Was i Raped?
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Wondering

Ithaca, NY

#1 Dec 12, 2012
About a decade ago I had sex with my brothers friend who was 24. Was I raped? Also can I still press charges and sue him for that? he has a good job and alot of moneynow and if he did rape me I think I should be compensated!
Wondering

Ithaca, NY

#2 Dec 12, 2012
It was concentual but I think the law says I can't give consent at 16, so I think i was raped.
Wow

Conklin, NY

#3 Dec 12, 2012
And we wonder what's wrong with women!
YES BY A GARRAMONE

Hamilton, NY

#4 Dec 12, 2012
if your 12
Wondering

Ithaca, NY

#5 Dec 12, 2012
What do you mean whats wrong with woman? The lw is the law for a reason!!I just wanted to know if I was raped? i see alot of people on the Sex offender Registry List for this, so it must be true.
wondering

Ithaca, NY

#6 Dec 12, 2012
Well i see lots of peopel on the sex offender website because of tis. the la is the law d I was raped! ont you think rapists should be in jail? If others are charge with rape for this why shouldnt he?
mike jones

United States

#7 Dec 12, 2012
Wondering wrote:
It was concentual but I think the law says I can't give consent at 16, so I think i was raped.
if you have to ask the answer is NO. Stop using your money snatching tactics to ruin people. You are a disgrace to women who have actually endured something so brutal and against their will. Grow up youre selfish!
wondering

Ithaca, NY

#8 Dec 12, 2012
Ok then s why are people on the list for consetual sex with 16 year olds then? Why is it called rape if it isn't? I have been ding some researc and it is calld Rap in the 3rd degree. Thelaw is the law and I think i should press charges!
denny

Fayetteville, NY

#9 Dec 12, 2012
Why don't you post in the welfare scum hole Rome topix, there are probable hundreds of white trash scum like you and your family that can't think for themselves.
Derp

Brooklyn, NY

#10 Dec 12, 2012
So you were a slut 10 years ago, and now you want a payout for it. That makes you a prostitute too.
wondering

Blossvale, NY

#11 Dec 12, 2012
no was a raped i am the victim
forfree

Oneonta, NY

#12 Dec 12, 2012
Why u wait 10 years . You see him doing good and your lazy and you wanna scream rape a decade later . Sounds like you tried comming back for more and you got turned down . Try getting a job , instead of scamming
Jane

East Haven, CT

#14 Dec 12, 2012
You can't sue someone for raping you. You press charges and they get punished. It's not a money making scam, you idiot.
Jane

East Haven, CT

#15 Dec 12, 2012
wondering wrote:
Ok then s why are people on the list for consetual sex with 16 year olds then? Why is it called rape if it isn't? I have been ding some researc and it is calld Rap in the 3rd degree. Thelaw is the law and I think i should press charges!
Why don't you do some research on proper grammar.
take the bb down

Earlville, NY

#16 Dec 12, 2012
wondering wrote:
no was a raped i am the victim
poor poor you yes you were raped,nows the time for you too make that white boy as sad as you. find yourself a good black man like me and give me all that white boys stuff
Lonnie

Whitesboro, NY

#17 Dec 12, 2012
Did you ask for it by dresing provocitivly? Some girls are just asking to be raped by the way they dres and it is there own falt for asking for it.

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Since: Dec 12

Utica, NY

#18 Dec 12, 2012
By definition of law (in NYS at least) its considered Statutory Rape (under 17 years of age) to my understanding (or misunderstanding...either way)

This was a good site that explained it:
http://www.avvo.com/legal-guides/New-York-Age...

Also:
http://www.nycagainstrape.org/media/fhp/nysca...

However, I am not a lawyer, nor do I pretend to be

Google > Copy > Paste

Good luck, God bless and if it was an awful, life altering experience, I pray for you..."Wondering" from Rome, NY
Could be

United States

#19 Dec 12, 2012
that the statute of limitations is up.
Girls view

Earlville, NY

#20 Dec 12, 2012
wondering wrote:
no was a raped i am the victim
Were you forced to have sex with him? By that I mean were you held down in any way, did you say no, did you struggle to get away at any time? Were you upset immediately afterward?

Because if you were just talked into sex, then that sucks but it is not rape.
Too Late Now Gold Digger

United States

#21 Dec 12, 2012
Yes, the statute of limitations has already come and gone on that common "crime". Why did you wait until the guy was doing very well in life to even consider making a legal issue out of what was consentual sex, although you were still, in the eyes of the law, a minor at the time and not legally allowed to give consent to having sexual intercourse. You should have told a parent or other adult about your encounter(s)with this guy years ago. That guy was wrong for not waiting until you were 17(Legal age)to fool around with you, but now you're wrong for thinking there should be a payday in it for you as punishment because he makes good money at his job. Get a job of your own and move on with your life!

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