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confused

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Jan 2, 2011
 
My GF goes out with other guys and she knows I know but I pretend not to. I get turned on when she blows me off on Friday night and then when we hang out on Saturday we both pretend everything is normal....I'm confused.
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Jan 2, 2011
 
confused wrote:
My GF goes out with other guys and she knows I know but I pretend not to. I get turned on when she blows me off on Friday night and then when we hang out on Saturday we both pretend everything is normal....I'm confused.
You'll have give people time to look up "cuckold"...
confused

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Jan 3, 2011
 
I saw her cell phone text messages and it seems like she is having a sexual relationship with a guy named Alex. I know I should be upset but it actually turns me on....what is wrong with me?
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Jan 3, 2011
 
My wife, all we talk about during sex is her with other guys. I want so bad to see her with another guy getting real nasty. I am one for sure, we just have to make it happen for real. When we are going about our daily routines, she says she would never do it, but when we are out having a couple drinks, that is all we talk about. Let me know, we can talk about it. I'll give you an email
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Jan 3, 2011
 
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My wife, all we talk about during sex is her with other guys. I want so bad to see her with another guy getting real nasty. I am one for sure, we just have to make it happen for real. When we are going about our daily routines, she says she would never do it, but when we are out having a couple drinks, that is all we talk about. Let me know, we can talk about it. I'll give you an email
does she want you to watch?
Cant imagine it

Old Forge, NY

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#6
Jan 3, 2011
 
How long have you been married? Is this something new to you or have you been like that with others?
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New Hartford, NY

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Jan 3, 2011
 
we are talking about during sex, yes, and she wants me to do things to here while the other guy is
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Rochester, NY

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#8
Jan 3, 2011
 
Confused, just bring your g/f over one night and we'll show you a proper cuckold in person. Bring a cam corder so you can tape and watch at home while she starts to come over to my place w/out you.
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#9
Jan 3, 2011
 
Yes John you know you are. Video time. Better watch your deliveries....

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Jan 3, 2011
 

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Cuckold is derived from the Old French for the cuckoo, cucu, with the pejorative suffix -old. The earliest written use of the Middle English derivation, cokewold, occurs in 1250, written by Jesse Conklin.[1] The females of certain varieties of cuckoo lay their eggs in other birdís nests, freeing themselves from the need to nurture the eggs to hatching. The female equivalent cuckquean first appears in English literature in 1562, adding a female suffix to the "cuck"; Wittol, which substitutes "wete" (meaning witting or knowing) for the first part of the word, first appears in 1520.

Cuckolds have sometimes been written as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing the horns". This refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded is the last to know of his wife's infidelity. He is wearing horns that can be seen by everybody but him. This also refers to a tradition claiming that in villages of unknown European location, the community would gather to collectively humiliate a man whose wife gives birth to a child recognizably not his own. According to this legend, a parade was held in which the hapless husband is forced to wear antlers on his head as a symbol of his wife's infidelity. Whether or not this actually happened is unknown but the phrase has survived (also see the Italian insult cornuto).
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#11
Jan 3, 2011
 
ok in laymans terms a cuckold male is one who watches his wife/g/f being banged by another man (Bull) most of the time he cannot participate until after and is sometimes humilliated by the bull and his partner this is a lifestyle and not just a feeling both partners have to trust each other what the original poster asked is if he is a cuckold I don't think so maybe your gf's behavior just happens to turn you on
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Jan 3, 2011
 
whats wrong with these kids today?
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girlfriend, let alone wife, who participates in such behavior is a slut! Husband, a fool!
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Jan 3, 2011
 
I wonder if I should confront her about Alex. Maybe she would be open to taking our relationship in a new direction....if she didn't dump me right away what should I suggest to her for where to take this all? Suggestions....
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I have a cousin that's a Cuckhold apprentice with his uncle.
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Jan 3, 2011
 
I know that kid. He graduated from Cuckhold  academy with honors. I heard the school is located in the valley. They have great teachers too.
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Jan 4, 2011
 

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was this post just supposed to make people look up the word?...I know what it is, and if you are one, you need to make sure that your mental health is good, and that you and your partner are both consenting, and understand the consequences...Swinging, watching, 3 ways, all have temporary satisfaction for many..however, statistically, these relationships do not last long term. Before entering into one, you should really have sober, honest conversation...it is very hard for a male ego to watch his partner (male or female) having wild levels of intimacy with others...Men do not handle it well...women a bit better. It sounds fun, but be careful, it could be the unraveling of your life.
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Therapist wrote:
was this post just supposed to make people look up the word?...I know what it is, and if you are one, you need to make sure that your mental health is good, and that you and your partner are both consenting, and understand the consequences...Swinging, watching, 3 ways, all have temporary satisfaction for many..however, statistically, these relationships do not last long term. Before entering into one, you should really have sober, honest conversation...it is very hard for a male ego to watch his partner (male or female) having wild levels of intimacy with others...Men do not handle it well...women a bit better. It sounds fun, but be careful, it could be the unraveling of your life.
My fear is that if I confront her she will dump me. I am concerned that she enjoys the duality of her situation and would terminate our relationship if by me outwardly acknowledging what is going on she would feel a loss of control that is part of what she enjoys about cheating on me. I bought a GPS honing device and put it in her car. I hope to be able to follow her on Friday to see what this guy looks like. And on Saturday I hope to be able to go down on her in the AM before she showers so I can get some left overs!!!
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#19
Jan 4, 2011
 
you dont confront here because you're afraid she'll dump you? Then its time for you to move on. That's no reason to stay in a relationship where you have 0 self esteem.
Its doomed anyway

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Jan 4, 2011
 
worring about a cheater dumping you? You nuts?

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