has turned very ugly and people who work very hard for free are getting hurt. why are people so interested in lying and making up stories, topix needs to control and report those who are writing this slander! very sad! good for west palm sticking up for this too!!!
You mean "libel", not "slander". You may want to take a minute and inform yourself of the difference between the two.
Im so done

AOL

#24 May 30, 2009
Good Luck CFSC. Hope you have all this backed up. I do and have investigated the people behind this blog. Can you say hacker! I sure hope you doctors, lawyers, social workers, insurance people, correctional officers, teachers, kids and parents don't mind when all your names show up. Good luck to you all as well. I'm out!
slander

AOL

#25 May 30, 2009
Slander is an untruthful oral (spoken) statement about a person that harms the person's reputation or standing in the community. Because slander is a tort (a civil wrong), the injured person can bring a lawsuit against the person who made the false statement. If the statement is made via broadcast media -- for example, over the radio or on TV -- it is considered libel, rather than slander, because the statement has the potential to reach a very wide audience.
yes u are right! either way..this is sick!
confused andbewildered

Lake Worth, FL

#26 May 30, 2009
wow..u need lives
wondering

Newport, NY

#30 May 30, 2009
Does snyone know where I can buy broccolli, squash and tomato plants?
veggie grower

Cortland, NY

#31 May 30, 2009
wondering wrote:
Does snyone know where I can buy broccolli, squash and tomato plants?
great place in canastota
ill

Cortland, NY

#32 May 30, 2009
luvin it wrote:
<quoted text>whatta blog!!!! Pat is steaming!!
And how sad is all this??? You all need to stop.....
An Observer

AOL

#34 May 31, 2009
hmm wrote:
<quoted text>
I thought this blog went away, but I found the teen scene looking at it last night.
Do you people, all sides, claiming to be standing up for the truth really need to name the names of board members, parents and children is such a tawdry public forum? What's your goal? Just turn the other cheek, people, and move on. Fight for or defend for your position in way you can respect yourself for. Or else admit to yourselves that you are no better than those you condemn.
So then u admit it's the truth about those condemned?
hmm

United States

#35 May 31, 2009
An Observer wrote:
<quoted text>So then u admit it's the truth about those condemned?
I think there is truth in parts all sides say. Respect yourselves, people, is my only point. Me, I've told my child and her friends that nothing good comes from looking at this blog and I'm going to practice what I preach. Good bye and good luck.
FInally

Utica, NY

#36 Jun 2, 2009
Wow it's amazing to me that when finally someone spoke up in defense of the board members and told the things all the bloggers were guilty of, things got removed. Personally I am thrilled they got removed.... ALL of them should!
Like they say, people who live in GLASS houses should not be casting stones!
To whoever removed them... good for you!

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