Middle Aged Cougars with Low Self Esteem

Middle Aged Cougars with Low Self Esteem

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Concerned

Herkimer, NY

#1 Apr 6, 2011
I'm an educated and attractive younger woman (mid 20's) who is confused by so many middle aged cougars around town who seem to lack any worldliness and have built their entire sense of self-esteem upon their looks. It seems there is so much of this around here. Many of these woman have accomplished little or nothing in life and seem to have have no sense of purpose other than a sexy appearance. They seem to fit a pattern: divorced, thin, dress in style, hanging out in bars, spike heels, botox, breast jobs, no education,teezed out hair and collecting someone else's hard earned money -usually child support or alimony.
What bothers me most is how I see these women treat men. They use their sex as a lure with the expectation of getting something in return. Many of my guy friends who were attracted to these types have been left hurt really bad both emotionally and financially.
It seems my generation (about 20 years younger) is much more focused on building genuine friendship, being independent, and not expecting something out of someone in a quid pro quo arrangement. So, yes I despise this prostitute-like behavior and I'm just amazed at how these women actually think their behavior is socially appropriate.
Where is the self-respect and self-sufficiency?
Concerned

United States

#2 Apr 6, 2011
Acutally, I am just a jealous little BEEP, a cougar stole my man and now I have to go back on welfare cus he was my baby daddy. I am obese, morbidly and I don't have no fiends cus of it. Alls I got is this computer and a bunch of lil rugrats
Concerned

United States

#3 Apr 6, 2011
what is self respect and self sufficiency? cus my case worker tole me i needed to get me a little sumpin sumpin of that
shelle

Earlville, NY

#4 Apr 6, 2011
Yeah it sucks being middle aged and having to sleep with another womans husband my personal training business still has not paid for my fake ti** I'm tired of giving bj's out in the parking lot for free I can't seem to find my sugar daddy not sure if its because I look like a man. Wow this sucks
Too Bad For U

Herkimer, NY

#5 Apr 7, 2011
Terry is well over "middle-aged" and definitely not a cougar......more like a hyena LOL!
pfmember

Bradford, VT

#6 Apr 7, 2011
shelle wrote:
Yeah it sucks being middle aged and having to sleep with another womans husband my personal training business still has not paid for my fake ti** I'm tired of giving bj's out in the parking lot for free I can't seem to find my sugar daddy not sure if its because I look like a man. Wow this sucks
yep and she's still at it ugly as sin buck teeth slurping up jizz in the back seat of chevys! She's pure white trash and rick is better off without her!
Yeah

Utica, NY

#7 Apr 7, 2011
Concerned wrote:
I'm an educated and attractive younger woman (mid 20's) who is confused by so many middle aged cougars around town who seem to lack any worldliness and have built their entire sense of self-esteem upon their looks. It seems there is so much of this around here. Many of these woman have accomplished little or nothing in life and seem to have have no sense of purpose other than a sexy appearance. They seem to fit a pattern: divorced, thin, dress in style, hanging out in bars, spike heels, botox, breast jobs, no education,teezed out hair and collecting someone else's hard earned money -usually child support or alimony.
What bothers me most is how I see these women treat men. They use their sex as a lure with the expectation of getting something in return. Many of my guy friends who were attracted to these types have been left hurt really bad both emotionally and financially.
It seems my generation (about 20 years younger) is much more focused on building genuine friendship, being independent, and not expecting something out of someone in a quid pro quo arrangement. So, yes I despise this prostitute-like behavior and I'm just amazed at how these women actually think their behavior is socially appropriate.
Where is the self-respect and self-sufficiency?
Yeah ok, you're a woman in her 20's and I'm the pope. This site is comical , keep up the good work
wrong

United States

#8 Apr 8, 2011
I bet you're educated. But I bet if we got a line up of men to judge your attractiveness...it would be a. Different story hahahhahha u r so jealous of us! So funny took you a long time to write that maybe you Shouldve spent that. Time on your appearance!!!Ahahhhaha. I will Never look like like an old lumberjack like half of you in this town I will alwyas keep myself in tip top shape for my man! Sexxxxxxxxy foreverrrrrrrrr!don't be a hater.... That's something that doesn't look attractive on anyone!!!
ahem

Utica, NY

#10 Apr 9, 2011
its "boy toy" not "toy boy." lol
cheese please

Syracuse, NY

#11 Apr 9, 2011
Concerned wrote:
I'm an educated and attractive younger woman (mid 20's) who is confused by so many middle aged cougars around town who seem to lack any worldliness and have built their entire sense of self-esteem upon their looks. It seems there is so much of this around here. Many of these woman have accomplished little or nothing in life and seem to have have no sense of purpose other than a sexy appearance. They seem to fit a pattern: divorced, thin, dress in style, hanging out in bars, spike heels, botox, breast jobs, no education,teezed out hair and collecting someone else's hard earned money -usually child support or alimony.
What bothers me most is how I see these women treat men. They use their sex as a lure with the expectation of getting something in return. Many of my guy friends who were attracted to these types have been left hurt really bad both emotionally and financially.
It seems my generation (about 20 years younger) is much more focused on building genuine friendship, being independent, and not expecting something out of someone in a quid pro quo arrangement. So, yes I despise this prostitute-like behavior and I'm just amazed at how these women actually think their behavior is socially appropriate.
Where is the self-respect and self-sufficiency?
if you can cook gimme your #
Cougars Cub

Schenectady, NY

#12 Apr 9, 2011
Do you spit or swallow?
Crowes feet

Herkimer, NY

#13 Apr 9, 2011
Too Bad For U wrote:
Terry is well over "middle-aged" and definitely not a cougar......more like a hyena LOL!
Have you looked at your own picture you ugly dog?
Too Bad For U

Utica, NY

#14 Apr 9, 2011
Crowes feet wrote:
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Have you looked at your own picture you ugly dog?
Exactly who are you referring to?
problem

Needham, MA

#15 Apr 10, 2011
The problem with middle age women who dress like hookers is they look stupid don't show up at enchanted forest wearing a leapord print bikini and expect people not to laugh at you while your chasing around your grandkids there is nothing sexy about it!
Sufferin Succotash

Herkimer, NY

#16 Apr 10, 2011
Was tweety bird at the zoo tday.....I tawt I taw a nasty skank LOL!
Leopard Lounge

Herkimer, NY

#17 Apr 10, 2011
These women are all trouble. Washed up used and abused has-been recycled prom queens trying to cling onto something before the end of life. One endless train wreck after another. You can't fool mother nature. Just try and take that 2 inch piece of real estate to the bank and see how much interest they'll give you. LOL! When beauty and age collide - look out...you better have some SUBSTANCE!

Stay at the Racino and Casino where you belong. P.S. after age 50 it's a good idea to stay away from Lava.
my take

Oriskany Falls, NY

#18 Apr 10, 2011
I think the younger girls are a little pissed that younger men find "middle aged" women attractive. Maybe its BECAUSE some of them HAVE substance, are worldly, self sufficient, are confident, and better in the sack. Just sayin...
Cougar Hunter

New Hartford, NY

#19 Apr 10, 2011
Actually, seeing these ladies out is pretty funny. Most think they are hot, but the truth is most have only a couple of years of child support payments left to collect and they fear the party may soon be over. So they have two choices, start thinking about getting a job or find some new shmuck to keep paying the bills, since the old shmuck is almost off the hook.

So they figure they better make some poor sap think they are the greatest piece of ass he will ever have. The smart guess get some and move on, the stupid ones marry em.
No doubt

Herkimer, NY

#20 Apr 11, 2011
Cougar Hunter wrote:
Actually, seeing these ladies out is pretty funny. Most think they are hot, but the truth is most have only a couple of years of child support payments left to collect and they fear the party may soon be over. So they have two choices, start thinking about getting a job or find some new shmuck to keep paying the bills, since the old shmuck is almost off the hook.
So they figure they better make some poor sap think they are the greatest piece of ass he will ever have. The smart guess get some and move on, the stupid ones marry em.
This pretty much nails it. The Italian ones are the worse. They are still living in 1975 east Utica where they worshiped the Proctor Park sunshine. They have an entitlement mindset that is unbelievable. They baby their grown kids and will lie, cheat, steal, beg, borrow, manipulate, connive just to get someone else's cash. I've been told this is a cultural thing and many of these high-haired "Ginas" are still looking for someone to take care of them and pay their way. So basically, if you hang out at Chesterfield's, Valley View, Packy's, Delmonicos, Turning Stone, and the Racino you can pretty much guarantee you'll have no problem getting a piece of used and abu sed azz. Just look out. Hold on to your wallet. Don't feel sorry for them when they start complaining the lawn mower is broken in the next few weeks. This is how they rope you in. They love handy men. As soon as they got you under control, you will be in for a life of suffering like no tomorrow. A good independent woman does not ask a man to do anything for them. A cheap low life prostitute will give it up in a heart beat...Just saying...been there...done 'em...found out hard way.
seriously

United States

#21 Apr 11, 2011
my take wrote:
I think the younger girls are a little pissed that younger men find "middle aged" women attractive. Maybe its BECAUSE some of them HAVE substance, are worldly, self sufficient, are confident, and better in the sack. Just sayin...
isnt that the truth!

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