How to get divorced after abandonement

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nunya

Canandaigua, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
Anyone have any clues on how to pull this off? My husband took off `rch 15, 2011. He has been bouncing around the country and I hear from him maybe a couple times a year. I want to get divorced, but only have an email address for him. His family won't tell me where he is and I don't know what to do anymore. PLEASE HELP!
lawyer up

Utica, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
Get a lawyer or call the countys legal aide program...
nunya wrote:
Anyone have any clues on how to pull this off? My husband took off `rch 15, 2011. He has been bouncing around the country and I hear from him maybe a couple times a year. I want to get divorced, but only have an email address for him. His family won't tell me where he is and I don't know what to do anymore. PLEASE HELP!
Truth

New Hartford, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
nunya wrote:
Anyone have any clues on how to pull this off? My husband took off `rch 15, 2011. He has been bouncing around the country and I hear from him maybe a couple times a year. I want to get divorced, but only have an email address for him. His family won't tell me where he is and I don't know what to do anymore. PLEASE HELP!
So that's your excuse for killing him? Sounds like you are guilty.
Any body know

New Hartford, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
DOES HE HAVE A CELL PHONE.
nunya

Canandaigua, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
I'm sure he does have a cell, but I don't have the number. I have talked to law clerks, and legal aid. They all? have told me I can file the paperwork but it won't go anywhere without him being served papers. Which I cannot do without an address. For the first couple of years he said he didn't want a divorce (god knows why), then he agreed to it. I even offered to ship his stuff to him that he left and he said yes, then never gave me an address. It was Chad Lovelady, the body piecer from Tattoo U. Anyone that knew him here, knew what a liar he was. I wish him well with whatever he is doing now. I would just like to cut my legal ties to him.
nunya

Canandaigua, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
I'm sure he does, but I don't have the number. He said no to divorce the first 2 years. Now he says yes, I heard from him in early December when he agreed and asked if I would send some personal effects to him, which I would happily do with an address. I have spoken to lawyers and legal aid. They have all told me I can file paperwork but it won't go anywhere until he is served the papers himself. I feel like there must be a loophole somewhere. My husband is Chad Lovelady, the body piercer from Tattoo U. Anyone that did know him up here knew how much he lied. I have no ill will and want nothing but to cut legal ties from him.
Frankie Backdoor Meola

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Feb 6, 2014
 
It's me CRETIN RASH PUNK.

I wish I had the money Frank has in his pocket.

So my p i g mother didn't have to walk the street.

I AM A GUTLESS PUNK

FAILURE PUNK I AM

I AM SCARED OF UPD

THEY KNOCKED MY TEETH OUT SO I CAN WORK DADDY
Route 60

New Hartford, NY

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Feb 6, 2014
 
Ask Bruce the mail guy. His wife left him for some other guy . He's a beauty tho, can't say we could blame her.
nunya

Canandaigua, NY

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Feb 8, 2014
 
Hanes your way wrote:
I know where your ex is. I talked to him the other day. If u want to know, I'll tell u, you'll have to give me some head. Let me know.
Bet I want a divorce pretty damn bad lol

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