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BoSTYmAc

Massena, NY

#1 Apr 16, 2014
How many single Moms can Oneida & Herkimer County hold? These women have 2-5 kids from multiple fathers, and yet can't keep a man in their lives over 6 months. But they say the are making a good living for their kids. What are these kids learning from their Moms? These women say they can't find a good man. Maybe THEY need to look in the mirror. Obviously if they are going through multiple men, then maybe it ISN'T the men who are the problem. Shhheeesshhh...give me a break.
Fact

New York Mills, NY

#2 Apr 16, 2014
BoSTYmAc wrote:
How many single Moms can Oneida & Herkimer County hold? These women have 2-5 kids from multiple fathers, and yet can't keep a man in their lives over 6 months. But they say the are making a good living for their kids. What are these kids learning from their Moms? These women say they can't find a good man. Maybe THEY need to look in the mirror. Obviously if they are going through multiple men, then maybe it ISN'T the men who are the problem. Shhheeesshhh...give me a break.
They want it both ways. No self-respecting guy would put up with these indecisive broads who feel entitled. If you're a dweeb loser type who is willing to take orders, they will eat you up.
1baby Daddy

Liverpool, NY

#3 Apr 16, 2014
BoSTYmAc wrote:
How many single Moms can Oneida & Herkimer County hold? These women have 2-5 kids from multiple fathers, and yet can't keep a man in their lives over 6 months. But they say the are making a good living for their kids. What are these kids learning from their Moms? These women say they can't find a good man. Maybe THEY need to look in the mirror. Obviously if they are going through multiple men, then maybe it ISN'T the men who are the problem. Shhheeesshhh...give me a break.
Hmm and how did they become single mothers? Because you the man played as well as the 1st,2nd ect. Yes single mothers of several kids, by different fathers drew your attention also. Men complain but continue to "dabble" with these women. Is the single, sober, hard working woman that undesirable?
Tales from the Darkside

Fayetteville, NY

#4 Apr 16, 2014
That's easy one. Mommy has a new male friend in her room tonight. He is a different male friend she had there last month. I can't keep track of the number of male friends in the past year. Gee what do you think I am going to grow up into? Can you say Hoe...
Nope

Roslindale, MA

#5 Apr 16, 2014
The they are very desirable, what's not is the crap that comes with the baby daddy, and crazy ex or whatever. Single mom still being that losers spell and all that comes with it.
Barbie

Massena, NY

#6 Apr 16, 2014
Men are men and will screw with any woman who will let him. It is these women who think they are superior to other women and go though man after man. many even go after married men and break up marriages,cause, like i said,.a man will screw any woman if she lets him.
I know some woman with 2 or 3 kids with great jobs and great education, and still can't land a man. I know some woman who have great jobs and great education, and been married for 20 years. A great job and education doesn't make you a woman. The devotion to your man, kids, your family, is whats important.
Haha

Herkimer, NY

#7 Apr 16, 2014
Most women are single because while they are home taking care of the kids and the house the men are out f..ing around on them. Sooner or later they get tired of the bs and toss the man out. Sorry but it's true. And then to add insult to injury they cry about having to pay child support.
Tales from the Darkside

Fayetteville, NY

#8 Apr 17, 2014
Barbie wrote:
Men are men and will screw with any woman who will let him. It is these women who think they are superior to other women and go though man after man. many even go after married men and break up marriages,cause, like i said,.a man will screw any woman if she lets him.
I know some woman with 2 or 3 kids with great jobs and great education, and still can't land a man. I know some woman who have great jobs and great education, and been married for 20 years. A great job and education doesn't make you a woman. The devotion to your man, kids, your family, is whats important.


I know one as well. She got the big fancy degrees. Got an arrogant attitude that she is better than the rest of the human race. But she leads a secret lie of a life. Miss professional by day and sleazy Hoe by night. She is a revolving door player. Married or single in does not matter to her. Nothing but a lying fraud. Her kids should be proud.
You dont know

Westwood, MA

#9 Apr 17, 2014
Married 31 yrs in October . I tell ny kids it all comes down to values. If you value the same things it lasts. Being in love with each other comes and goes, but you have to like each other.

If you both value material things, tripping the lights fantastic every night and being seen , you'll have fun but the family suffers because the sitter or nanny will raise your kids. If you value family , commitment and honesty you'll have a great life together. And if you're values are different then it just doesn't work. Once one doesn't feel the "spark" they look for it some where else.
really

Utica, NY

#10 Apr 17, 2014
Having been single for about a year now after a 7 year relationship ( no kids) I'm astounded , at the amount of " single moms" out there on the prowl... 9 out of 10 of them will go home with just about any guy... I steer clear of them... Most of these women dump their kid or kids of at the Fathers, or grandparent every dam weekend, they always open up a Convo with " I'm a single mom" or " my kids are my life" as they guzzle a beer of slam a few shots... Then the real laugher is when they start slamming the father of the kid or kids... Oh he doesn't do this he doesn't do that blah blah blah, then you end up hearing that that is where the kid or kids are while they're out get slammed trolling for some dik.. And to boot probably with the child support money... LMAO... You women that sit here bashing the men are pathetic... Because the only trend I see more and more is more men with they're kids living with them and more and more " single moms" knocked up again... So what don't y'all shut your mouth and close your dam legs for a change instead of going on disk hunts every weekend...
HiLiter

Massena, NY

#11 Apr 17, 2014
Haha wrote:
Most women are single because while they are home taking care of the kids and the house the men are out f..ing around on them. Sooner or later they get tired of the bs and toss the man out. Sorry but it's true. And then to add insult to injury they cry about having to pay child support.
If that is the case, then why do these women have 2 or 3 kids from 1 or 2 different men and continue to have a new boyfriend every once in awhile and they are the ones who dump the boyfriend for something new ?
Lol

Herkimer, NY

#12 Apr 17, 2014
really wrote:
Having been single for about a year now after a 7 year relationship ( no kids) I'm astounded , at the amount of " single moms" out there on the prowl... 9 out of 10 of them will go home with just about any guy... I steer clear of them... Most of these women dump their kid or kids of at the Fathers, or grandparent every dam weekend, they always open up a Convo with " I'm a single mom" or " my kids are my life" as they guzzle a beer of slam a few shots... Then the real laugher is when they start slamming the father of the kid or kids... Oh he doesn't do this he doesn't do that blah blah blah, then you end up hearing that that is where the kid or kids are while they're out get slammed trolling for some dik.. And to boot probably with the child support money... LMAO... You women that sit here bashing the men are pathetic... Because the only trend I see more and more is more men with they're kids living with them and more and more " single moms" knocked up again... So what don't y'all shut your mouth and close your dam legs for a change instead of going on disk hunts every weekend...
Haha this is good. I like how these single unmarried moms throw it out there like its something to be respected. Get the fu*% out of here. It's disgraceful, you're a bimbo who fell for some smooth talker.
Utica Positivity Brigade

East Hartford, CT

#13 Apr 17, 2014
1baby Daddy wrote:
<quoted text>Hmm and how did they become single mothers? Because you the man played as well as the 1st,2nd ect. Yes single mothers of several kids, by different fathers drew your attention also. Men complain but continue to "dabble" with these women. Is the single, sober, hard working woman that undesirable?
Single, sober, hard-working women... that also happen to have a good attitude, nice personality, knowledge, literate, and somewhat halfway decent looks are hard to come by around here. Some of them marry or are in committed relationships by the age of 18. Most of them leave the area before they turn 20. Many leave for college and never come back.

So in the end it comes down to a wading through a pool of illiterate, awkward women without personality or intelligence...(to be fair a lot of CNY guys are weird too) and it's down to a choice between a clueless girl that's hot or a clueless girl that's not? The choice is slim but obvious. Either he dates a girl for her looks, leaves the region (ie visit Syracuse), or he doesn't date at all.

I sway between #2 and #3, while the guys that don't think too far ahead tend to go for the first option...
B Bunny

United States

#14 Apr 17, 2014
Utica Positivity Brigade wrote:
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Single, sober, hard-working women... that also happen to have a good attitude, nice personality, knowledge, literate, and somewhat halfway decent looks are hard to come by around here. Some of them marry or are in committed relationships by the age of 18. Most of them leave the area before they turn 20. Many leave for college and never come back.
So in the end it comes down to a wading through a pool of illiterate, awkward women without personality or intelligence...(to be fair a lot of CNY guys are weird too) and it's down to a choice between a clueless girl that's hot or a clueless girl that's not? The choice is slim but obvious. Either he dates a girl for her looks, leaves the region (ie visit Syracuse), or he doesn't date at all.
I sway between #2 and #3, while the guys that don't think too far ahead tend to go for the first option...
Thank you, many men around here even if they have no kids or ever been married are beyond weird and so self centered they couldnt tell the good from the bad. And whats this "Dom" crap they play? If a man wants to Dominate the act at least be pleasing at it, or he might be the choke-ee
Utica Positivity Brigade

Blossvale, NY

#15 Apr 17, 2014
B Bunny wrote:
<quoted text>Thank you, many men around here even if they have no kids or ever been married are beyond weird and so self centered they couldnt tell the good from the bad. And whats this "Dom" crap they play? If a man wants to Dominate the act at least be pleasing at it, or he might be the choke-ee
Yup, I'm not FROM Utica, but I stay here for the laughs. I consider myself awkward and weird, but when I moved here I began to feel much better about myself.

As for the 1-upmanship and the pseudo-Alpha-male stuff? I don't know. Maybe they've read one too many pickup artist blogs. Not hard to imagine since, like I said before, it's slim pickings around here... they'll try anything to get laid with someone that's halfway decent looking.
amy

Ithaca, NY

#16 Apr 17, 2014
BoSTYmAc wrote:
How many single Moms can Oneida & Herkimer County hold? These women have 2-5 kids from multiple fathers, and yet can't keep a man in their lives over 6 months. But they say the are making a good living for their kids. What are these kids learning from their Moms? These women say they can't find a good man. Maybe THEY need to look in the mirror. Obviously if they are going through multiple men, then maybe it ISN'T the men who are the problem. Shhheeesshhh...give me a break.
amy warney got a man and what they be selling pay real good doh!
12InRuler

Massena, NY

#17 Apr 24, 2014
I just don't get it.
Dr Love

Utica, NY

#18 Apr 24, 2014
OK, I can't resist this thread.
I got divorced a few years back and was a little apprehensive about getting back into the dating scene. Wasn't sure what to expect. I was in my mid 40's, decent job, owned my own home(even after the divorce) and drove a nice car but was absolutely amazed at how easy it was to bed women.
"Single Mom's" were ripe for the picking. I started out with women my age or a little older and before I realized it I was taking home women 10-15 years younger than me. I said to myself, why couldn't I do this when I was in my 20's?
I soon realized that some of these women had kids of the age that child support from the Ex's would be ending soon, so basically they were looking for a new schmuck with an income to replace the old schmuck's child support payments!!
After I figured that out it was "Game-On", I have been having a blast ever since.
So to those ladies, past, present and future, I'm hear to say Thanks, I'm having the time of my life!!!!
cheap trick

Windham, NY

#19 Apr 24, 2014
Mary Kwiecinski is a single mother and all you need is a large bottle of wine to score.now how cheap is that for a quick score.
single mom

Buffalo, NY

#20 Apr 24, 2014
most wormen are single becuase they are caring for their children and working. while the husbad or boyfriend is barely holding down a job and thinks he is working hard and entitles himself to go out all the time drinking then cheats on his lady. Most guys nowadays are lazy, no money, no credit, no parenting skills, immature as heck and no family values. when times are tough they run away. they skip out on their obligations they have created. They once wanted the family and kids and home, but then when they have it they find it boring and want to go back to theur bachelor days.

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