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Longo report: Ladies,this is why you don't marry cops....

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Steve Zalewski

East Syracuse, NY

#1 Dec 30, 2009
They are no f*ckin good!!!!
Tyra

Syracuse, NY

#2 Dec 30, 2009
Why? because one flipped a crazy switch does that make all police no f*cking good as you say. That's right it doesn't. Just because he was a coward and decided to steal his wifes life from their children and the rest of her family and friends doesn't make all police bad. I know many police officers that would never ever abuse, mentally, verbally or physically, their wives and children, and who would never ever decide or think that murder was the easy way out. He decided to be a coward. Be it in the heat of the moment or a planned thing. He decide to rob his wife of her life. But that in no way means ALL POLICE are the same.
Law Biding Citizen

United States

#3 Dec 30, 2009
Steve Zalewski wrote:
They are no f*ckin good!!!!
What A stupid post. Every day that they go to work they know they are going to be dealing with the dark side of our society. It's a tough job and who would you call if someone was trying to break into your home or about to harm a family member. I expect police officers to be a little standoffish, concerning that they never know who they are confronting while doing their duty.
Utica Wives Club

Syracuse, NY

#4 Dec 30, 2009
I think that Zalewski was referring in part to the fact that almost ALL Utica cops cheat on their wives. And if you are a cop's wife and don't believe my statement to be true, you are living in a fool's paradise.
Thanks

Oneida, NY

#5 Dec 30, 2009
Tyra wrote:
Why? because one flipped a crazy switch does that make all police no f*cking good as you say. That's right it doesn't. Just because he was a coward and decided to steal his wifes life from their children and the rest of her family and friends doesn't make all police bad. I know many police officers that would never ever abuse, mentally, verbally or physically, their wives and children, and who would never ever decide or think that murder was the easy way out. He decided to be a coward. Be it in the heat of the moment or a planned thing. He decide to rob his wife of her life. But that in no way means ALL POLICE are the same.
I don't think any intelligent person is going to take this post seriously but I really do thank you for your defense of us. Unfortunately I do work with guys who cheat on their spouses but I also work with family men who are completely devoted to their wives and children, those are the ones I always respected and looked up to when I first got on. You are going to find men and women who cheat in any line of work. You certainly can't define the behavior of an entire group of people based on the evil actions of one man. Thanks again your words are much appreciated.
Really

New York, NY

#6 Dec 30, 2009
Utica Wives Club wrote:
I think that Zalewski was referring in part to the fact that almost ALL Utica cops cheat on their wives. And if you are a cop's wife and don't believe my statement to be true, you are living in a fool's paradise.
Do you know this to be a fact?While I believe this woman was a huge part of the reason for this tragedy,I dont think every cop cheats on his wife.
Just wondering

Manlius, NY

#7 Dec 30, 2009
I will say that MOST cops are very controling, posessive, and strong willed. That is what makes them cop material. Unfortunately, that also makes them lousy marriage partners, unless thay marry a wimpy, woman who will do what she is told and keep her mouth shut. The relationship, and life is definately all about them and when they don't get their way, there is hell to pay. I have seen it over and over again in the past 50 years.

My step daughter escaped from one of these relationships a few years ago, before it got too bad, and we are all breathing a sigh of relief.
The frustrating part of the situation is that most women fall out of love with a cop for the same reasons that they fell in love with them in the first place. The cops love life is sort of doomed to failure from the start.
No sense

Antwerp, NY

#8 Dec 30, 2009
It's hard to feel bad for all of the cop groupies. They know the cops are married, and they still throw themselves at them. They're attracted to them even though they are fully aware that some of these cops are pieces of shit. Not all cops, but there are more than enough running around with chips on their shoulders. And I'm not condoning any harm coming to these "cop groupies". Just saying that it's hard to feel bad for a woman that hooks up with an idiot, and then when she's finally had enough, wants the world to give her a pity party.

And with the Longo case, it sucks, but it does seem that some very bad decisions were made by all involved, including the victim.
Thank U Come Again

Syracuse, NY

#9 Dec 30, 2009
No sense wrote:
It's hard to feel bad for all of the cop groupies. They know the cops are married, and they still throw themselves at them. They're attracted to them even though they are fully aware that some of these cops are pieces of shit. Not all cops, but there are more than enough running around with chips on their shoulders. And I'm not condoning any harm coming to these "cop groupies". Just saying that it's hard to feel bad for a woman that hooks up with an idiot, and then when she's finally had enough, wants the world to give her a pity party.
And with the Longo case, it sucks, but it does seem that some very bad decisions were made by all involved, including the victim.


Isn't your shift at the Stewart's or Burger King starting soon?
Steve Zalewski

East Syracuse, NY

#10 Dec 30, 2009
Just wondering wrote:
I will say that MOST cops are very controling, posessive, and strong willed. That is what makes them cop material. Unfortunately, that also makes them lousy marriage partners, unless thay marry a wimpy, woman who will do what she is told and keep her mouth shut. The relationship, and life is definately all about them and when they don't get their way, there is hell to pay. I have seen it over and over again in the past 50 years.
My step daughter escaped from one of these relationships a few years ago, before it got too bad, and we are all breathing a sigh of relief.
The frustrating part of the situation is that most women fall out of love with a cop for the same reasons that they fell in love with them in the first place. The cops love life is sort of doomed to failure from the start.
Well put my friend especially the last paragraph.
Steve Zalewski

East Syracuse, NY

#11 Dec 30, 2009
I have never figured out the affinity women have for cops. I guess they must feel "safe" when they first meet and then it is all downhill from there.
Stay In Sissyro

Syracuse, NY

#12 Dec 30, 2009
Whereas when they meet you they are immediately at the bottom and just remain there forever.
Utica Wives Club

Syracuse, NY

#13 Dec 30, 2009
Really wrote:
<quoted text>Do you know this to be a fact?While I believe this woman was a huge part of the reason for this tragedy,I dont think every cop cheats on his wife.
You either don't know a lot of Utica cops or have your head buried in the sand.
Pathetic

Oneida, NY

#14 Dec 30, 2009
The real root question you have to ask yourself is this: Why is the person who made this thread concerned with the romantic relationships of cops...there has to be some reason for the concern..Was a girl whom he was with ditch him for a cop? Is he jealous because he perceives cops as attracting more women then him? I mean really who gives a fu*K dude just LIVE YOUR LIFE and get off the computer...go to the gym, volunteer, play a sport, and you might be the guy getting more puS7y instead of inquring about the attraction some women have to police officers and making stupid generalizations about people you don't know.
ABC News

Englewood, CO

#15 Dec 30, 2009
Although I agree that all cops are not bad. It's hard to know what you would do in any given situation unless you're there. Sure we can all say I would never do what Joe Longo did, but how do you know that if you've never walked in his shoes?
Law Biding Citizen wrote:
<quoted text>
What A stupid post. Every day that they go to work they know they are going to be dealing with the dark side of our society. It's a tough job and who would you call if someone was trying to break into your home or about to harm a family member. I expect police officers to be a little standoffish, concerning that they never know who they are confronting while doing their duty.
Really

New York, NY

#16 Dec 31, 2009
Utica Wives Club wrote:
<quoted text>
You either don't know a lot of Utica cops or have your head buried in the sand.
With all do respect,I ,in fact,know a few policemen.And I have alot of repect for them.Its a shame that you put them all in a basket and call them bad apples.When that is just not the case.While I do not agree with what happened with the poor Longo family,that doesnt make all police cheaters.But, I will say that they are human.And all humans make mistakes in life.You,my friend,are included in the mix.As far as my head in the sand,I think not.I feel you have been hurt,Im sorry for that,but dont judge them all.You might need them someday(I hope not)and then change your mind thought.Good day to you.
bless you

Kansas City, MO

#17 Dec 31, 2009
Steve Zalewski wrote:
They are no f*ckin good!!!!
Thanks,keeping leeches at bay.

With the free ride through life,free jobs,maybe
they could teach stanks how to get through life without
drawing the life out of a man,maybe that p$g would
not have been made into a pin cushion.

Lets see how much money pin cushion gets now.
Pleeeeze

New York, NY

#18 Dec 31, 2009
bless you wrote:
<quoted text>
Thanks,keeping leeches at bay.
With the free ride through life,free jobs,maybe
they could teach stanks how to get through life without
drawing the life out of a man,maybe that p$g would
not have been made into a pin cushion.
Lets see how much money pin cushion gets now.
Thats just so wrong on so many levels, dude,Get some help
wrong

Manlius, NY

#19 Dec 31, 2009
Wrong! what they meant to say and what the Topic should read is: Ladies, this is why you dont marry an Italian!

They are the most jealous, insecure, unstable people on earth! They prove this on there own time and time again!
nick gertz

Watertown, NY

#20 Dec 31, 2009
pigs suk

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