Once a cheater always a cheater?
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Reason

Utica, NY

#25 Mar 22, 2013
I firmly believe everything happens for a reason. Good or bad. If you are betrayed by someone you love and trusted I think it is God's way of opening your eyes to a relationship that perhaps was not as fulfilling as you thought. Once you get past the hurt and pain you will learn to think of yourself again. Then it happens. One day you meet someone that is worthy of you and then you will know what it truly feels like to be loved, respected and cherished. An earlier post got it right. The one who cheated on you is not your only option in life.
Fun Fun

Washington, DC

#26 Mar 22, 2013
Good advice. Just be open to trusting another person otherwise you'll end up like me. Alone
Loyal

Danielson, CT

#27 Mar 22, 2013
I think 'once a cheater always a cheater' is true. There may be exceptions but they are few and far between. I am in my mid-forties and I only know of one couple that managed to stay married after an affair. That was over twenty years ago and they made it through and are now enjoying retirement and their grandchildren. BUT, I don't know the true workings of the relationship and no one does unless they are in it. Try not to be jealous of what you see from the outside. Everyone has crap that they have to deal with. If its not infidelity it may be an illness or job loss. No ones life is all roses. For the male and female that were cheated on: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. People who have class that are unhappy in a relationship will work at it or leave. Cheating is an excuse and an easy way out. It happened to me once many years ago and now I'm glad it did because I could not be happier with my new partner who has the same morals that I do.
Yep Yep

Washington, DC

#29 Oct 22, 2013
Lots of Mhawk, Ilion, Herkimer cheater women too. All married, and former married, several well known ladies, all supposed to be high and mighty, ones who wouldn't do that. Ages from 40-60.
Most tell husbands they are going out with a girl friend. Going out with women group.(and dont forget the Zoombaa group they busted as prostitutes up North) Clues: Look to see strange cellphone calls to their cellphones. Notice that a cheater is always on her cell-phone, never leaves it around, don't want husband to see the incoming texts.
Lots of clues to catch these wife cheaters too.
Lots of old men-friends around, they didn't do them before but now they will. To them its all a game.
Gross

Southbridge, MA

#30 Oct 22, 2013
Yep Yep wrote:
Lots of Mhawk, Ilion, Herkimer cheater women too. All married, and former married, several well known ladies, all supposed to be high and mighty, ones who wouldn't do that. Ages from 40-60.
Most tell husbands they are going out with a girl friend. Going out with women group.(and dont forget the Zoombaa group they busted as prostitutes up North) Clues: Look to see strange cellphone calls to their cellphones. Notice that a cheater is always on her cell-phone, never leaves it around, don't want husband to see the incoming texts.
Lots of clues to catch these wife cheaters too.
Lots of old men-friends around, they didn't do them before but now they will. To them its all a game.
sounds gross what is wrong with these middle aged woman ?
Valley Hoe

New York, NY

#31 Oct 22, 2013
Once a cheat always a cheat. Agreed Yep Yep, lots of cheating females floating around the valley. Do not forget to include Little Falls. One of the biggest female players in the valley hails from there. A real so called professional lady. A real arrogant scumbag, with a better than the you attitude. What a joke. She has a real good phony front of being this caring compassionate church going saint. Farthest thing from the truth. Always keeps her affairs hidden. Or so she thinks. But behind the scenes she is the biggest whore player you would ever meet. She does not care if the guy is married or not. A real Snow White
Photo man can

Washington, DC

#32 Oct 22, 2013
Yep theres one in Mohawk too, she got her butt married again and is always out cruisin'. You woulnt think it but everone knows. Her ex said she was a player with everyone but him. Poor kids
Vagina Mangler

Syracuse, NY

#33 Oct 22, 2013
Damn right especially if the women thinks we don't know if they cheated on us. Stupid! Do you think I would just stop at one. If you cheated on me
I will sleep with as much of your family as possible, including your mother "YUCK" then on to your sisters and then your cousins and then your friend and then your possible future boyfriends family as well. I would try to fall in love again after I feel like I'm satisfied.
Amber

New York, NY

#37 Dec 20, 2013
These leopards never change their spots. They will sleep with anything. The "girlfriend" and wife are their fronts, while they continue collecting girls along the way. If you're going to cheat, get a quality woman - most of these chicks are gross
Excuses

Washington, DC

#38 Dec 9, 2014
Unluckily many cheaters use the crap phrase "oh - he/she was my first love" or "my old boyfriend/girlfriend", or "I still had feelings for them" - all an excuse to go get some strange
Not the answer

Clinton, NY

#39 Dec 9, 2014
If a person does that it's not a stranger .the person they're with May have hurt them in some way.

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