men that won't commit
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Stuck There

New Hartford, NY

#23 Jan 29, 2013
Move on wrote:
Sorry honey but its not that he won't commit. He just won't commit to you. Don't waste any more of your time on him. If you stay with him someday he will call you up, tell you he met someone and within a year he will be married to this other woman. He's just keeping you around until he finds the right one for him. Sorry but I have seen this happen a million times.
Finally someone who gets it!
Curious

Utica, NY

#24 Jan 29, 2013
Interesting discussion. But it is not always the man who won't commit. Sometimes the woman is happy dating without marrying. Not abt the physical side of a relationship but spending time together and doing 'couple' things WITHOUT getting married. When you have been married and cheated on in that marriage, you are not always that quick to want to remarry. I dated a guy this past year who would have married me but I couldn't commit to him because of my past experience.I definitely held him at an arm's length my fault..could not commit to him other than to spend time together for movies, dinners, sitting by the pool. Just couldn't do it. Sad, I guess, but true.
Just saying

Worcester, MA

#25 Jan 29, 2013
How do you know he's not open to that?

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#26 Jan 29, 2013
Brad wrote:
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I agree with you guy, I'm just saying a good percentage of men find it to vulnerable to open up and talk about their feelings. If they did, maybe more relationships would stand a better chance.
I agree,just wanted to point out that there are people who do have good relationships.

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