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Mia

Utica, NY

#1 Jan 8, 2014
What is the point of breakin up if you only gonna downgrade? Why do so many people do this? Just makes no damn sense. Only in ootica!!
Whitesboro White Trash

Clifton Park, NY

#2 Jan 8, 2014
Mia wrote:
What is the point of breakin up if you only gonna downgrade? Why do so many people do this? Just makes no damn sense. Only in ootica!!
Now that you're broken up do yourself a favor. Leave that area.
Whitesboro White Trash

Clifton Park, NY

#4 Jan 8, 2014
Whitesboro White Trash wrote:
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Now that you're broken up do yourself a favor. Leave that area.
I endorse this.
Blondie

Utica, NY

#5 Jan 9, 2014
Some people prefer to downgrade. If a girl is too good of a catch, they fear she will leave him for someone better. They become paranoid and eventually drive the girl away. So instead, they settle for a less appealing girl - this way he can ensure she will stay with him, he can control her, and he knows her options are extremely limited. She won't leave him. This is the truth.
Wow

Paterson, NJ

#6 Jan 9, 2014
What a crappy way to go thru life. It amazes me how small minded you people are. You can judge one person against another by the way the look or how much money they have. Going from a classically pretty woman to one that may not have the classic looks is a down grade? Or a rich guy for one that isn't so rich is a downgrade ? That's ludicrous . Judging a persons worth and what you they have to offer someone is in their acts , not their words, or how much they have .
Brunette

Utica, NY

#7 Jan 9, 2014
People that feel the need to put down others (especially people they don't even know) really that just have low self esteem themselves. They show their insecurities by insulting everyone else-usually the new girlfriends/boyfriends/spouses . They try to make themselves feel better by calling names, which in turn just makes them look foolish, desperate and jealous. If everyone just moved on and minded their own business the world would be a much happier place. Remember jealousy is the best compliment
Wow

Paterson, NJ

#8 Jan 9, 2014
Don't waste your time brunette, people are what their thoughts make them.
Brunette

Utica, NY

#9 Jan 9, 2014
Or maybe these posters aren't really as great as they think they are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. To each their own. Small minded people who are this obsessed with themselves are usually very ugly on the inside anyway. I'm sure they aren't perfect and have skeletons in their closet which make them far less appealing
Yup

Watertown, NY

#10 Jan 10, 2014
What makes you think it's a downgrade? Maybe you were the downgrade but too full of yourself to realize it
Wow

Milford, MA

#11 Jan 10, 2014
There are a lot of people who are great looking, but unattractive
Pal

Selkirk, NY

#12 Jan 10, 2014
Sounds like ur better off Mia. This could be a good thing. Move on and enjoy it babe.
Red head

Utica, NY

#13 Jan 10, 2014
Brunette wrote:
Or maybe these posters aren't really as great as they think they are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. To each their own. Small minded people who are this obsessed with themselves are usually very ugly on the inside anyway. I'm sure they aren't perfect and have skeletons in their closet which make them far less appealing
I agree. Nobody is perfect. Sometimes people just deal with things by putting down their exes new significant other because they have trouble moving on. The new person shouldn't feed into their insecurities - it usually has NOTHING to do with them. Instead, show some class and keep quiet. You will be the better person in the end because you didn't stoop to that level
Blondie

Utica, NY

#14 Jan 10, 2014
Looks were never mentioned in my comment. I agree beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I personally would never refer to myself as "beautiful" nor make any comment on the looks of an exes new mate. Who cares what someone looks like? Personality, life style, hygiene, lack of class, cheating, etc are also "downgrades", and everyone has a right to their opinion. Although my comment may have been a little insensitive, Brunette is equally guilty. Calling the ex insecure is also judgemental, "assuming" she or he was the source of names & put downs especially on this site that trashes everybody, and even trying to one up them by mentioning jealousy shows she either feels inferior or is extremely insecure herself. Get over whomever you feel you are competing with. He is with you now, so be proud and forget everyone else.
snowy

Rome, NY

#15 Jan 10, 2014
Always remember: Rudeness is a weak persons imitation of strength...
Wow

Newark, NJ

#16 Jan 10, 2014
Beautiful women are for men without imaginations.
snowy

Rome, NY

#17 Jan 10, 2014
Wow wrote:
Beautiful women are for men without imaginations.
. Didn't care for your post, wow. So a man with a good imagination, would what? Imagine the ugly girl was beautiful? Not following your logic. If that's the case the guy sounds like a jerk.
Wow

Newark, NJ

#18 Jan 10, 2014
Snowy, have you ever opened a book ? Ever heard of Marcel Proust? Satire? God, I downgraded myself responding.
Wow

Newark, NJ

#19 Jan 10, 2014
Because whether you know it or not , you just made his point.
Brunette

Utica, NY

#20 Jan 10, 2014
Just calling someone a downgrade is an insult. I was just making a general statement. Didn't mean anything by it. We teach our children not to sit in judgement of others or to bully/call names so
We shouldn't do that as adults either. It's all good.
Sherri A

Utica, NY

#21 Jan 11, 2014
She went from

Chris.(baby daddy & great guy) to
Todd.(Womanizing drunk) to
Travis (drunk with baby mamas everywhere)

Whats next????

hahahahahahaha

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