Why do single moms turn into skanks?

Why do single moms turn into skanks?

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Need to know

New York, NY

#1 Jan 28, 2010
Why is it that as soon as a single woman gets away from her man she turns to a whore. It is cool that a woman wants to find a new man. But why is it that they seem to spend more time at the local bar then at home with her children. It is sad that any person male or female would rather be at a bar then at home with their kids. If you didn't want to be a parent full time then you should have kept your legs closed. It is shitty that you would have your daughter at her friend's house every weekend and your son some where else so you can booze it up. I hope you know who you are and you know what a bar fly whore you are. But do us all a favor and try to keep you legs closed this time, your family is getting run down from paying for everything for your kids since you take the child support you get and use it to drink with. That is what most people call white trash. One day they will see what a whore you turned out to be. But we all know you are just going through a mid life crisis, and get a good laugh when you show up places trying to dress like your teenage daughter.
Former Westsider

Canastota, NY

#2 Jan 28, 2010
This is kinda' like the ole' "What came first, the chicken, or the egg?" question...Skanks can very easily turn into single moms, too, you know...It can happen just as easily either way, for sure!
and what about

Ithaca, NY

#3 Jan 28, 2010
The kid's father. Was he a "skank?" You don't mention whether the child's father is out in a bar all the time either. Double standard!!!
truth

Haiku, HI

#4 Jan 29, 2010
a woman single or not should know what her priorities are but i do know a skank who would rather have a man instead of her children she is always in family court.thats what we call a loser.
Why

United States

#5 Jan 29, 2010
Need to know wrote:
Why is it that as soon as a single woman gets away from her man she turns to a whore. It is cool that a woman wants to find a new man. But why is it that they seem to spend more time at the local bar then at home with her children. It is sad that any person male or female would rather be at a bar then at home with their kids. If you didn't want to be a parent full time then you should have kept your legs closed. It is shitty that you would have your daughter at her friend's house every weekend and your son some where else so you can booze it up. I hope you know who you are and you know what a bar fly whore you are. But do us all a
favor and try to keep you legs closed this time, your family is getting
run down from paying for everything for your kids since you take the
child support you get and use it to drink with. That is what most
people call white trash. One day they will see what a whore you
turned out to be. But we all know you are just going through a mid
life crisis, and get a good laugh when you show up places trying to
dress like your teenage daughter.
it's because she was a slut before she was a mom
Lissa

United States

#6 Jan 29, 2010
This is obviously a personal issue and should have been brought to the attention of the individual in question. If there are really concerns for the children's welfare it's your responsibility to report it to CPS, for the sake of the children!
doesnt matter

Utica, NY

#7 Jan 29, 2010
the courts are biased towards the mothers. They can leave them w a baby sitter all the time. They wont get their Child Support diminished etc. Parents can do what they want when they want as long as children are safe. If you go to court you will hear "maam dont do that again"
Lissa

United States

#8 Jan 29, 2010
doesnt matter wrote:
the courts are biased towards the mothers. They can leave them w a baby sitter all the time. They wont get their Child Support diminished etc. Parents can do what they want when they want as long as children are safe. If you go to court you will hear "maam dont do that again"
...And we wonder why the world is sooo screwed up!
Sympathy for the children involved but in the end it's the normal, nurtured ones you end up worrying about due to the exposure.
Gurl

United States

#9 Jan 29, 2010
HELLO PEOPLE!!!!! Where is the father here? She didn't make the baby herself. You say she shouldn't spread her legs but he should have kept it in his pants if he wasn't ready to be a father. I am not saying that the mother is in the right if the above story is true but is seems as though the blame is being placed on her and her alone. Stop with the double standards and blame both parents.
Priorities

Antwerp, NY

#10 Jan 29, 2010
A woman who has custody of her children should make the children her priority, PERIOD! I don't care if the father is the biggest drunk in town and at the bars all the time. If a woman wants custody of her children, then she needs to realize that she is taking on that responsibility and what that entails! Her social life should be secondary to her job as a mother, PERIOD! It's not a double standard, it's reality!

And the other poster is correct! The courts are biased and don't care if the children are not with the custodial parent, as long as they are with someone that is taking care of them! A custodial mother can be a complete bar whore, and the courts will not care as long as the children aren't "physically neglected". It seems they don't care much about the "emotional neglect", how it effects children when their mother is more concerned about her social life instead of being home for her children!

And there is no double standard in this situation! If a mother gets custody of the children, they should be her priority, not her social life! The same goes for any father that gets custody of the children! I have no doubt that there are many women out there who are only interested in getting custody so they can get the child support cash! You see whores like this all the time!
Lissa

United States

#11 Jan 29, 2010
Gurl wrote:
HELLO PEOPLE!!!!! Where is the father here? She didn't make the baby herself. You say she shouldn't spread her legs but he should have kept it in his pants if he wasn't ready to be a father. I am not saying that the mother is in the right if the above story is true but is seems as though the blame is being placed on her and her alone. Stop with the double standards and blame both parents.
Well, I wondered initially who is the person who posted.
But, I agree-it takes two to tango, both are responsible!
hmmmmm

Homer, NY

#12 Jan 29, 2010
Priorities wrote:
A woman who has custody of her children should make the children her priority, PERIOD! I don't care if the father is the biggest drunk in town and at the bars all the time. If a woman wants custody of her children, then she needs to realize that she is taking on that responsibility and what that entails! Her social life should be secondary to her job as a mother, PERIOD! It's not a double standard, it's reality!
And the other poster is correct! The courts are biased and don't care if the children are not with the custodial parent, as long as they are with someone that is taking care of them! A custodial mother can be a complete bar whore, and the courts will not care as long as the children aren't "physically neglected". It seems they don't care much about the "emotional neglect", how it effects children when their mother is more concerned about her social life instead of being home for her children!
And there is no double standard in this situation! If a mother gets custody of the children, they should be her priority, not her social life! The same goes for any father that gets custody of the children! I have no doubt that there are many women out there who are only interested in getting custody so they can get the child support cash! You see whores like this all the time!
well said. in my case my son is a payment. go to courts in utica, they could careless. according to them no physical abuse no harm to the child. its bullshit when he sits at home while she is out bar hoping and sniffing her coke. try and get them to give her a drug test without any priors?? impossible. courts are designed to make the man pay and very seldom does he ever get physical custody. i dont care how good your lawyer thinks he or she is. sucks to be a loving father in my case. but sooner or later she will make mistakes and hopefully the law is involved. i wait patiently, and have faith in her to screw up again.
Mygrl

Watertown, NY

#13 Jan 29, 2010
My single Mom could do whatever she wants and there are ALOT of thirsty guys out there who want to give women attention in this area.

The bar scene in 2010 must not be too cool and the worst thing is when a women gets hooked up w/the wrong people and crack, all that.

I love my milf!!!!
Priorities

Antwerp, NY

#14 Jan 29, 2010
hmmmmm wrote:
<quoted text>well said. in my case my son is a payment. go to courts in utica, they could careless. according to them no physical abuse no harm to the child. its bullshit when he sits at home while she is out bar hoping and sniffing her coke. try and get them to give her a drug test without any priors?? impossible. courts are designed to make the man pay and very seldom does he ever get physical custody. i dont care how good your lawyer thinks he or she is. sucks to be a loving father in my case. but sooner or later she will make mistakes and hopefully the law is involved. i wait patiently, and have faith in her to screw up again.
My situation is almost the same. No drugs, but booze all the time and her social life and boyfriend are her priorities! And I too have faith that she will screw up, and when it happens, I'll be on the doorstep with the police and asking for Child Services to come and to grant me temporary custody so it can be brought to court and I can try and get full custody. Good luck to you!
Gurl

United States

#15 Jan 29, 2010
Priorities wrote:
A woman who has custody of her children should make the children her priority, PERIOD! I don't care if the father is the biggest drunk in town and at the bars all the time. If a woman wants custody of her children, then she needs to realize that she is taking on that responsibility and what that entails! Her social life should be secondary to her job as a mother, PERIOD! It's not a double standard, it's reality!
And the other poster is correct! The courts are biased and don't care if the children are not with the custodial parent, as long as they are with someone that is taking care of them! A custodial mother can be a complete bar whore, and the courts will not care as long as the children aren't "physically neglected". It seems they don't care much about the "emotional neglect", how it effects children when their mother is more concerned about her social life instead of being home for her children!
And there is no double standard in this situation! If a mother gets custody of the children, they should be her priority, not her social life! The same goes for any father that gets custody of the children! I have no doubt that there are many women out there who are only interested in getting custody so they can get the child support cash! You see whores like this all the time!
You are right when you say that if a woman gets custody of her children she should make them her priority. There is no question about that. I am sorry and sad to hear about good fathers out there that actually want to be a part of there kids lives and the courts don't let it happen as much as they should. That isn't fair either. It sounds like the person who started this thread has this issue in their life and I wish them the best in trying to correct it. There are two sides to every story and both parents need to be responsible for the child. There are plenty of men out there who don't take care of there children as there are woman. People need to think about these things before they decided to sleep with people. If they dont want to be a parent then dont have sex or use protection, it's that simple.
Need to know

New York, NY

#16 Jan 29, 2010
Gurl wrote:
HELLO PEOPLE!!!!! Where is the father here? She didn't make the baby herself. You say she shouldn't spread her legs but he should have kept it in his pants if he wasn't ready to be a father. I am not saying that the mother is in the right if the above story is true but is seems as though the blame is being placed on her and her alone. Stop with the double standards and blame both parents.
The father in this case works 50+ hours a week pays the support as ordered and more per his request. And has the kids every weekend so the "mom" can skank it up at a bar. The only time the kids are not over on the weekend is when they go to her family's house because they have something planned. Double standard my ass, a parent is a parent and should be at home first and for most.
Woof

Vernon, NY

#17 Jan 29, 2010
Like a dog off a leash.
She was a dog before you married her.
She was a dog when you were married to her.
She's still a dog after she left you.
You were too busy getting laid and sucked off to realize it.
I'm sure the child support payments will always remind you.
its not fair

Syracuse, NY

#18 Jan 29, 2010
when ur a good father pay ur support alot of it and the mother uses the child as a pay check while she is at the casino and every place else spending that money on herself and not my child and cause i work alot to pay her all that money i dont see my child alot and im the bad father and her man has put his hands on my child more than once and the courts will not listen to me at all the judge is all for her its just not fair at all for some of us fathers who is doing everything right
Issues

Fayetteville, NY

#19 Jan 29, 2010
Sometimes MEN deem every women "who's not sleeping with them" skanks, or all "EX'S" skanks. Lets be fair!!

I don't see why a women , when it's not her weekend to have any kids shouldn't go out & socialize. I'm NOT saying be a skank or sleep with every Tom, Dick or Harry, but it IS OK to go out.
Frank

New York, NY

#20 Jan 29, 2010
They don't turn into skanks, they always were
by the fact that they are single moms.

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