Agree

Lake Placid, NY

#23 May 4, 2011
Emotionally unstable women have the best sex hands down! You can thank the courts and the lawyers for causing them to have these "daddy issues" seeing how he was more than likely removed from their upbringing.
Who Cares

Santa Fe, NM

#24 May 4, 2011
Pump 'em and dump 'em ! Hit 'em and quit 'em ! Leave the used up carcass for the moon crickets. The more unstable they are, the more likely they are to swallow (more like GULP) it all down. The wackier they are, the easier it is to convince them that what you are "sharing" (rough anal sex)with her is "precious beyond words". Just, NEVER, tell them your real name or address. Have fun, amigo !
yet even more

Utica, NY

#25 May 4, 2011
Agree wrote:
Emotionally unstable women have the best sex hands down! You can thank the courts and the lawyers for causing them to have these "daddy issues" seeing how he was more than likely removed from their upbringing.
THATS a big fallacy. Sure there's wilduns I hear you totally, but on average the psycho ones, even the perfect 10s are usually a little boring or like their routines. Add to that the overal maintenance costs of the syco supermodels and its a surefire path to misery. And by the time they get dead or their heads screwed on half straight they've busted their looks. If you're THAT into it you need specialists. Think about it.
Cut N Run

Lake Placid, NY

#26 May 4, 2011
Who Cares wrote:
Pump 'em and dump 'em ! Hit 'em and quit 'em ! Leave the used up carcass for the moon crickets. The more unstable they are, the more likely they are to swallow (more like GULP) it all down. The wackier they are, the easier it is to convince them that what you are "sharing" (rough anal sex)with her is "precious beyond words". Just, NEVER, tell them your real name or address. Have fun, amigo !
Works like a charm. Don't fall in love with 'em. When it's over, run. Don't feed like a pig because you'll be in too deep.
G Z D

Houston, TX

#27 Jun 23, 2011
You girl sounds like my husband.
So I am writing from experience.
I unfortunately can also be considered an emotionally unstable girl and my husband can be considered an emotionally unstable man.
However, here is the difference.
I am aware that I am emotionally unstable. So I stya 2 steps ahead of trouble. I dont get near people or situations that may trigger me. We have 3 kids and I have built my life close to my home and kids to give myself a stable environment.
My husband on the other hand, is still mpulsive and seeks the company of other people who are out and about having fun. He does not want to settle down. He also gets himself to little trouble here and there.
I see a counsellor once month for the past 17 years to keep myself in check. If I am upset with my husband, I talk about it to teh counsellor and learn how to address it with my husband and then approach him. He usually stonewalls me still.
When my husband is upset at me, he feels like he has to punish me and is vondictive, even if it is something as smalla s i have parked my car behind his on the driveway.
So you see, what I am trying to say is...if a girl is emotionally instable, she may still be capable of being a good partner for you and a good mother and citizen, how ever, you have to see that a good instable person will never be vindictive. THey may have a fit when somethign triggers them but they will subject THEMSELF to counselling or medication or some structure to keep themselves stable.
If you have an unstable person not willing to do this, then it is best to stay away from them. If you are unable to define your boundaries or if they are not willing to accept your boundaries (just friends...) then you are not string enpugh to handle their weakness and its best to leave them all alone then to give them a chance to take you down with them at some point.
ace

Cortland, NY

#28 Jun 23, 2011
people are as crazy as they CHOOSE to be runa s fast as you can and dont look back,, no good can come from dealing with an ex!

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#29 Jun 23, 2011
You sound like you already know the answer. Dont let her ability to play with your emotions cause you to stay in a situation that will never be beneficial to you.
this_is_crazy

Karlsruhe, Germany

#30 Aug 22, 2011
So you were looking for someone who dated an emotionally unstable woman? Here I am. I would also say RUN. The qualities you mention had my ex too. But the day she felt she was getting better, she left me without reason (saying it wont work out). I went from being the love of her life to just another guy IN A DAY. It hits you like a rock. I used to ignore her emotional baggage too. Used to be highly supportive, hear her out and stuff. These people cannot be helped I am sorry. They just bring you down. You deserve much better than a sorry woman who cannot even take care of herself. You want to play father, get a nice woman and make kids. Atleast kids are thankful and will be there with you forever. I wasted 21/2 years of my life. DONT DO THE SAME...
this_is_crazy

Karlsruhe, Germany

#31 Aug 22, 2011
My last post...
Dont worry, they would not even repent it. They will be gone and you will be left wondering wtf just happened? They are not even capable of being in a position of being repentant.
been their

Little Falls, NY

#32 Aug 22, 2011
bipolar, good luck
Been there

Utica, NY

#33 Aug 22, 2011
Curious wrote:
Many years ago I fell in love with an emotionally unstable woman. All of the classic signs were there in the beginning. I chose to ignore them. I knew eventually she would get her self involved in other situations by cheating on me and sharing the sex I thought was sacred. I chose not to marry her as a means of self protection. She's a sweet, wonderful and beautiful person with old world values. But, her emotions get the bet of her which leads to manipulative, deceitful, and fraudulent behavior.
I would dare say she's the vindictive type as much as she just makes poor choices driven by emotion. That's the story of her life. Good men who loved her all ran for the hills. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and now I feel trapped. I'm getting help in order to move on.
Recently, she finally hit rock bottom and I convinced her to seek professional help through extensive psychotherapy treatments. I'm proud she's finally getting it. She doesn't want to lose me but I keep telling her she should see my friendship as my commitment to her after what she did. That's not good enough for her..she wants more and is scared to face life alone
Now, she's suicidal and sees no purpose in life because I'm moving on. Sure, I feel terrible for her. My question is this...and yes it's topix but I'll put it out there:
Can An Emotionally Unstable Woman Ever Be Trusted Again?
Like you've heard already, RUN! You can love her all you want but until she truly loves herself then theres no sense in hoping. Old habits are hard to break especially that vindictive habit. Once you clearly know what one is capable of you have to understand that they will do it again. Its part of their DNA. Women like this think that if they just find the right man that it'll make them different which is B.S.. Women like this needs professional counseling and even then I wouldnt try. Dont let your heart put you in a situation that your mind knows isnt right.
drako

Canton, OH

#34 Jul 16, 2012
if she crazy and shecheated u better leave before u kill her
drako

Canton, OH

#35 Jul 16, 2012
wow thats funny
Been there

Utica, NY

#36 Jul 16, 2012
Run!
way it

Brooklyn, NY

#37 Jul 16, 2012
Just be careful what u tell her and always maintain back up. Take note of her habits, journal them and save them for your own protection
Cat in the Hat

Utica, NY

#38 Jul 16, 2012
Curious wrote:
Many years ago I fell in love with an emotionally unstable woman. All of the classic signs were there in the beginning. I chose to ignore them. I knew eventually she would get her self involved in other situations by cheating on me and sharing the sex I thought was sacred. I chose not to marry her as a means of self protection. She's a sweet, wonderful and beautiful person with old world values. But, her emotions get the bet of her which leads to manipulative, deceitful, and fraudulent behavior.
I would dare say she's the vindictive type as much as she just makes poor choices driven by emotion. That's the story of her life. Good men who loved her all ran for the hills. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and now I feel trapped. I'm getting help in order to move on.
Recently, she finally hit rock bottom and I convinced her to seek professional help through extensive psychotherapy treatments. I'm proud she's finally getting it. She doesn't want to lose me but I keep telling her she should see my friendship as my commitment to her after what she did. That's not good enough for her..she wants more and is scared to face life alone
Now, she's suicidal and sees no purpose in life because I'm moving on. Sure, I feel terrible for her. My question is this...and yes it's topix but I'll put it out there:
Can An Emotionally Unstable Woman Ever Be Trusted Again?
Leave her and run as fast as you can! It's nice to think she'll get better, but her wanting to commit suicide is a sign right there that she won't. Leave and let her stalk you the rest of your life! Lol! That's what one of those unstable girls did to me! Lol!
Your Call

Utica, NY

#39 Jul 17, 2012
Hopefully, as long as she stays on her medication she can. Once she goes off of it because she thinks she doesn't need it, that's when you're going to have MAJOR issues with her!
so true

Utica, NY

#40 Jul 17, 2012
Emotionally unstable women will give you the most erotic and incredible sexual experience that you can only imagine. Be good to them, act like their keeper, show genuine concern and they will love you for life. Don't ever try to leave them because you'll send them off the deep end.
getouttahere

Syracuse, NY

#41 Jul 17, 2012
she can never be trusted...i was in your shoes before.....my ex cheated....gave her the benefit of the doubt and gave her a 2nd chance....and she just did it again.

the old saying is true....once a cheater, always a cheater......even if she gets help and "changes her ways"........all it'll take is a drink, or a one time situation that she knows she'll get away with, before she cheats on you again.

plenty of other girls out there....let her dwell in her bad ways.
dont blame

Worcester, MA

#42 Jul 17, 2012
Any woman would cheat if the man plays games.if they get pregnant its because they wanted out of the relationship

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