What is up with middle aged men?

What is up with middle aged men?

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Wiser

Jasper, AL

#1 Aug 22, 2013
Her husband is in great shape... Within the last few months began to pay for alterations so suits and shirts would be more form fitting. This is something he has never done before. On two separate occassions he has bought a new shirt in the middle of the day , while at work. He stated he needed to look better for a business meeting. Once again , this had never been necessary before. He is checking out younger women and forgot his 19th wedding anniversary. He blatantly showed interest in a waitress in front of his wife.(Asked the waitress her name three times and numerous other personal questions). Also-- behaves in an exasperated manner whe she calls him to say hi (mind you she only calls once a day if that and the conversation only lasts a couple of minutes). Again-- this had never been an issue before. Is he going through the midlife crisis or is he losing interest in his wife?
Vita

Utica, NY

#2 Aug 22, 2013
I say he is having an affair or thinking about it...
boo

Herkimer, NY

#3 Aug 22, 2013
Vita wrote:
I say he is having an affair or thinking about it...
I agree 100%
Truth

New York Mills, NY

#4 Aug 22, 2013
Fed up with his wife's constant nagging. Maybe she is obese and unwilling to stay fit like him. If he's into staying in shape, his wife should follow suit and not sit home like spoiled primadonna waiting for him to bring home a pay check.

Very few women in Utica bring anything of value to the table in the way of intellect or assets.

They take teaching jobs and sit home all summer to be with the kids....but most are really just lazy and don't want to work. It's a different world today.

The smarter, fitter, and more attractive (young or old)are appealing.

I suggest your friend get a makeover and reperk her husband's interest in her before he leaves.

People don't cheat for no reason. It takes two! The blame is often equal.
Wiser

Jasper, AL

#5 Aug 22, 2013
boo wrote:
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I agree 100%
Is there anything this person can do or is it a matter of where the chips may fall?
Wiser

Jasper, AL

#6 Aug 22, 2013
Truth wrote:
Fed up with his wife's constant nagging. Maybe she is obese and unwilling to stay fit like him. If he's into staying in shape, his wife should follow suit and not sit home like spoihim to bring home a pay check.
Very few women in Utica bring anything of value to the table in the way of intellect or assets.
They take teaching jobs and sit home all summer to be with the kids....but most are really just lazy and don't want to work. It's a different world today.
The smarter, fitter, and more attractive (young or old)are appealing.
I suggest your friend get a makeover and reperk her husband's interest in her before he leaves.
People don't cheat for no reason. It takes two! The blame is often equal.
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It his person a beautiful woman. A professional . In good shape. Stylish. Young men hit on her all the time. She could have cheated on him all along... But she didn't. She brought home the bacon and fried it too! Please reply.
Truth

New York Mills, NY

#7 Aug 22, 2013
Wiser wrote:
<quoted text>.
It his person a beautiful woman. A professional . In good shape. Stylish. Young men hit on her all the time. She could have cheated on him all along... But she didn't. She brought home the bacon and fried it too! Please reply.
People grow apart! Maybe she bragged to him how desirable she was. My ex used to do that all the time. After awhile, I told her to go indulge. It was a huge turn off. Eventually, she did and them I did.
Personally

Florence, MA

#8 Aug 22, 2013
Wiser wrote:
<quoted text>.
It his person a beautiful woman. A professional . In good shape. Stylish. Young men hit on her all the time. She could have cheated on him all along... But she didn't. She brought home the bacon and fried it too! Please reply.
if I was a waitress and that happened in wich I'm sure they're used to it I would be like what a creeper unfortunetly a lot of easy chicks that may not feel the same way , I'm sure this guy is going through something if I was the wife I make an attempt to make him feel real important without trying too hard he may just be starting to feel old . If I was the wife that's what I would do remember why the marriage lasted so long . She should work on herself . Don't get too suspicious only make room for unhappy thoughts just praise your man .
Honor Your Husband

New York Mills, NY

#9 Aug 22, 2013
Honor Your Husband Cont

New York Mills, NY

#10 Aug 22, 2013
Genesis 3:16
Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
1 Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
1 Corinthians 14:34-36
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
Ephesians 5:22-24
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Colossians 3:18
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
1 Timothy 2:11-15
Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing.
1 Peter 3:1
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands.
Wiser

Jasper, AL

#11 Aug 22, 2013
You sound angry and jaded. Revealing more about your fear or situation. Hope you are o.k.
haha

Staunton, VA

#12 Aug 22, 2013
they just want a little ego stroking and these women are just there to give it to them
Mocha Latte

Westwood, MA

#13 Aug 22, 2013
Every morning the gas station across from day lights is a hot guy that stops there. Looks like 40s. Married single we don't know , be he's hot
Mr Big Ten inch

Utica, NY

#14 Aug 22, 2013
Mocha Latte wrote:
Every morning the gas station across from day lights is a hot guy that stops there. Looks like 40s. Married single we don't know , be he's hot
That's me.
Mocha Latte

Westwood, MA

#15 Aug 22, 2013
Get out ! Ok what were you wearing this morning??
Mr Big Ten inch

Utica, NY

#16 Aug 22, 2013
Mocha Latte wrote:
Get out ! Ok what were you wearing this morning??
Under my clothes, I was naked.
Mocha Latte

Westwood, MA

#17 Aug 22, 2013
You're silly. See you tomorrow . We'll be sitting at the picnic able across the street
Hung

Sherburne, NY

#18 Aug 23, 2013
Mocha Latte wrote:
You're silly. See you tomorrow . We'll be sitting at the picnic able across the street
I'll be behind you ladies!
Valley Hoe

New York, NY

#19 Aug 23, 2013
I will meet you at Proctor Park around noon. Get there early lots of cheaters and not enough parking.
Reggie

Dallas, TX

#20 Aug 23, 2013
Valley Hoe wrote:
I will meet you at Proctor Park around noon. Get there early lots of cheaters and not enough parking.
Do they have Port-a-Potties if I want to rock out with "a friend"?

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