me too

Durhamville, NY

#22 Aug 3, 2012
My husband (ex) was is a well known person in Utica/still is. I left him because he got caught with a man, despite MULTIPLE affairs with women...so lesson ladies...
I KNOW ONE

New Hartford, NY

#24 Aug 3, 2012
a close friend of mine found out very recently that her husband has been cheating on her with several men- found stuff on his cell phone of him setting up orgies and pics of him with other guys. i feel so bad for her. she didn't need this in her life. I mean why the heck would he have married her had a baby when all along he knew he was gay? then he still is denying that he is gay - what a jerk!!!!
hank hill

Buffalo Grove, IL

#25 Aug 3, 2012
I KNOW ONE wrote:
a close friend of mine found out very recently that her husband has been cheating on her with several men- found stuff on his cell phone of him setting up orgies and pics of him with other guys. i feel so bad for her. she didn't need this in her life. I mean why the heck would he have married her had a baby when all along he knew he was gay? then he still is denying that he is gay - what a jerk!!!!
have you ever heard of BIsexual? Jesus...maybe he likes the best of both worlds...or maybe she was lousy in bed. Ask him and let us know so others can be spared. thanks in advance.
I KNOW ONE

New Hartford, NY

#26 Aug 3, 2012
his wife is beautiful and a wonderful person and mother. But obvioulsy he is attracted to dick more- so he used her to have a kid with and now he will continue on with gayness
buttmuncher

Utica, NY

#27 Aug 3, 2012
will the real buttmuncher please step forward.
Stu

New York, NY

#28 Aug 4, 2012
Sexuality is a spectrum.....not the boxes we like to put it in. Nonetheless, I agree that a cheat is a cheat....doesn't matter who it is with. If open is what you want, find a way to make it work both ways (you being open too)...if it isn't, find someone who only wants one partner.
asdgasdg

Utica, NY

#29 Aug 4, 2012
woH
I AM ONE

Oneida, NY

#30 Aug 5, 2012
P Oed wife wrote:
Ok, so you are probably thinking that I married a fairy and it was just the matter of time before he jumped out of the closet, And I'm just a blind fool for missing obvious signs. Wrong! My husband is manly, he was always involved with sports, had many girls after him before we married. To make it short there were no signs, NONE. The man that he was cheating on me with is also married and you would never guess he would do something like this either. I'm just confused, I can't believe this is happening. I'm mad, upset and I feel like I've been deceived. Anyone else experience this?
..... ive had a lifelong attraction to men....been married 3 times and cant seem to stay away. after a couple months im on the prowl again....adult bookstores and theaters etc.. where i meet ALOT of other married men. perhaps even your guy...just sayin....alot of married men arent what they seem....trust me I KNOW
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United States

#33 Dec 7, 2012
Join the Club wrote:
you be surprised how many men are doing this and just don't get caught. and it is the ones you'd never suspect. He's still lying and cheating no matter who its with. but you can feel better that it wasn't you, since no woman can give him what he really wanted, starts with a C and ends with a K.
Chuck ??
and its a garramone too

Rome, NY

#35 Dec 7, 2012
hahahaha
pregnant and married

Savannah, GA

#36 Jan 25, 2013
I dont understand it. . . yeah i just figured he was just sensitive and great with fashion and i was lucky he wanted to wear pink to our wedding :) now its like wtf are you kiddin me. . . he pretends to be me on the phone sending my naked pics and getting 8==D pics in return im very hurt.... i dont know who to turn to he dont care.... he has cheated on me with two guys and i believe he is cheating on me again tonight 8 more weeks and i have our first baby girl its sad that this family isnt a family

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#37 Jan 25, 2013
pregnant and married wrote:
I dont understand it... yeah i just figured he was just sensitive and great with fashion and i was lucky he wanted to wear pink to our wedding :) now its like wtf are you kiddin me... he pretends to be me on the phone sending my naked pics and getting 8==D pics in return im very hurt.... i dont know who to turn to he dont care.... he has cheated on me with two guys and i believe he is cheating on me again tonight 8 more weeks and i have our first baby girl its sad that this family isnt a family
Sounds like he is bi-sexual. That seems to be the rage these days. Sorry that you have to go through that shit,especially while pregnant.
Bbo

New York, NY

#39 Jan 26, 2013
P Oed wife wrote:
Ok, so you are probably thinking that I married a fairy and it was just the matter of time before he jumped out of the closet, And I'm just a blind fool for missing obvious signs. Wrong! My husband is manly, he was always involved with sports, had many girls after him before we married. To make it short there were no signs, NONE. The man that he was cheating on me with is also married and you would never guess he would do something like this either. I'm just confused, I can't believe this is happening. I'm mad, upset and I feel like I've been deceived. Anyone else experience this?
A cheat is a cheat and you likely deserve better. As you make your next move, however, try not to stereotype gay or bisexual people as fairies. What makes you think that someone having masculine qualities wouldn't be gay? Your outlook in itself is a bit discriminatory, candidly. People come in all flavors....not sure if your husband jumped the fence because of your 1950's thinking or if he liked men all along and married you to cover his hidden desires. But, using the word fairy in the context of describing your husband's sexual orientation says you need some significant diversity training. This is 2013.....leave your husband and stop stereotyping others when you make your next move. In addition to sex, most people like others who are nonjudgmental.

Level 9

Since: Jun 10

Location hidden

#40 Jan 26, 2013
Bbo wrote:
<quoted text>
A cheat is a cheat and you likely deserve better. As you make your next move, however, try not to stereotype gay or bisexual people as fairies. What makes you think that someone having masculine qualities wouldn't be gay? Your outlook in itself is a bit discriminatory, candidly. People come in all flavors....not sure if your husband jumped the fence because of your 1950's thinking or if he liked men all along and married you to cover his hidden desires. But, using the word fairy in the context of describing your husband's sexual orientation says you need some significant diversity training. This is 2013.....leave your husband and stop stereotyping others when you make your next move. In addition to sex, most people like others who are nonjudgmental.
Typical fairyspeak. Not all of us buy your bullshit.
semin

Utica, NY

#41 Jan 27, 2013
U not very good then
semin

Utica, NY

#42 Jan 27, 2013
pregnant and married wrote:
I dont understand it... yeah i just figured he was just sensitive and great with fashion and i was lucky he wanted to wear pink to our wedding :) now its like wtf are you kiddin me... he pretends to be me on the phone sending my naked pics and getting 8==D pics in return im very hurt.... i dont know who to turn to he dont care.... he has cheated on me with two guys and i believe he is cheating on me again tonight 8 more weeks and i have our first baby girl its sad that this family isnt a family
Sad
Give me a break

Camillus, NY

#43 Jan 27, 2013
Sounds like a big dink.....or he looking for one.
Bbo

New York, NY

#44 Jan 27, 2013
KY WELLER wrote:
<quoted text> Typical fairyspeak. Not all of us buy your bullshit.
You don't have to buy it....its here and redneck thinking is dead....so get over it.
love or hate u decide

Cold Brook, NY

#45 Jan 27, 2013
P Oed wife wrote:
Ok, so you are probably thinking that I married a fairy and it was just the matter of time before he jumped out of the closet, And I'm just a blind fool for missing obvious signs. Wrong! My husband is manly, he was always involved with sports, had many girls after him before we married. To make it short there were no signs, NONE. The man that he was cheating on me with is also married and you would never guess he would do something like this either. I'm just confused, I can't believe this is happening. I'm mad, upset and I feel like I've been deceived. Anyone else experience this?
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