Dating Jevon
I Care

Utica, NY

#1 Sep 26, 2013
I am NOT still seeing Jevon Wameling! I am NOT posing, fronting or scamming by showing that I have a new boyfriend. I did and am doing all I can to put Jevon away forever. He ruined my life beyond wherever it was prior. I will never be the same and I will never forgive myself for ever taking that lowlife in. I shall not RIP until he's locked away and gone forever. My new friend is someone who I've known for years and was supportive of me during all my struggles and was/is here for me like nobody else, so we naturally came together. I can honestly say he is my best, and maybe my only real friend. None of you out there know even half the story, especially about me or my boyfriend. I am not a scum and neither is my boyfriend. I happen to struggle with drug addiction, which happens to people of all walks of life, and I was very vulnerable and down and my judgement was impaired when I let Jevon in my life. Then I got pregnant by him. I didn't want to have a baby with him. Then I just let him stay with me and in my life thinking he'll change for the better by taking responsibility for his child. I felt trapped and obligated, plus he threatened me with violence many times. I will never date another black man the rest of my life and I plan to stay off the system the rest of my life as well. For those of you have been supportive, I thank you. There's more I could reveal, but I'm forebidden to as it's an ongoing investigation. It hurts to read so many criticisms of me on here by people who do not know me or my situation. Thanks...
WTF

Utica, NY

#2 Sep 26, 2013
WTFFF???
someone

Ardsley, NY

#3 Sep 26, 2013
Someone had to have written that for her. Her Facebook page show that she's borderline illiterate.
Annnnd

Syracuse, NY

#4 Sep 26, 2013
Her Facebook page also shows that her new boyfriend is a black man, lol.
someone

Ardsley, NY

#5 Sep 26, 2013
Annnnd wrote:
Her Facebook page also shows that her new boyfriend is a black man, lol.
Looks more Hispanic.
Hmmmm

Utica, NY

#6 Sep 26, 2013
Annnnd wrote:
Her Facebook page also shows that her new boyfriend is a black man, lol.
It's the lighting. Obviously NOT a high quality lense. Plus his features are not black even tho the picturetone is darker skin. Maybe he's latino or Arabic or indian and white mixture? I believe her when she says she's done with blacks. I mean who wouldn't be after all this????
WTF

Utica, NY

#7 Sep 26, 2013
Mayyyybe she's being sincere here?
Melanie

Berlin, CT

#8 Sep 26, 2013
I don't know her at all. But, think about it...she was a drug addict, she got involved with the wrong man & now she is left to mourn over the death of her child! Give this girl a break! None of us are perfect. We have all made the wrong choices in life. Noone should be judging her! How would any of you feel if your person life was broadcast on the 6:00 news & you felt as if you has to go to a public forum (topix) to defend yourself? My heart breaks for this family. Stay strong & God Bless!
maybe

Sherburne, NY

#9 Sep 26, 2013
Maybe she should clean her filthy house up before posting pics of it on facebook!!!!!!!!!! Smoking and drinking in front of a newborn that has breathing problems???? We saw the ashtray you scumbag!

Level 2

Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#11 Sep 26, 2013
Melanie wrote:
I don't know her at all. But, think about it...she was a drug addict, she got involved with the wrong man & now she is left to mourn over the death of her child! Give this girl a break! None of us are perfect. We have all made the wrong choices in life. Noone should be judging her! How would any of you feel if your person life was broadcast on the 6:00 news & you felt as if you has to go to a public forum (topix) to defend yourself? My heart breaks for this family. Stay strong & God Bless!
Ive made wrong choices in my life, but none of them turned out like this. I think defending herself is futile at this point. Actions speak louder than words, and Im sorry, but I see nothing of this "mourning" you speak of. Whether this was written by her or not, which is doubtful since she cant spell a full word on Facebook, it holds no weight for most of the people reading it. This "woman" claims to have been confused and trapped, yet LEFT HER BABY WITH THE MAN who threatened violence against her?? How and Why. There were other options. Any "mourning" she is going through is expected, and fair, and furthermore, simply Kharma. That poor child didnt stand a chance. And regardless of any forums, statuses, or other forms of communication where she attempts to portray herself as something shes not, she knew something. She has to live with her choices and how she did and IS living her life, thats her punishment, if she isnt found somehow to be more involved than we know. I have no pity, and thats just my opinion. Her pictures show a filthy house, she admits to "having a drug addiction", not HAVING....., and now shes asking that people see her in a different light? No one knows what its been like for her? No. No one knows what it was like for baby Levon. Smh.
And to further push the ignorance, she then states she's never dating a black man again??????? The fact that she even thinks that has anything to do with it is ridiculous, and shows her mentality. It has nothing to do with the color of skin, babygirl. It has everything to do with whether or not he has a brain. And yours didnt. There are plenty of good Black men in this area that would never in a million years do what this man supposedly did to you, and unfortunately did to that poor baby. You know how many people are watching you right now, you should be more careful with your words & attitude, THAT might get you some supporters. Color played no part in this tragedy. This could have all been prevented, and only one person couldve changed the outcome. Youll hold that in your heart for the rest of your life.... while youre on welfare and living off the system with your "new man" and the next baby thats coming... and we wont hear Levon's name because nobody will be talking about it anymore. Shameful. Spend more time "mourning" and grieving and being what you should have been when you had him, at least if nothing else, to dedicate your life to his memory, Less time worrying about a man. You made a horrible choice in a man last time, maybe you should focus on something else, work on yourself, prove us all wrong.. before you make the same mistakes, thus making them choices. Get yourself together & show the community you care as much as we do about your own son.
Great Post Utica

Sherburne, NY

#12 Sep 26, 2013
You NAILED IT!!!!!!!!!!
Lego Maker

Ashburn, VA

#13 Sep 26, 2013
UticaHBIC wrote:
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Ive made wrong choices in my life, but none of them turned out like this. I think defending herself is futile at this point. Actions speak louder than words, and Im sorry, but I see nothing of this "mourning" you speak of. Whether this was written by her or not, which is doubtful since she cant spell a full word on Facebook, it holds no weight for most of the people reading it. This "woman" claims to have been confused and trapped, yet LEFT HER BABY WITH THE MAN who threatened violence against her?? How and Why. There were other options. Any "mourning" she is going through is expected, and fair, and furthermore, simply Kharma. That poor child didnt stand a chance. And regardless of any forums, statuses, or other forms of communication where she attempts to portray herself as something shes not, she knew something. She has to live with her choices and how she did and IS living her life, thats her punishment, if she isnt found somehow to be more involved than we know. I have no pity, and thats just my opinion. Her pictures show a filthy house, she admits to "having a drug addiction", not HAVING....., and now shes asking that people see her in a different light? No one knows what its been like for her? No. No one knows what it was like for baby Levon. Smh.
And to further push the ignorance, she then states she's never dating a black man again??????? The fact that she even thinks that has anything to do with it is ridiculous, and shows her mentality. It has nothing to do with the color of skin, babygirl. It has everything to do with whether or not he has a brain. And yours didnt. There are plenty of good Black men in this area that would never in a million years do what this man supposedly did to you, and unfortunately did to that poor baby. You know how many people are watching you right now, you should be more careful with your words & attitude, THAT might get you some supporters. Color played no part in this tragedy. This could have all been prevented, and only one person couldve changed the outcome. Youll hold that in your heart for the rest of your life.... while youre on welfare and living off the system with your "new man" and the next baby thats coming... and we wont hear Levon's name because nobody will be talking about it anymore. Shameful. Spend more time "mourning" and grieving and being what you should have been when you had him, at least if nothing else, to dedicate your life to his memory, Less time worrying about a man. You made a horrible choice in a man last time, maybe you should focus on something else, work on yourself, prove us all wrong.. before you make the same mistakes, thus making them choices. Get yourself together & show the community you care as much as we do about your own son.
Well said, but one thing you forgot to mention, how does that quote even make sense when she has 2 other black children, 1 being a male!!! Sounds like a stupid comment if you ask me. And yo u know what, she is more than illiterate, and their are many women, and men who have this same issue, it's like a handicap of some kind, this girl was not deserving of a kid period, and she should have had her mental health looked at long before this incident
apeville

New York, NY

#14 Sep 27, 2013
can wh trash be shipped back with the sreggin ?
Tone Loc

Utica, NY

#15 Sep 27, 2013
You hang around blacks too long and bad things start to happen.

Level 2

Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#16 Sep 27, 2013
Lego Maker wrote:
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Well said, but one thing you forgot to mention, how does that quote even make sense when she has 2 other black children, 1 being a male!!! Sounds like a stupid comment if you ask me. And yo u know what, she is more than illiterate, and their are many women, and men who have this same issue, it's like a handicap of some kind, this girl was not deserving of a kid period, and she should have had her mental health looked at long before this incident
You're absolutely right, all she's doing is attempting to push the focus onto the "black baby daddy" rather than take any of it on herself, when we all know its impossible she is completely innocent. The issue was that SHE had children and couldnt possibly be any type of mother to them, on top of the fact she chose a scumbag to make one of them. Choosing to "never date a black man again" isnt the answer to the problem, choosing to not be a scumbag and have babies with criminals that she cant support or take care of because of her "current" drug addiction might be though.
And for the rest of the dummies jumping on this forum backing her ridiculous statement, I will say again, COLOR AND RACE HAD ***NOTHING*** TO DO WITH WHAT HAPPENED TO BABY LEVON. This is not the result of "laying down with (insert your ignorant rant here)", this is the result of her being a horrible mother and person and a child paying the ultimate price for her poor life choices.

Level 2

Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#17 Sep 27, 2013
Tone Loc wrote:
You hang around blacks too long and bad things start to happen.
You sound as ridiculous as she does. You hang around scumbag bottom feeders too long and bad things start to happen. They come in all colors and races, trust me. Watch the news. The majority of "baby killers" are actually WHITE trash, but nobody makes that argument because they couldnt put this dumb "sreggin" crap on public forums if they pointed out the obvious.
Think

Rome, NY

#18 Sep 27, 2013
of what a real prize this guy, white or black, must be if he's allowed himself to shack up with this POS... Must be she's one great piece of assss. Quick! Who's calling Springer for this?
Joe Shmoe

Utica, NY

#19 Sep 28, 2013
Think wrote:
of what a real prize this guy, white or black, must be if he's allowed himself to shack up with this POS... Must be she's one great piece of assss. Quick! Who's calling Springer for this?
It's obvious she will never get away from that element, and the guy she's with is just looking for a place to hide the salami for a while. I'm certain he'll fly the coop before long. I'd take bets on it. Scums... smh

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