married thinking your single

married thinking your single

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I know

Glenfield, NY

#1 Oct 23, 2013
If your married and go out with your friends, leaving your wife or husband at home. Wake up the grass isn't greener on the other side. If you want the single life again get divorced. If children are involved they are feeling the pain. Utica is the perfect example. Wake up marriage isn't a game you play. It is a commitment for life.
Unhappy

Utica, NY

#2 Oct 23, 2013
Sounds as tho u met in heaven & worked your way straight to hell!!
Suicidal

Liverpool, NY

#3 Nov 20, 2013
Tell me about it , it's nasty . Hook up with people you don't know .
Sneaky

Chittenango, NY

#4 Nov 20, 2013
How about being married and going on the dating sites and hooking up then going home to your spouse. I hope they get caught up with.
dohhh

Holland Patent, NY

#5 Nov 20, 2013
What if the couple is perfectly fine with being as you described ? Maybe doing things like that makes their relationship better... Awful lot of people on here lately telling other people how they should live... Way to much self righteousness going around....I bet your one of those people that gossips behind everyone's back.. Little do you know honey.. When you leave the room they're all talking about what a bitch you are... Live your life they way you want to and quit pushing your way of life on others.. Evidently your spouse is tired of looking at your fat ass or listening to your mouth. Go run a few laps around the block and shut up with your self righteous bull crap.. Maybe they will actually want to do something with you instead of going out to get the hell away from you...
B Bunny

Albany, NY

#6 Nov 20, 2013
Sneaky wrote:
How about being married and going on the dating sites and hooking up then going home to your spouse. I hope they get caught up with.
We all know at least one of these, several sites!!
Prankster

Utica, NY

#7 Nov 20, 2013
Alot of the letter carriers are like this. Need I say more?
Butterfly

Holyoke, MA

#8 Nov 20, 2013
I would love to be married for once . Some people do have a good home and they have to be stupid or sinful either way you want to put it .
well

Albany, NY

#9 Nov 21, 2013
I know wrote:
If your married and go out with your friends, leaving your wife or husband at home. Wake up the grass isn't greener on the other side. If you want the single life again get divorced. If children are involved they are feeling the pain. Utica is the perfect example. Wake up marriage isn't a game you play. It is a commitment for life.
Umm I go out with friends and so does the wife. Why is that an issue
Who Cares

Warren, NJ

#10 Nov 22, 2013
I know wrote:
If your married and go out with your friends, leaving your wife or husband at home. Wake up the grass isn't greener on the other side. If you want the single life again get divorced. If children are involved they are feeling the pain. Utica is the perfect example. Wake up marriage isn't a game you play. It is a commitment for life.
If you can't do things with friends away from your spouse you have a sh!tty marriage. Insecurtity is a beeyotch, isn't it?
Counselor

Philadelphia, PA

#11 Nov 22, 2013
Marriages are based on trust. If you don't trust your spouse , you don't have anything. You have people that are bored in their marriage and are insecure and need the attention of other people .

It leads down the wrong road for everyone involved. Jealously rears it's head and then things become complicated and resentment takes over.
Even if nothing happens, something does happen because you've violated the emotional aspect of the marriage and that's a hard feeling to overcome
Understand

Chatham, NY

#12 Nov 22, 2013
Counselor wrote:
Marriages are based on trust. If you don't trust your spouse , you don't have anything. You have people that are bored in their marriage and are insecure and need the attention of other people .
It leads down the wrong road for everyone involved. Jealously rears it's head and then things become complicated and resentment takes over.
Even if nothing happens, something does happen because you've violated the emotional aspect of the marriage and that's a hard feeling to overcome
really who can be trusted nowadays ? Even if not sex as you stated emotional cheating on a person . It's hard basically you trust someone 95 percent who could trust someone 100 percent ? You just can't but you have to or you would go nuts
Understand

Chatham, NY

#13 Nov 22, 2013
Counselor wrote:
Marriages are based on trust. If you don't trust your spouse , you don't have anything. You have people that are bored in their marriage and are insecure and need the attention of other people .
It leads down the wrong road for everyone involved. Jealously rears it's head and then things become complicated and resentment takes over.
Even if nothing happens, something does happen because you've violated the emotional aspect of the marriage and that's a hard feeling to overcome
to give a human being 100 percent trust . No one is Jesus think about it . I don't care how healthy a relationship is no one person will trust completely unfortunately . It will cross a persons mind at some point if their spouse has cheated even if it's a split second . The percent is completely faithful because we're human
Understand

Chatham, NY

#14 Nov 22, 2013
Understand wrote:
<quoted text> to give a human being 100 percent trust . No one is Jesus think about it . I don't care how healthy a relationship is no one person will trust completely unfortunately . It will cross a persons mind at some point if their spouse has cheated even if it's a split second . The percent is completely faithful because we're human
error last sentence spouse can be completely faithful but for a split second at some point may guestion your partner because you know we're just human . So much out there now
Vans

Utica, NY

#15 Nov 22, 2013
Lil messed around on Bruce
Foote

Blossvale, NY

#16 Nov 22, 2013
I love fakin that shut
Truly Hurt

Sherburne, NY

#17 Nov 22, 2013
My X always accused me of cheating on him. I was a stay at home Mom. I was truly to tired to enjoy sex.(after of course having sex enough to produce 3 children) He didn't understand why I always said NO! He constantly accused me of getting it somewhere else while he was at work.... Said he wouldn't leave me until he actually knew I cheated! So... I did..!!! Just to get rid of the insecure assh^e!!!!!!!!!! Life has never been better!!!
P.S. years after our divorce I found out he was cheating on me!!!!!!!!!! It's true when someone accuses you of something, they are doing it themselves!!

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