Is it Normal to Have Thoughts of Killing?

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Nov 22, 2013
 

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From time to time I will have thoughts of killing people. Of course people I hate or have had recent disagreements with are on top of the list. I have no plans to do so, but is it normal to think that someday I will? As I said I have ZERO plans to do so these are only thoughts.I place very little regard to human life even my own. It's all you see on TV now a days. There are close to 3 million people in Prison in this country alone violence is human nature and so is murder, everyone is capable of it. Just wanted to see if anyone out there thinks the same from time to time. I'm sure I will never act of such thoughts but they are there, and yes i do see a shrink, but truthfully think of killing him to sometimes. Not a crime to think just to act. Not going to act or plan anything as that would be a crime. Just day dreaming of cutting throats, hacking people up and watching the life leave someones body as you stare into there eyes. This is normal , yes?
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Nov 22, 2013
 

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If you have been having thoughts of killing people then you need to seek help now before you actually follow through on these thoughts. I work in the medical field and I can testify that IT IS NOT NORMAL TO WANT TO TAKE ANOTHER PERSON'S LIFE. Seek a therapist now.
There is NO Normal

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There is No normal at all. It is all relative. Social acceptability is all there is. I would say that most people have had thoughts of killing another at some point in there life, however to dwell or obsess about such things could be indicative of a Mental Disease or defect. Most serial killers have serious sexual disfunction or complete impotence and get a sexual gratification of sorts from these acts. I would suggest you tell your therapist how deep your thoughts are and maybe they can get you on some good meds, just dont say you are planning to hurt others or yourself or they might lock you up. Thoughts are just thoughts. Obsessing on those thoughts is not healthy. I do hate it however when people say thats not NORMAL!!! There is no such thing as normal!!! It is all about what you see everyday which makes you think it;s normal. No such think as what is normal and what isn't. The Mayan's Sacrificed 10'd of thousands of people a year to their GODS, to them that would be normal. Some people worship invisible men in the sky and call it GOD, to some that is normal. Some culture's have many wive's and men are superior to woman, to them that is normal yet any of these situations or acts in another culture can be completely abnormal. So I think no matter what the thought as long as you don't obsess about it and dwell on it over and over again in your mind you will be ok. A fleeting thought of killing someone is quite understandable, I myself have had that happen 100 times. They are brief and usually out of anger or when i'm hurt, but they pass quickly. Murder and killing is natural. It's been happening since the beginning of time and will till the end of time, but unless you want to spend the rest of your life in prison you might want to pick up a hobby, Chess maybe. just try not to kill your opponent if you lose!
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Sometimes in the morning heading north but definitely on my way home heading south. Stay in that left hand lane and one of these days you're gonna get it.
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Road Rage on the Arterial wrote:
Sometimes in the morning heading north but definitely on my way home heading south. Stay in that left hand lane and one of these days you're gonna get it.
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From time to time I will have thoughts of killing people. Of course people I hate or have had recent disagreements with are on top of the list. I have no plans to do so, but is it normal to think that someday I will? As I said I have ZERO plans to do so these are only thoughts.I place very little regard to human life even my own. It's all you see on TV now a days. There are close to 3 million people in Prison in this country alone violence is human nature and so is murder, everyone is capable of it. Just wanted to see if anyone out there thinks the same from time to time. I'm sure I will never act of such thoughts but they are there, and yes i do see a shrink, but truthfully think of killing him to sometimes. Not a crime to think just to act. Not going to act or plan anything as that would be a crime. Just day dreaming of cutting throats, hacking people up and watching the life leave someones body as you stare into there eyes. This is normal , yes?
If you mean that you WANT to kill consider serving. The first is the hardest, you think of your family and that man's family. The second is almost the same but by 3-4 it's just part of the job. It's very liberating actually to realize you can do it and people who know you don't fck around not even joking. They teach you to remind yourself you are protecting your teammates. It isn't that hard after a while and becomes almost blase, I say ALMOST. Especially when you know you are saving innocents it can be a positive, the way it was taught to me is "If not you, who? If not now, when?" When you come home you think of it often but again you just tell yourself it's them or you or someone innocent. Once you go there you change in many ways for the better. When you see some idiot in traffic or causing problems you just think of how easy it really is and the person annoying you doesn't know it.
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Thats why being a sociopath is good sometimes, you care not of others and have no guilt. Thats me I just havent killed, but if I did I wouldnt care 1 bit, unless i got caught and thats not guilt thats narcissism
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Nov 22, 2013
 
No it is not normal.
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Nov 22, 2013
 
It's funny that I know who you are just from reading this....if you think you know who this is, post something about our past that only I would know about
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Jan 19, 2014
 
Thoughts wrote:
From time to time I will have thoughts of killing people. Of course people I hate or have had recent disagreements with are on top of the list. I have no plans to do so, but is it normal to think that someday I will? As I said I have ZERO plans to do so these are only thoughts.I place very little regard to human life even my own. It's all you see on TV now a days. There are close to 3 million people in Prison in this country alone violence is human nature and so is murder, everyone is capable of it. Just wanted to see if anyone out there thinks the same from time to time. I'm sure I will never act of such thoughts but they are there, and yes i do see a shrink, but truthfully think of killing him to sometimes. Not a crime to think just to act. Not going to act or plan anything as that would be a crime. Just day dreaming of cutting throats, hacking people up and watching the life leave someones body as you stare into there eyes. This is normal , yes?
To tell the truth I have these thoughts also, exactly the way you described. In my mind it is the exact same as changing a light or washing clothing. I have sought psychiatric help for
this and once we got past me feeling the need to kill her we pinpointed a few similarities I share with others.
Do you have or display any of the following?
High IQ, yet still somehow manage to fumble on the small things
good judge of character
logical thinker
have some form of OCD
chronicly single
feel as tho you are different mentally from others, not better or worse just different
this one is odd but, social yet simultaneously antisocial
driven and lazy
when wronged emotionally heal quickly but view the accused differently
and have an interest in what makes others tick, other than disemboweling them to literally see.
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Please email me. i need some one who thinks the same as me to talk to. its difficult getting excited about killing but knowing i won't ever be able to do it at the moment, im a 16 year old girl and it sometimes scares me. i might be capable of doing this one day but, it has to be very thought out. i was raped, as well as my 2 other sisters by my uncle and he isnt in jail. i guess that was my traumatic even that caused my thinking to be like this. so email me at nocturnalkill@gmail asap plz

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you're even crazier than me! frkn loonie tune. go bang your uncle again. you know you dig it.
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Tuesday Mar 18
 
Thoughts wrote:
From time to time I will have thoughts of killing people. Of course people I hate or have had recent disagreements with are on top of the list. I have no plans to do so, but is it normal to think that someday I will? As I said I have ZERO plans to do so these are only thoughts.I place very little regard to human life even my own. It's all you see on TV now a days. There are close to 3 million people in Prison in this country alone violence is human nature and so is murder, everyone is capable of it. Just wanted to see if anyone out there thinks the same from time to time. I'm sure I will never act of such thoughts but they are there, and yes i do see a shrink, but truthfully think of killing him to sometimes. Not a crime to think just to act. Not going to act or plan anything as that would be a crime. Just day dreaming of cutting throats, hacking people up and watching the life leave someones body as you stare into there eyes. This is normal , yes?
Only when I drive through utica on the thruway.
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Are you a gun owner? Most gun owners fantasise day and night about being able to shoot someone.
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Tuesday Mar 18
 
Absolutely normal, try going out of the area, travel to a nice state and spend some time enjoying the company of people who are not from NY or Utica. If you still have thoughts then no, you have a problem. However in NYS and especially around the bloodsuckers in Utica it is perfectly normal, it's called self preservation and severe provocation.
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Lemme tell ya - if you're suicidal - just drive through Cornhill on a hot summer night after sundown with your windows all rolled down... That's right - take the Parkway - then move on down to James, then Arthur, South & Eagle... Kemble thru Conkling - and then go home... It's better than expensive therapy - they come back and say "Wow, I coulda got killed!" Well you just said earlier you'd knock yourself out, did you not? "Yeah but now I realize how good I have it!"
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Tuesday Mar 18
 
From what I hear, everybody at the DPW thinks this way so I guess it is normal there.
San Bernadino

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Saturday Mar 29
 
NOT normal, it's crazies like you reinforce my decision to leave Utica for good. Must be something in the water. Ciao!
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Thoughts wrote:
From time to time I will have thoughts of killing people. Of course people I hate or have had recent disagreements with are on top of the list. I have no plans to do so, but is it normal to think that someday I will? As I said I have ZERO plans to do so these are only thoughts.I place very little regard to human life even my own. It's all you see on TV now a days. There are close to 3 million people in Prison in this country alone violence is human nature and so is murder, everyone is capable of it. Just wanted to see if anyone out there thinks the same from time to time. I'm sure I will never act of such thoughts but they are there, and yes i do see a shrink, but truthfully think of killing him to sometimes. Not a crime to think just to act. Not going to act or plan anything as that would be a crime. Just day dreaming of cutting throats, hacking people up and watching the life leave someones body as you stare into there eyes. This is normal , yes?
I very rarely jump on Topix but am glad I did today! Forgive me for smiling at your post! I am a mental health professional and feel like harming people on a daily basis. I would suspect, like myself, you have come in contact with an inordinate number of a*&holes in your life, and continue to on a daily basis. I would suggest if you feel like disemboweling your therapist, find a new one! Otherwise, just keep checking yourself when you have these thoughts, as they are irrational, and the consequences to you and your well being, are not worth the momentary satisfaction you may experience by eliminating the source of your frustration. I find spending some time alone listening to my favorite music or watching a funny movie or TV show distracts me from these feelings, at least temporarily. You may want to avoid watching violent stuff and playing violent video games. They have a way of getting folks cranked up, and it appears you need to find a way to chill. Don't know what else to tell you except the same thing I tell myself and my patients every day. We get angry because we forget the only person we can control is ourselves. Wish you luck my friend! Be well.
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Friday Apr 11
 
Always knew you were nuts jc, thanx for confirming it

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