In a relationship but still on dating...

In a relationship but still on dating site

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Dawnie

Little Falls, NY

#1 Nov 24, 2013
So I just started a exclusive relationship with someone I'm crazy about. We met on a online dating site so once we had the "relationship talk" decided to delete our profiles. Well I deleted mine but his is still up even though he said he deleted it..I asked him and again he said it was deleted,.Should I let it go or say something again? It's really bothering me!
Stella

Utica, NY

#2 Nov 24, 2013
Sorry honey. He's a player. Don't waste your time. And for God's sake,,,,put your profile back up!
not truthful

Utica, NY

#3 Nov 24, 2013
Run from him sweetie! He's still looking!
NH Stud

San Jose, CA

#4 Nov 24, 2013
We're always looking. There is always something better waiting in the wings. You're just one of many on our road to perfection. Stop whining and slip into something attractive.
Two way street

Clockville, NY

#5 Nov 24, 2013
I met a women on Cupid and we started dating heavy so we both deleted the profiles. So about 3 years ago I was on Match.com and didn't have any luck so I just didn't renew after 3 months. We she calls me all mean and nasty asking WTF I doing on Match so I tell her I'm not. She say's yes you are. So I go on there doing the free basic search and there I am, catch was it was old, my age my kids ages and my grand kids ages were from 3 years ago. I guess When you don't renew it never get's erased. Then I ask her why she was there and her comment was " I wanted to compare how you and your wonderful smile are to other men" That's funny so I search for her and there she was in a photo I took with her phone. BUSTED! I told her to lose my number and thanks for the ass. So women are just as bad because this 47 year old is no player and want's a one on one exclusive relationship!
Three Hump Chump

Rome, NY

#6 Nov 24, 2013
Maybe if you dropped 50 pounds??? Personality will only go so far.

You're full of shitzle- no woman can be trusted anymore!
Three Hump Chump

Rome, NY

#7 Nov 24, 2013
Two way street wrote:
I met a women on Cupid and we started dating heavy so we both deleted the profiles. So about 3 years ago I was on Match.com and didn't have any luck so I just didn't renew after 3 months. We she calls me all mean and nasty asking WTF I doing on Match so I tell her I'm not. She say's yes you are. So I go on there doing the free basic search and there I am, catch was it was old, my age my kids ages and my grand kids ages were from 3 years ago. I guess When you don't renew it never get's erased. Then I ask her why she was there and her comment was " I wanted to compare how you and your wonderful smile are to other men" That's funny so I search for her and there she was in a photo I took with her phone. BUSTED! I told her to lose my number and thanks for the ass. So women are just as bad because this 47 year old is no player and want's a one on one exclusive relationship!
SEE what I'm sayin??? You should just keep fkin her as you search for another or others...
huntz hall

Geneva, NY

#8 Nov 24, 2013
You need to join the 4"F" club - find 'em, feel 'em, f*ck 'em, & forget 'em.
Little Bird

Malone, NY

#9 Nov 24, 2013
Oh yeah sure honey. You cared so much for me. That was till your ex showed back up. You turned out to be a big player. And now you tell your clueless friends I no longer talk you. Stop, will you I hate a liar. You right on one point, I will never speak to you again.
Dont cha

Bristol, CT

#10 Nov 24, 2013
Little Bird wrote:
Oh yeah sure honey. You cared so much for me. That was till your ex showed back up. You turned out to be a big player. And now you tell your clueless friends I no longer talk you. Stop, will you I hate a liar. You right on one point, I will never speak to you again.
wish you were hot like me . Missed the ex what can I say .
Flo

Skaneateles, NY

#11 Nov 24, 2013
They probably told you it was the ex that showed back up because they were married from the beginning!!
Mel

Bristol, CT

#12 Nov 24, 2013
Flo wrote:
They probably told you it was the ex that showed back up because they were married from the beginning!!
woman's fault giving up too easy before know real deal of the situation
Cindy

Columbus, OH

#13 Nov 24, 2013
Men are scum. Know this going into a relationship, use them for all that they are worth -- and move on.
Two way street

Clockville, NY

#14 Nov 24, 2013
Cindy wrote:
Men are scum. Know this going into a relationship, use them for all that they are worth -- and move on.
You women are just as much scum so let's not play the innocent game here!
Little Bird

Malone, NY

#15 Nov 24, 2013
Two way street wrote:
<quoted text>You women are just as much scum so let's not play the innocent game here!
Ain't that the truth.
way it is

Cohoes, NY

#16 Nov 24, 2013
Dawnie wrote:
So I just started a exclusive relationship with someone I'm crazy about. We met on a online dating site so once we had the "relationship talk" decided to delete our profiles. Well I deleted mine but his is still up even though he said he deleted it..I asked him and again he said it was deleted,.Should I let it go or say something again? It's really bothering me!
Been there. Both Match and POF have auto sign in features that will make it appear that you're active and no longer hidden. That's by design to make the site look bigger. Also you can be inactive but your profile can still be marketed by these sites as a daily match. Be careful before u accuse. You could be jumping to conclusions that are fAlse... Btw: what are u doing on there checking?????

FTW Yall

“"Trust no one"”

Level 1

Since: Jul 13

Drive it, like you stole it

#17 Nov 24, 2013
Dawnie wrote:
So I just started a exclusive relationship with someone I'm crazy about. We met on a online dating site so once we had the "relationship talk" decided to delete our profiles. Well I deleted mine but his is still up even though he said he deleted it..I asked him and again he said it was deleted,.Should I let it go or say something again? It's really bothering me!
Hey get with it, if there is no ring and vows a man is always still looking and you need to just except that fact. It is up to you to prove yourself to him that your worth devoting himself to. Don't let it bother you because there is no commitment when people are dating. Dating is just another word for "seeing if it fits".
good riddance

Utica, NY

#18 Nov 24, 2013
Cindy wrote:
Men are scum. Know this going into a relationship, use them for all that they are worth -- and move on.
You have the same name and attitude as my ex-fiance. You will never be happy the rest of your life with your attitude.
way it is

Albany, NY

#19 Nov 24, 2013
If there's one thing the women don't like it's when a guy uses the same double standard that they (women) think only applies to themselves. It's almost 2014 and you want equality, work place fairness, and everything else. Have at it. Us men will gladly sit back and let you support us for a change. We'll start thinking about our emotional needs when you're working long hours to support the family. All I'm saying is be careful what you wish for. We can play it your way too ;)
Flo

Syracuse, NY

#20 Nov 24, 2013
I agree, but if you are married you don't belong on there!! Too many married men on there!!
FTW Yall wrote:
<quoted text>Hey get with it, if there is no ring and vows a man is always still looking and you need to just except that fact. It is up to you to prove yourself to him that your worth devoting himself to. Don't let it bother you because there is no commitment when people are dating. Dating is just another word for "seeing if it fits".

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