Men Who Lead Women On and Then Dump Them

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I Lived It

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Aug 12, 2012
 

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What kinda men are out there today? Obviously, men who enjoy playing games with women. Men who look for a soft shoulder to cry on & add just a bit of a come-on.

I work with a man who has had tons of marital problems. He always thought nothing of telling all his problems to me & all others that will listen. Oh, but how he enjoyed playing with the feelings of single, unattached women.

This clown came over to my desk to tell me how he & his wife FINALLY split up. She took the kid with her. After all the complaining he did about his years of unhappiness with her, you'd think he'd be relieved, right? Oh, he had plenty of rotten things to say about her & made it quite clear he was available.

Vulnerable me, met him out one night after work. After dinner/drinks, we end up at my place. Well, u guessed it.....he said all the right things & made all the right moves. Didn't see him after a long weekend. But, once back-to-work, I noticed he seemed distant. Stopped playing up to me like he always did. No more shoulder to cry on. I saw him on break & asked him what was up. He told me things between us were heating up too fast. He needs his space & that he is trying to get his wife back! The SAME wife he bitched about for the last cpl yrs!

I don't get it. Where did I go wrong? I think these freaking men want their cake & eat it, too.

I now have to see him on a M-F daily basis. MY heart is breaking from all the 'right' things he said to me & he moves around the office like I mean nothing to him. I'm sure I don't.

How can u trash your wife, put the moves on someone else & then when she responds to you......just DUMP her?

If I didn't have as many yrs as I do with this company, I would look for another job just to get as far away from this mixed up guy as I can!!!
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Aug 12, 2012
 
Tell him to gfh and then sue your company for sexual harassment
Golden rule

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Number one, you broke the golden rule. Never get involved with someone you work with. Number two, be thankful your not the poor woman married to this 'player'.
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Aug 12, 2012
 
maybe you shud justhill out and maybe you will et it agan
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#8
Aug 12, 2012
 
The next time he cries on your shoulder tell him it'll cost $250, cash upfront. Don't think of yourself as a prostitute. You don't do this for a living anyway. You might as well get something outta this deal. He was probly a lousy lay anyway, right?

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Met this kid 21 yesterday, states he is straight but was hitting on men. His name in e-mails as Brian Campbell, rude and vindictive, has e-mail address of greenhawkdj@gmail.com.
This is not harassment, but he is rude and men of all ages should avoid him
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Aug 13, 2012
 
Hey I LIVED IT I will come back and be around you if the sex is good, so drop me a line!
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Aug 13, 2012
 
Whatever you do, don't post his work phone number & extension on topix.... Can you imagine the calls he would get?

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#12
Aug 13, 2012
 
If you're stupid enough to fall for the lines, then it's your fault not the guys.He said and did all the right things and got you to have sex with him, and then you wonder why he started acting cold to you. Maybe it was just to get some A$$ from you.
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Aug 13, 2012
 
Sorry about your story. You were stupid but this time it's ok because ...

You DID learn something. Don't do this again.

BTW, what goes around comes around and if he is a POS, it will come around sooner than you think.

The bonus is, you won't have to do anything, it will happen all by itself.

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Aug 13, 2012
 
Real Cheese wrote:
Sorry about your story. You were stupid but this time it's ok because ...
You DID learn something. Don't do this again.
BTW, what goes around comes around and if he is a POS, it will come around sooner than you think.
The bonus is, you won't have to do anything, it will happen all by itself.
Then she can laugh her ass off!
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Aug 13, 2012
 
I Lived It wrote:
What kinda men are out there today? Obviously, men who enjoy playing games with women. Men who look for a soft shoulder to cry on & add just a bit of a come-on.

I work with a man who has had tons of marital problems. He always thought nothing of telling all his problems to me & all others that will listen. Oh, but how he enjoyed playing with the feelings of single, unattached women.

This clown came over to my desk to tell me how he & his wife FINALLY split up. She took the kid with her. After all the complaining he did about his years of unhappiness with her, you'd think he'd be relieved, right? Oh, he had plenty of rotten things to say about her & made it quite clear he was available.

Vulnerable me, met him out one night after work. After dinner/drinks, we end up at my place. Well, u guessed it.....he said all the right things & made all the right moves. Didn't see him after a long weekend. But, once back-to-work, I noticed he seemed distant. Stopped playing up to me like he always did. No more shoulder to cry on. I saw him on break & asked him what was up. He told me things between us were heating up too fast. He needs his space & that he is trying to get his wife back! The SAME wife he bitched about for the last cpl yrs!

I don't get it. Where did I go wrong? I think these freaking men want their cake & eat it, too.

I now have to see him on a M-F daily basis. MY heart is breaking from all the 'right' things he said to me & he moves around the office like I mean nothing to him. I'm sure I don't.

How can u trash your wife, put the moves on someone else & then when she responds to you......just DUMP her?

If I didn't have as many yrs as I do with this company, I would look for another job just to get as far away from this mixed up guy as I can!!!
I'm sorry for your pain. I can relate similar story happened to me . Not at work place though. He said all right things, I truly didn't want any involvement I finally gave in and one thing led to another. This went on for a year. One day he tells me he is done. Like I was a light switch. My emotions were so out of control I'm finally over it. But men are filthy filthy dogs. They have no emotion And no regards to our emotions. Karma is a nasty bitch I can't wait because he who laughs last laughs best! My heart feels for you girl. Hope you learned I did
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Aug 13, 2012
 
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I'm sorry for your pain. I can relate similar story happened to me . Not at work place though. He said all right things, I truly didn't want any involvement I finally gave in and one thing led to another. This went on for a year. One day he tells me he is done. Like I was a light switch. My emotions were so out of control I'm finally over it. But men are filthy filthy dogs. They have no emotion And no regards to our emotions. Karma is a nasty bitch I can't wait because he who laughs last laughs best! My heart feels for you girl. Hope you learned I did
Exactly! He was all about me. Unhappy marriage. I had feelings for him that I never thought I could have again. THEN...he did a complete 180 on me. Tells me things are going too fast etc. It hurts.
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<quoted text>Exactly! He was all about me. Unhappy marriage. I had feelings for him that I never thought I could have again. THEN...he did a complete 180 on me. Tells me things are going too fast etc. It hurts.
men love to chase The hunt for c"nt
Once they kill the prey they don't want it! I hope their daughters marry these Same men,
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Feb 18, 2013
 
I was played by a guy, we met from an on-line dating service. We turned out we lived only 3 miles apart. We dated for 8 months, all was going great. He even gave me a promise ring for my birthday. He did ask me to move in with him about 3 months after we met. I didn't, so glad I didn't now! He trashed his ex-girlfriend and he blind sided me and went back with her after we were together for 8 months. Not to mention we went on a trip together not a month before we broke up. He came over to my house one night because he wanted to talk, I thought he was going to propose, instead, he said he had feelings for his ex-girlfriend. We broke up, the final kick in the gut, she moved in with him the day after we broke up and he married her 4 months after that. He really broke my heart. I didn't even have a clue he wanted to break up with me until that night he told me it was over. I am very happy now. I am married to a man that would never play me like my ex did.
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Feb 18, 2013
 
valley girl wrote:
I was played by a guy, we met from an on-line dating service. We turned out we lived only 3 miles apart. We dated for 8 months, all was going great. He even gave me a promise ring for my birthday. He did ask me to move in with him about 3 months after we met. I didn't, so glad I didn't now! He trashed his ex-girlfriend and he blind sided me and went back with her after we were together for 8 months. Not to mention we went on a trip together not a month before we broke up. He came over to my house one night because he wanted to talk, I thought he was going to propose, instead, he said he had feelings for his ex-girlfriend. We broke up, the final kick in the gut, she moved in with him the day after we broke up and he married her 4 months after that. He really broke my heart. I didn't even have a clue he wanted to break up with me until that night he told me it was over. I am very happy now. I am married to a man that would never play me like my ex did.
used u to bide his time never over her and vice versa
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Feb 19, 2013
 
East Utican wrote:
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men love to chase The hunt for c"nt
Once they kill the prey they don't want it! I hope their daughters marry these Same men,
Maybe your daughters will marry a black guy. Lol. If you cant see past his lies its half your own fault. Sleeping with him on a first date.....classy. maybe you were just horrible in bed and he didnt wanna waste any more baby batter on you?! Lol
u know who

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---that would be MOST of the Utica postmen!!
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Jan 1, 2014
 
Men who use women in this way are evil ****s. Nothing less.
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Jan 1, 2014
 
Some men just can't get out of their own way. They repeat the same cycle over and over again. I fell for it but never again. Unlike the others, we are long term & he was faithful - but not who he appeared to be. The sad part is, the same girls allow him in and out of their lives knowing he's married and that there are others. He lies to them repeatedly, yet they scratch his itch at whim and he abandons them once more. His looks are fading. What is it??

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