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the scoop

Utica, NY

#111 Jan 1, 2011
Lacey Stevens newest profile picture is so...creepy. Who is this woman ?
local citizen

Jamesville, NY

#112 Jan 1, 2011
friend wrote:
<quoted text>When you copy it where do you paste it? have tried a few times with no success! thanks.
you need to log into facebook with your account, and then paste it rightover where the web address would go at the top, where it says http://www.facebook.com/home
saddened by a loss

Clayton, NY

#113 Jan 1, 2011
Get over who the girlfriend was, get over how he did it, when it happened etc. Why not post a good memory instead of slandering all involved. Does anyone on here have a f'ing life!!! You would have to be a pathetic a'hole to have only these things to occupy your time. If you were any kind of a friend you would have already know.
saddened by a loss

Clayton, NY

#114 Jan 1, 2011
tub of lard wrote:
<quoted text>Is this you Serena?
no this isn't Serena!!!!!
saddened by a loss

Clayton, NY

#115 Jan 1, 2011
crude person wrote:
<quoted text>Be a little respectful here please, there is no need for the f word and other vulgarity! Try to restrain yourself for a little while and clean up your filthy mouth, there is no need to express yourself with filth. Have a heart please!
take a long look in the mirror I just lost a best friend I will say and do as I please you can crawl back into whatever hole you came from
a friend

Rome, NY

#116 Jan 1, 2011
look here's the thing ... I see ALOT of talk here about respect for the kids and wife la la la... well do you really think that outing the woman's marriage problems is respecting her? perhaps she doesn't want the WHOLE world to know what was going on in their lives! Before you preach about respect perhaps you should look at what you are doing and infidelity is never right but seriously neither is spreading someone's private life on the internet. His wife and family have EVERY RIGHT to THEIR PRIVACY Why dont you all ReSPECT THAT!!!
Wondering

Vernon, NY

#117 Jan 1, 2011
Is the other woman a teacher? Someone with the same name is listed on the Utica School District's website. If so, isn't there a morals clause when you are a teacher?
crude person serena

Utica, NY

#118 Jan 1, 2011
saddened by a loss wrote:
<quoted text>
take a long look in the mirror I just lost a best friend I will say and do as I please you can crawl back into whatever hole you came from
You can do it without your vulgar sewer mouth. You are the one who belongs in a hole tubby.
friend

Syracuse, NY

#120 Jan 1, 2011
Please leave this issue alone let the family grieve
the scoop

Utica, NY

#121 Jan 1, 2011
I'm sure a grieving family has no time for utica topix. However, some of us who knew Tom are trying to come to terms with this tragedy. He was our friend, or our neighbor or our business associate. He did not seem like someone who would do this. This is un-nerving us and we're trying to understand how someone we know could take their own life. It's normal to try to find a cause so we try to assign it to marital problems, a mistress, work stress, a bad financial move, drugs whatever. The mind needs a "reason" as we try to comprehend the un-comprehendible.
sad

AOL

#122 Jan 1, 2011
the scoop wrote:
I'm sure a grieving family has no time for utica topix. However, some of us who knew Tom are trying to come to terms with this tragedy. He was our friend, or our neighbor or our business associate. He did not seem like someone who would do this. This is un-nerving us and we're trying to understand how someone we know could take their own life. It's normal to try to find a cause so we try to assign it to marital problems, a mistress, work stress, a bad financial move, drugs whatever. The mind needs a "reason" as we try to comprehend the un-comprehendible.
Well Put
Utterly Disgusted

Syracuse, NY

#123 Jan 1, 2011
What the is wrong with the people on this site? Is this thing even monitored?! Do you thick-headed people even realize that there are family members affected by the loss of their beloved Tom! For God sakes, have some decency! It shouldn't matter how ANYONE dies...naturally or not! It's a human life that has departed this world and leaves behind MANY family and friends who love and will miss him dearly! DO NOT COME ON HERE SPEWING THIS TRASH WITHOUT KNOWING HIM OR THE FACTS!!! It is so easy to sit behind a tub of popcorn and 2 liter bottle of soda and spew this garbage from your computer about someone you have never known personally or met on one occasion and made a prejudgement of him...would love to see you say half this garbage to the family's face! By God, get a life and be blessed that you do not have to be mourning the loss of a loved one...and if you have already been in a position of doing such, then that makes you even more pitiful!
Listen

Utica, NY

#124 Jan 1, 2011
Let me say how sorry I am for everyone that is grieving over this tregedy.. Also can i just say the person bashing his DJ Serena is just mean and cruel... i know this crew and she is one of the sweetest .most outgoing people I have ever seen. She is nice to everyone and tries so hard to to do a great job for Deejay Network.... she is taking this so hard and she is devestated over this..they were very close and it is gonna take a long time for everyone to get over it. I have talk to her and she wants Deejay netowrk to go on in Tom honor and she puts her heart and soul into everyjob. Everyone does a great job for Tom and they will continue!!! So please everyone say prayers for the family and friends of Tom and remember him for everything he did and how many people he made laugh and have a great time!R.I.P.
tub

Utica, NY

#125 Jan 1, 2011
Listen wrote:
Let me say how sorry I am for everyone that is grieving over this tregedy.. Also can i just say the person bashing his DJ Serena is just mean and cruel... i know this crew and she is one of the sweetest .most outgoing people I have ever seen. She is nice to everyone and tries so hard to to do a great job for Deejay Network.... she is taking this so hard and she is devestated over this..they were very close and it is gonna take a long time for everyone to get over it. I have talk to her and she wants Deejay netowrk to go on in Tom honor and she puts her heart and soul into everyjob. Everyone does a great job for Tom and they will continue!!! So please everyone say prayers for the family and friends of Tom and remember him for everything he did and how many people he made laugh and have a great time!R.I.P.
YOu dont know this fat thing very well if you think she is so nice!
be real

Utica, NY

#126 Jan 1, 2011
NO MORALS wrote:
YES she is a teacher in Utica. A twenty something year old who is a waste of breath!!! Obviously she has no morals. Dating someone who is old enough to be her father. I am sure her parents must be very proud of her and I hope her English students from Proctor are reading this and realize what a dis-respectfully unmoral waste of a human she is for ruining this family.
You could also say that she was young enough to be his daughter! Im sure she didnt force him, he was might willing also you know!
gag on my balls

Utica, NY

#127 Jan 1, 2011
saddened by a loss wrote:
<quoted text>
take a long look in the mirror I just lost a best friend I will say and do as I please you can crawl back into whatever hole you came from
Take a long look at my balls!
hmmmmm

Utica, NY

#128 Jan 1, 2011
tub wrote:
<quoted text>YOu dont know this fat thing very well if you think she is so nice!
jealous much!! leave her alone maybe u have a small penis!! aww too bad sorry shorty
drunk

Utica, NY

#129 Jan 1, 2011
tub wrote:
<quoted text>YOu dont know this fat thing very well if you think she is so nice!
bill enough is enough
a friend

Rome, NY

#130 Jan 2, 2011
Utterly Disgusted wrote:
What the is wrong with the people on this site? Is this thing even monitored?! Do you thick-headed people even realize that there are family members affected by the loss of their beloved Tom! For God sakes, have some decency! It shouldn't matter how ANYONE dies...naturally or not! It's a human life that has departed this world and leaves behind MANY family and friends who love and will miss him dearly! DO NOT COME ON HERE SPEWING THIS TRASH WITHOUT KNOWING HIM OR THE FACTS!!! It is so easy to sit behind a tub of popcorn and 2 liter bottle of soda and spew this garbage from your computer about someone you have never known personally or met on one occasion and made a prejudgement of him...would love to see you say half this garbage to the family's face! By God, get a life and be blessed that you do not have to be mourning the loss of a loved one...and if you have already been in a position of doing such, then that makes you even more pitiful!
i agree and actually there is accountability topix logs EVERY ip address and mac address with all of these posts and there are MANY DEFAMATION LAWSUITS in this country in which topix has had to give up peoples information in order for them to be held accountable in a court of law both criminaly and civily. So the people spewing personal information and hateful comments about ANYONE might want to think about it BEFORE they post it and NONE of that nonsence is productive or good for peoples memory of tom is this what he would want you all to do ? is this how he wants you to remember him if you are his friends then its time to say GOOD things thats what he would want in honor of his memory saying horrible things just makes YOU look small and childish and it is also cyber bullying so grow up and get out of high school and let this family grieve in peace
awordinutica

Rome, NY

#131 Jan 2, 2011
NO MORALS wrote:
YES she is a teacher in Utica. A twenty something year old who is a waste of breath!!! Obviously she has no morals. Dating someone who is old enough to be her father. I am sure her parents must be very proud of her and I hope her English students from Proctor are reading this and realize what a dis-respectfully unmoral waste of a human she is for ruining this family.
This in fact is a wonderful teacher who is loved and respected by her students - and the parents of those students. She is also a beautiful and kind young woman- my understanding is Tom was no longer with his wife -- and she - the girlfriend- in fact is NOT married. Now it would seem to me that if anyone was an adulterer that would be Tom and not this young woman -also many here have made the assumption that this poor man killed himself because of this girl -- in fact there are many reasons people take their own lives and in this case it could have been a nasty divorce action coupled with business troubles and have had nothing to do with the girl friend - people make mistakes -- the fact is that the people trashing people and their reputations on here are certainly no friend of the family or of Tom's - and I believe this conversation has reached the point that if i were this girl I would be seeking a lawyer to take legal action against everyone here who has exposed her personal and private information on a public trash site for public fodder -- and if I was his wife and the mother of his children I would be doing the same.

Please remember this girl is also grieving - having lost someone she loved dearly. The fact is life is about choices -- and Tom, it seems made some bad ones -- 1. if anyone chose to have a so called affair -- if you can call it such after he had already left his wife - it was Tom -- and if anyone chose to kill himself -- that would also be Tom -- so lets place responsibility where responsibility is and stop injuring innocent grieving people.

The trash on this site is really appalling and again I say -- remember this -- that legal action can be taken and if any harm comes to anyone in terms of their employment or their physical safety - then those who perpetuated it here will be held accountable.

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