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Unhappy wife

Utica, NY

#1 Sep 4, 2013
We all know them. Many of us live with them. They are the reason we either: drink, step out, are cold. We stay to keep our families together. We put on happy faces where there are none. We wish we never married them. They are bas*ards for husbands. Once the last kid is gone, so am I! Been socking away $$$$ for yrs planning my getaway. Won't he be surprised! I even get part of his pension! I earned it!!
Enjoy

Astoria, NY

#2 Sep 4, 2013
Unhappy wife wrote:
We all know them. Many of us live with them. They are the reason we either: drink, step out, are cold. We stay to keep our families together. We put on happy faces where there are none. We wish we never married them. They are bas*ards for husbands. Once the last kid is gone, so am I! Been socking away $$$$ for yrs planning my getaway. Won't he be surprised! I even get part of his pension! I earned it!!
Enjoy. I'm sure hell still be better off for it! Try to lose the aggy attitude and realize you'll never find that perfect one until you accept that that's your fate.

But who expects these fcked up upstate NYers to get that. Go south and marry a mellow easygoing tiger, preferably nobody who works in public sector failure or a sports goof. It's so easy to see these people a mile away why do so many walk willingly into the 9th circle of hell like that?
The facts

Utica, NY

#3 Sep 4, 2013
Unhappy wife wrote:
We all know them. Many of us live with them. They are the reason we either: drink, step out, are cold. We stay to keep our families together. We put on happy faces where there are none. We wish we never married them. They are bas*ards for husbands. Once the last kid is gone, so am I! Been socking away $$$$ for yrs planning my getaway. Won't he be surprised! I even get part of his pension! I earned it!!
You shouldn't sacrifice your own happiness for the sake of your children. Kids are stronger than you think, they pick up on tension in the house and seem to think they somehow are to blame.
Me too

Watertown, NY

#5 Sep 4, 2013
I have 7 and a half years to go. He can keep his money. I will pay him too get lost! I'm right there with ya.
hmmmpf

New Hartford, NY

#6 Sep 4, 2013
all men are liars
Woman

Milford, MA

#7 Sep 4, 2013
Just leave him.
johnnymear

Hampton, VA

#8 Sep 4, 2013
Unhappy, you are more nuts than your husband if you hang around, leave the bum, you and your kids will be fine!!!
losergasm

Meriden, CT

#9 Sep 5, 2013
Enjoy wrote:
<quoted text>Enjoy. I'm sure hell still be better off for it! Try to lose the aggy attitude and realize you'll never find that perfect one until you accept that that's your fate.
But who expects these fcked up upstate NYers to get that. Go south and marry a mellow easygoing tiger, preferably nobody who works in public sector failure or a sports goof. It's so easy to see these people a mile away why do so many walk willingly into the 9th circle of hell like that?
Hey troll, where in the south are they not 1000 times more obsessed with sports than upstate? Virginia, Florida, the Carolinas? All huge on high school sports, just shows that you probably have never left upstate. Oh and i forgot nobody cares about high school basketball in new York city right? Just give it up you're clueless
one who knows

Utica, NY

#10 Sep 5, 2013
johnnymear wrote:
Unhappy, you are more nuts than your husband if you hang around, leave the bum, you and your kids will be fine!!!
This is exactly why ALL married women should be educated enough to support themselves.

In this day and age - no woman should ever have to depend upon a woman to support her - she can do it by herself.

I raised 4 children completely on my own without any help from Social Services, Child Support, Food Stamps, Medicaid. They all are now married with families of their own and NONE of them got into any trouble with the law, turned to drugs and alcohol, and became assets to society.

It can be done - alot of hard work but YOU don't have to live a life of misery either. No man is worth giving up your self pride.
one who knows

Utica, NY

#11 Sep 5, 2013
CORRECTION: Second Paragragh should say "depend upon a ...."
one who knows

Utica, NY

#12 Sep 5, 2013
MAN!!!!(guess it is too early to type!)
here

Whitesboro, NY

#13 Sep 5, 2013
maybe if you threw a hummer his way once a week
instead of once every two yrs, dirthole
Enjoy

Astoria, NY

#14 Sep 5, 2013
losergasm wrote:
<quoted text>
Hey troll, where in the south are they not 1000 times more obsessed with sports than upstate? Virginia, Florida, the Carolinas? All huge on high school sports, just shows that you probably have never left upstate. Oh and i forgot nobody cares about high school basketball in new York city right? Just give it up you're clueless
Never LIVED upstate retard. That's all ya got? You should go stroke off to some more games you aren't that sharp with the debate and need to stick with dullard pursuits that are more your shortbus speed. Go follow your losers. Misery loves company.
Enjoy

New Hartford, NY

#15 Sep 5, 2013
Enjoy wrote:
<quoted text>Never LIVED upstate retard. That's all ya got? You should go stroke off to some more games you aren't that sharp with the debate and need to stick with dullard pursuits that are more your shortbus speed. Go follow your losers. Misery loves company.
...and I, Cretin, love to eat out male azzzzwholes!
Enjoy

Astoria, NY

#16 Sep 5, 2013
Somebody needs a life. Hard to do when you're a repulsive pathetic oootican with "sex perv" humor as the top of your creativity!
Enjoy

New Hartford, NY

#17 Sep 5, 2013
Enjoy wrote:
Somebody needs a life. Hard to do when you're a repulsive pathetic oootican with "sex perv" humor as the top of your creativity!
...and furthermore, i creatively licked 27 male azzzzwholes last night...each one with a different technique....so take that you stoooopid Oooooticans!
omg

Milton, MA

#18 Sep 5, 2013
Here you I have been with same dick for 15 yes. Hate yes I hate him. Find a duck buddy then when he tells u tour ugly, fat, and know one what's u. You can laugh your ass off cause u know the guy on the side is hotter and younger. Best satisfaction ever. Makes me horny just to think of it! Any ways my husband has been unreasonably verbally and physically abusive to me for years. I can't get away. So that is how I make myself happy.... always laughing inside!!
Brave New World

Utica, NY

#19 Sep 5, 2013
So what are the answers to the "bad marriage thing"?
one who knows

Utica, NY

#20 Sep 5, 2013
Brave New World wrote:
So what are the answers to the "bad marriage thing"?
Get a job - leave - support yourself.

Then, hire a good lawyer and go after 1/2 of everything hubby has for all the years you lived with him. Remember, New York State HAS COMMUNITY PROPERTY LAWS (you get 1/2 of everything bought during your marriage).
lefty

New York, NY

#21 Sep 5, 2013
What about the women that are rotten to live with ?

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