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#21 Sep 11, 2010
The parent was a POS like everyone says. What do you do when you are 13, and afraid. No advocate. What do you do?

I have never been beaten by another human being, especially my own father. I don't know how many times I could take it, especially from my own parent. He's still a child, and very damaged. Pray for him.
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Ogdensburg, NY

#22 Sep 12, 2010
So the boy took control of the situation himself since the court etc failed, there has to be some repercussion for his actions.But don't blame him for his actions. I'm sure if the father wasn't abusing him like we are informed this would not have happened.Besides, murderers are let go of prisons every day and repeat. Give this kid a chance,it's not like he's a serial kiler. You don't know of any classmates missing.I'm sure he's had scuffles in school like most ,especially since he probably was introverted.Kids pick up on that and run with it.
longtimeago

Cortland, NY

#23 Sep 12, 2010
how about this.... whats done is done, the kid did what he felt he had to do to survive. He snapped, it happens when kids are not helped. I witnessed my dad and brother go after eachother with butcher knives. This was one of those times my bro snapped because he was abused every single day of his life. cops were called, dad stays and bro gets sent away for a while and then right back to the hands of the abuser. Our system sucks when it comes to helping children. I just pray that joseph is surrounded by loving family members when he gets out. He will have to live with this for the rest of his life. God bless his mom, my prayers are with her.
why not

Utica, NY

#24 Sep 12, 2010
Long Time Utican wrote:
<quoted text>You are far from ever being a psychologist.
If you have ever been involved in helping disturbed children (especially at the age of 13), you would realize they still have the mind of a child and do NOT have the maturity of how to "cope" with a situation that he/she has failed to get help. This boy's Mom tried everything she could to help her son from being abused but no one would listen or help her.
We all have our breaking points and this boy was pushed to the edge until he finally snapped and took care of his abuser his way.
Sure, it is wrong to take another person's life and I'm sure this young boy has been to HE** and back, and will live these horrible memories for the rest of his life. Hopefully, he can now start private counseling and learn how to overcome these dark memories and put them behind him.
Remember, before you sit in Judgment on a young man, walk in his shoes for a few years then let us know what YOU would have done to stop the torture.
Is there anything you dont know about? whatever the subject is you are the expert, give us a break already!
my guess

Ogdensburg, NY

#25 Sep 12, 2010
exactly ,any other opinions should be kept to themselves, no more negativity
UCme

Utica, NY

#26 Sep 12, 2010
Little Joey shot daddy in the head.Mommy will be next as she lies in bed.
His_Girlfriend

Utica, NY

#28 Feb 15, 2013
He went through a lot. Can't you all just understand you don't know the whole story, but ONLY what the media tells you!? Today he is probably more decent than half you morons.
somewhere

Watertown, NY

#29 Feb 17, 2013
This is a sad story. I don't believe killing was the answer but I wasn't there. Ik all parties involved. From what I have been told is the mother is a bit on the crazy side. If someone was abusing my child I would go thru hell to protect them at whatever cost.
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Roosevelt, NY

#30 Feb 18, 2013
Long Time Utican wrote:
<quoted text>IMO - this woman doesn't deserve to be called a "Mother".
This boy's mother DID try to help her son as she went to Court trying to get the law to do something to help her protect her son - the Police and the Courts didn't do anything to help her.
You are probably right, she probably also lived in fear of him. If I remember the facts of this case, the father and mother were Divorced and the Father had Custody of this boy. The Mother tried to everything she could to try and get her son back - but no one would listen to her.
Children do NOT lie about sex abuse. If one of my children, or grandchildren, ever told me something like this I would definitely believe them. Fortunately, none of my children or Grandchildren have ever had to face this type of trauma.
No you just drove your GD into the arms of a black man and then tried to have him charged LOL! You really are just a POS out to put people down. You deserve to be a "LTU" you act the ignorant part so well!
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Roosevelt, NY

#31 Feb 18, 2013
BTW JG3 is fine and excelling in his studies and has a job and a beautiful pretty GF now that he got out of the reject capital of ny. Much to your dismay old hater.
Its Cretin

New Hartford, NY

#32 Feb 18, 2013
Latest UPD racism post wrote:
BTW JG3 is fine and excelling in his studies and has a job and a beautiful pretty GF now that he got out of the reject capital of ny. Much to your dismay old hater.
BTW it's..........Cretin!
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Roosevelt, NY

#33 Feb 18, 2013
And for blaming your racism and obesity in whiteswhoro the Land of Failed Coaches - Its your mommy!
Its Cretin

New Hartford, NY

#34 Feb 18, 2013
Latest UPD racism post wrote:
And for blaming your racism and obesity in whiteswhoro the Land of Failed Coaches - Its your mommy!
Who is the man that hates his fellow man......Cretin!
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#35 Feb 18, 2013
Kevin Adams from Clinton has been in OCJ since 2008 for killing his grandfather and he was only charged.
Ihatethegiaconas

Hadley, MA

#36 Feb 22, 2013
I went to school with this kids father, he was an absolute loser, a drug addict at age 13 , beat his first girlfriend at 16, and it appears he never got any better
The grandfather was a mean SOB and the grandmother. was no better
now this kid was arrested for stealing!
Really nice family, pillars of society, but don't worry us taxpayers will foot his bill
little bastard
Amanda

Springfield, MA

#37 May 25, 2013
This kid was beaten by his father i woulda killed the butthole too. Haha wont let me swear
click boom

New York, NY

#40 May 25, 2013
Another future Italian hitman. Watch out Tony Saprano
True

Fulton, NY

#41 May 25, 2013
First murder. Now armed robbery? Lock him up and throw away the key before he kills again.
pretty boy Floyd

New York, NY

#42 May 25, 2013
True wrote:
First murder. Now armed robbery? Lock him up and throw away the key before he kills again.
He's a full blown Italian Mobster now !
squiggie

New York, NY

#43 May 25, 2013
His last name even sounds like a famous mobster !

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