Choose between family or boyfriend
miss nickky

London, UK

#21 Aug 30, 2012
miss, nickky

Thank you for helping me to get my lovely partner back in my life. I am so blessed that you used a non forceful way of uniting and reuniting us. Our past, presence and future seems to have all merged into one. You told me that everyone has a compatible soul mate wether in their life or waiting to come into their lives. I am glad its my partner of old. I did not want to really go and be with someone else.. You have removed the extra baggage that has been affecting us and holding us back. god bless you i am greatful doctor. dodogodssolution@yahoo.com / my name is miss, nickky
Head Case

Syracuse, NY

#23 Sep 3, 2012
if you choose a man over a loving family your nuts. There are obviously issues with this man so use your head. They are only trying to save you from heartache in the end.
mookie

United States

#25 Sep 3, 2012
Is he black and unemployed?
Yup

Syracuse, NY

#26 Sep 3, 2012
mookie wrote:
Is he black and unemployed?
How could u tell lol
mookie

United States

#27 Sep 3, 2012
That would def explain why the italian fam hates him! Drop the mook before he knocks you up and u become a single parent forever.
agree

United States

#28 Sep 3, 2012
Well if it's person I am thinking of..lazy..can't hold a job...has a new photography business. A lot like his father wants to live off the woman. M.R.
Rip off

Whitesboro, NY

#29 Sep 3, 2012
Stuck wrote:
I am very close to my family and thetruth is I know they are right about a lot of things concerning him and I. I can't help the fact I have feelings for him & we want to get married. im afraid if I go with my feelings I will regret it or if I end the relationship I will also regret it. Don't know what way to go!
Would you happen to be from East Utica and live in West Winfield? If so I also told you that your making a huge mistake after you left me for him when we were doing really awsome. Laughing and having fun. No sight or word from him for months and when he finds out you are seeing someone he begs you back. I told you so C

P.S I might be wrong here but have this feeling who you are!
Best

Syracuse, NY

#30 Sep 3, 2012
Rip off wrote:
<quoted text>
Would you happen to be from East Utica and live in West Winfield? If so I also told you that your making a huge mistake after you left me for him when we were doing really awsome. Laughing and having fun. No sight or word from him for months and when he finds out you are seeing someone he begs you back. I told you so C
P.S I might be wrong here but have this feeling who you are!
Alot of woman in Utica settle for less than they deserve I suppose
pathetic

Syracuse, NY

#31 Sep 3, 2012
you choose to ignore his lies. Your gonna be very sorry!

KY WELLER
Level 9

Since: Jun 10

Location hidden

#32 Sep 3, 2012
A parent wrote:
If your parent disapproves of your current boyfriend, they must have a strong reason to do so. Remember, your parents have many more years of experience in judging a person's character than you do. Your decision is clouded with emotion while there dislike is based on experience.
Have you thought about what the long range situations will be if your parents absolutely want nothing to do with him:
1) Your Wedding Day and Reception - no financial help from your family.
2) Birthdays & Family Get togethers - will your husband be invited?
3) The birth and Christening of your first child - will your family show up - who will pay for the party after the Christening?
It will be a cold existence for your husband and you will have to decide, once again, to choose - stay home with hubby or go to the event and enjoy your family ALONE!!!!
Your family is in your blood and have loved you all your life - this boyfriend does not.
Think about your situation and start thinking with your brain - not your heart. Romance does NOT last as long as blood.
I wish my daughter could read this... Shit I wish I'd read it before I knocked up my ex-bitch...
well

Manlius, NY

#33 Sep 3, 2012
KY WELLER wrote:
<quoted text> I wish my daughter could read this... Shit I wish I'd read it before I knocked up my ex-bitch...
You wouldn't have listened, no one ever does until it's too late.
hank hill

United States

#34 Sep 3, 2012
KY WELLER wrote:
<quoted text> I wish my daughter could read this... Shit I wish I'd read it before I knocked up my ex-bitch...
you always think you know best while your getting a piece of ass. I know I did.
whorelover

Ithaca, NY

#35 Sep 3, 2012
I hear proctor pigs choose the bullet over students and family.

KY WELLER
Level 9

Since: Jun 10

Location hidden

#36 Sep 4, 2012
well wrote:
<quoted text>You wouldn't have listened, no one ever does until it's too late.
Funny how the little head ignores things.

KY WELLER
Level 9

Since: Jun 10

Location hidden

#37 Sep 4, 2012
hank hill wrote:
<quoted text>
you always think you know best while your getting a piece of ass. I know I did.
The piece of ass wasn't even good... The bitch was fertile...
sad

Syracuse, NY

#38 Sep 4, 2012
Worst part is its not just her getting into a bad situation she's dragging her kids in it too!
Been there - done that

Ithaca, NY

#40 Sep 4, 2012
Why even waste your time in giving this loser any advice - she has no intentions of listening to any of us.

After she has 2-3 children by this loser and he either starts cheating on her, not coming home at night and when he does, he beats her - that will be the day when she starts listening to herself and asking the question "Why didn't I take everyone's advice before I got myself in this mess".

When her family shuts the door on her when she wants to come home and drown her tears of regret - then she will realize just how much a fool she really is.

Let her learn the hard way like so many of us have already done.
hank hill

Tucker, GA

#41 Sep 4, 2012
KY WELLER wrote:
<quoted text> The piece of ass wasn't even good... The bitch was fertile...
dude you coulda got snipped and made sure you didn't end up a father. It's not only her that was apparently fertile. Seems you played some role in her getting prego! Sorry to have to be the one to break it to ya man! Lol!
Phyllis filler

Syracuse, NY

#42 Sep 5, 2012
Are there really women this dumb in this day and age? Grow some self confidence and listen to your family. The love will fade & you'l be left alone with your bad decision. smh
what

Manlius, NY

#44 Sep 5, 2012
Satan wrote:
<quoted text>
All you can say is the love might last,I know it will last. Who are you to say its a confidence thing? I say it is confidence by showing you have some balls to lead your own way
You are not making any sense.

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