Woman on WKTV says Sex Offender Regis...
Wow

Syracuse, NY

#283 Mar 25, 2012
In case anyone missed it:
http://evil-unveiled.com/Shana_Rowan
Just saying

Glenfield, NY

#284 Mar 25, 2012
Micah Allen wrote:
Beware of the following vehicles owned by
Geoff Boudreau,
Address: 92 Seneca Ave
Zip code: 13421
Crime: Sodomy:deviate Intercourse With Other Person Less Than 11
Sex: Male
Date of birth: 1986-03-13
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Brown
Height: 5'08
Weight: 204
Race: White (Not Hispanic)
Risk level: 2
IMBIGGER New York 1997 Chevrolet C/K 3500 Black
FBM2788 New York 1972 Chevrolet Nova (Chevy II and Concours) Black
MPATIENT New York 1995 Chevrolet Blazer Black
So now you live in California LOL.....it said last time you lived in Illinois.....such a liar!!
Damian

United States

#285 Jun 4, 2012
Me Thinks wrote:
<quoted text>You're a very sick person, seek help immediately.
Obviously, you missed the sarcasm in this post. I feel sorry for you.
XYZ

Whitesboro, NY

#286 Jun 5, 2012
As usual, the stupid judgmental people devoid of the facts go on their rampage to demonize those who have a different opinion.

The Sex Offender Registry, just like every other federal and state law, has been misused by brainless bureaucrats and lying politicians. Just like the infamous "Zero Tolerance" policies, it snares everyone with no consideration of the circumstances or facts.

A predatory adult who sexually assaults children is not the same as a 20 year old who gets laid by his 17 year old girlfriend of 3 years, and certainly not like a 12 year old who experiments with a 6 year old.

Stupid judgmental people are more dangerous to society as a whole than any sex offender.
Wow

Camden, NY

#287 Jun 5, 2012
XYZ wrote:
A predatory adult who sexually assaults children is not the same as a 20 year old who gets laid by his 17 year old girlfriend of 3 years, and certainly not like a 12 year old who experiments with a 6 year old.
Wow, what a disgusting scumbag creepy loser you are. Yes if a 12 year old decides to "experiment" as you put it with sex with a 6 year old he should be jailed for a long time and be on the list. Thats disgusting and the fact that you married a pedophile makes you a pos scumbag who should get her head smashed.
Your husband is a sicko and he should get the electric chair.
stick with statistics

Cortland, NY

#288 Jun 5, 2012
Wow wrote:
<quoted text>
Wow, what a disgusting scumbag creepy loser you are. Yes if a 12 year old decides to "experiment" as you put it with sex with a 6 year old he should be jailed for a long time and be on the list. Thats disgusting and the fact that you married a pedophile makes you a pos scumbag who should get her head smashed.
Your husband is a sicko and he should get the electric chair.
No actually you'
re the abnormal retard, otherwise please, oh retard, expalin why it happens consistantly throughout human history? Kids do dumb things and your response is to coddle and assign victim status to an otherwise resiliant kid and also shackle some other kid for LIFE over something so common? Kid's don't play doctor retard?

Wow another example of exactly the type of person who gets all fixated and fascinated with simple statistics and human behavior. And like Dr. Phil and other say on tv exactly the type of parent who fks up their kids head with irrational rapo fears and conflict throughout childhood, while they're poring over sex registry websites in order to be the best supermom with the juciest gossip, their kid is the one who they neglected to give the basic LOGIC, and TRUST with their parents to TELL and the TOOLS to AVOID becoming some one elses assburger in the first place. There was a whole show on these kind of people that fixate on paranoid sexual fantasies their kid will get molested so finally they will be seen as the wonderful watchful hero parent. That's how these kids go astray in the first place. Level headed kids do level headed things. Upstate mom's raving lunatic upbringing usually REPELLS her children's respect I see it 1000 times a year. The whole show was about these kinds of parents, and they looked the part. Overbearing scaremongering emotionally charged raving retards they confronted with the truths about their accusations on tv.

Meanwhile it's cousin Mikey or Uncle Rob that is doing the deed. This is how this keeps happening because stupid, irrational, uneducated-with-the-facts people spew their dumb upstate ny educated mom paranoia and "excellent parenting skills" all around to anyone who they think wants to listen.

Why expect anything different from the same kind of people who use "facebook" for a social life, and " date.com " for a mate? Nobody expects an online website about being a good parent. Well SOME I guess!
Wow

Camden, NY

#289 Jun 5, 2012
You are scum, plain and simple. Lots of things "happen" throughout history, that doesn't make them right. You should be exterminated.
Your husband should be exterminated and so should any family you all have.
Wow

Camden, NY

#290 Jun 5, 2012
If you want to marry a pedophile, sure you are a disgusting nutjob but thats your choice. However that doesnt change the fact that he is dangerous and the court should order you to have your tubes tied so you cant produce any victims for him to abuse. You obviously are not right in the head anyway and cant be trusted to raise them let alone be around them.
Wow

Camden, NY

#291 Jun 5, 2012
BEWARE:

Beware of the following vehicles owned by
Geoff Boudreau,
Address: 92 Seneca Ave
Zip code: 13421
Crime: Sodomy:deviate Intercourse With Other Person Less Than 11
Sex: Male
Date of birth: 1986-03-13
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Brown
Height: 5'08
Weight: 204
Race: White (Not Hispanic)
Risk level: 2
IMBIGGER New York 1997 Chevrolet C/K 3500 Black
FBM2788 New York 1972 Chevrolet Nova (Chevy II and Concours) Black
MPATIENT New York 1995 Chevrolet Blazer Black
XYZ

Whitesboro, NY

#293 Jun 5, 2012
Wow wrote:
<quoted text>
Wow, what a disgusting scumbag creepy loser you are. Yes if a 12 year old decides to "experiment" as you put it with sex with a 6 year old he should be jailed for a long time and be on the list. Thats disgusting and the fact that you married a pedophile makes you a pos scumbag who should get her head smashed.
Your husband is a sicko and he should get the electric chair.
Your post is very interesting. You wrongly assumed that I'm disgusting, I'm a scumbag, I'm creepy and I'm a loser without having the slightest idea of who I actually am. You wrongly assumed I'm married, and then wrongly assumed I married a pedophile. You wrongly assumed I'm a female since you describe my wrongly assumed husband.

You just proved what I said: stupid judgmental idiots devoid of facts are more dangerous to society as a whole than any sex offender.
Survivor

Atoka, TN

#294 Aug 24, 2012
Micah Allen wrote:
<quoted text>
This entire story is misleading and inflammatory. Her fiance did not commit this "crime" in 2004. That is when he was convicted. It actually took place when he was 12 and she was 6 in 1999. WKTV mislead the public because nobody whats to hear a story about two kids playing house. Also, all she is asking for is to be left alone. Why does that upset people so much? Supporters of these useless and life ruining laws always talk about protecting the children, but when someone asks that they be allowed to live their life in peace, everyone gets mad and talks about anything but the real issue. Does the family of a registered sex offender and the offender himself have a right to live their lives in peace? Those who say they do not, are not worried about the children. They just want vengeance.
Playing house? I don't remember any version of "playing house" when I was a child or anyone elses either that included sodomy. Her boyfriend is listed as a violent offender for a reason. This was not experimentation and it went on for quite some time.
I however see both sides in regards to the registry. Part of the reason I did not turn in my abuser was because of the embarrassment it would cause my family. I did tell when it happened, however nothing was done and I continued to be abused till I hit puberty. It is a well known family seceret. The excuse she uses about him being abused, being why he abused is a crock. I NEVER abused anyone, I would never inflict on anyone the pain and shame I suffered. My abuser continues to manipulate me even now. Trying to make me feel pity for him because he regrets what he did. He has tried to kill himself muliple times. I told him if I who did nothing wrong have to live with this then so does he. I have as little to do with him as possible. That being said, I use the registry for it's purpose. To give me a idea of where my children should stay away from. The truth is though stranger abduction/sexual abuse is rare. Most abused children know their abusers, so the registry allows me to make a informed choice on who I am friends with. As for it ruining her life, like him she made a choice to be with him. She has to live with the consequences of said choice. I will give her a little advice though. My abusers last wife knew of the abuse before she married him. She thought she could live with it, but as she got to know me and put a face on the victim it became harder for her to do that. For 6 years of their marriage she would have to fight her repulsion when he touched her and she would flash to our conversations or things he admitted to her. Not only that, but he as well had intimacy issues that thankfully she never went into details on. Her biggest regret in her life is her marriage to him. She said that getting to know me and my family was the only good thing that came out of their marriage. As for her not working because of her "full time crusade". Grow up, people can do both! If single mothers out there can work two full time jobs and go to school, I am sure she can pound her head into a brick wall (same thing, considering she is fighting for something that few people will empathize with her on) and work at the same time too.
Survivor

Atoka, TN

#295 Aug 24, 2012
Survivor wrote:
<quoted text>
Playing house? I don't remember any version of "playing house" when I was a child or anyone elses either that included sodomy. Her boyfriend is listed as a violent offender for a reason. This was not experimentation and it went on for quite some time.
I however see both sides in regards to the registry. Part of the reason I did not turn in my abuser was because of the embarrassment it would cause my family. I did tell when it happened, however nothing was done and I continued to be abused till I hit puberty. It is a well known family seceret. The excuse she uses about him being abused, being why he abused is a crock. I NEVER abused anyone, I would never inflict on anyone the pain and shame I suffered. My abuser continues to manipulate me even now. Trying to make me feel pity for him because he regrets what he did. He has tried to kill himself muliple times. I told him if I who did nothing wrong have to live with this then so does he. I have as little to do with him as possible. That being said, I use the registry for it's purpose. To give me a idea of where my children should stay away from. The truth is though stranger abduction/sexual abuse is rare. Most abused children know their abusers, so the registry allows me to make a informed choice on who I am friends with. As for it ruining her life, like him she made a choice to be with him. She has to live with the consequences of said choice. I will give her a little advice though. My abusers last wife knew of the abuse before she married him. She thought she could live with it, but as she got to know me and put a face on the victim it became harder for her to do that. For 6 years of their marriage she would have to fight her repulsion when he touched her and she would flash to our conversations or things he admitted to her. Not only that, but he as well had intimacy issues that thankfully she never went into details on. Her biggest regret in her life is her marriage to him. She said that getting to know me and my family was the only good thing that came out of their marriage. As for her not working because of her "full time crusade". Grow up, people can do both! If single mothers out there can work two full time jobs and go to school, I am sure she can pound her head into a brick wall (same thing, considering she is fighting for something that few people will empathize with her on) and work at the same time too.
Let me add that this family member was not my only abuser, I was also abused by a babysitter. So it's not always a family member as was stated before. It is however usually someone you know, which is what the registry was meant to do. INFORM you of the dangers of the people in your neighborhood. However I find it hard to pity the abuser because what he has to suffer in shame is what he brought on himself. The child he abused will fight the shame, self-loathing, guilt, intimacy issues, depression, and a multitude of other issues even with psychological help because of someone else's choices. So whatever embarrassment and hardships he faces are of his own creation. My sympathy is and will always be with the victim.
Saddened

Atoka, TN

#296 Aug 24, 2012
XYZ wrote:
As usual, the stupid judgmental people devoid of the facts go on their rampage to demonize those who have a different opinion.
The Sex Offender Registry, just like every other federal and state law, has been misused by brainless bureaucrats and lying politicians. Just like the infamous "Zero Tolerance" policies, it snares everyone with no consideration of the circumstances or facts.
A predatory adult who sexually assaults children is not the same as a 20 year old who gets laid by his 17 year old girlfriend of 3 years, and certainly not like a 12 year old who experiments with a 6 year old.
Stupid judgmental people are more dangerous to society as a whole than any sex offender.
1. MOST states have a Romeo and Juliet provision in the law. Usually it is about a four year age difference. EXCEPT for children UNDER in most states 11 or 12.
2. The sex offender sites have classifications, and some state the offense. Violent offenders are listed as such. Possesion of Child porn listed as such and so on. They do not list the predatory adult in the same classification as a statutory rape with consent case.
3. I agree there needs to be reform of the system, such as a dumb teen girl sending her boyfriend a photo of her boobs should not be registered as a child porn distributor.
4. If you truly believe that "Stupid judgmental people are more dangerous to society as a whole than any sex offender" then you are as stupid and judgmental as the people you rail against. Yes there are extremists on both sides. But to say the majority of stupid judgmental people are more dangerous then ANY sex offender is insane. It's just as bad as me saying all sexual abusers violently rape their victims, then kill them.
4. The aggrivation this woman is facing are a direct consequence of HER choice. The pain embarassment and problems her boyfriend is having are a result of HIS choice. The pain inflicted to the child he abused was never the child's choice. Chances are that everytime the child reads about her crusade it is a trigger for the child, making it harder to heal. So she quite possibly is victimizing the child all over again as well. However she can not see past her own minor issues of harassment or him going to jail.(in comparison to what the child has had to endure as a direct result of the abuse, I promise her that the child he abused has had to see a shrink, and that child has suffered more then she has/is) to the fact that she could be causing more damage to the child (even as a adult now) Poor, poor, pitiful us, look what we have to endure. All because people judge is for our deeds.
5. Last but not least.....children experiment with sex yes, but sodomy is well past experimenting. Most experimentation is petting. Not penetration in ANY way, shape, or form. I feel badly for you that you have bought into this. Sexual abusers are masters at manipulation. I will pray that he never hurts another child again. I think you really should talk to some abuse survivors (with a open mind, and a open heart) before you go into this marriage. I am sure there are a few sites out there with stories from the abused perspective that are similar to the abuse he inflicted. If you must marry this man, try to go in with your eyes wide open.
Pedifile for life

Utica, NY

#297 Aug 24, 2012
It is proven time and time again that 99% of people that have the "urges" have them for life this douchebag married one and until her children become victime things will be honkey dorey at the ranch. Sex offenders have gone as far as requesting castration to cure their predilication but bottom line is----bad blood---- take your liberal ideas and hide them in the closet while children are abducted and sexually assaulted. We should be acting instinctually as animals do and put down te predators in our society.
whats fair is fair

Utica, NY

#298 Aug 25, 2012
Just saying wrote:
<quoted text> The only reason this person was going on facebook was probably so they r could set her straight.....don't go in public saying the sex registry should be banned.....anyone on here that agrees....I feel must be a sex offender or know someone....you wouldn't be defending it so much!! What if it was your kid...and let's say this guy of this lady did it to your kid....then how would you feel??
if the sex offender lists stop sex crime then we should also have a murderers' lists, robbery lists, DWI lists and so on.

why are sex offenders singled out?
Dear deluded

Atoka, TN

#299 Aug 25, 2012
whats fair is fair wrote:
<quoted text>
if the sex offender lists stop sex crime then we should also have a murderers' lists, robbery lists, DWI lists and so on.
why are sex offenders singled out?
Simple, because they target the weakest and most vulnerable people in society. Most murderers that are freed from prison are only a danger to the person they killed already. A robbery does not leave you with emotional scars for life. I promise if someone said give me all your money or I will rape you, you hand it all over. DWI, they lose their license to drive, in a lot of city's if you are ticketed for DWI it gets posted in the paper. As does most of the other crimes you mentioned. However none of those groups only target the weak and vulnerable. When they do they end up with life in prison. This is a trade off, we can either free these people who are HIGHLY likely to offend again, thereby being a danger to the public in return they have to notify the people of said danger. Or we can just make it a life sentence. Would you not want to know a violent rapest lived in the house next door? So you could take the steps to
Protect yourself and those you love? Or would you rater wait till after you are raped for the officer to say...."sorry mam we knew he enjoyed raping women and children that look like you, but we could not say anything because he might not get the job he wanted, or people might make him feel bad about himself and what he did".
Parents cause it too

United States

#300 Aug 25, 2012
Dear deluded wrote:
<quoted text>
Simple, because they target the weakest and most vulnerable people in society. Most murderers that are freed from prison are only a danger to the person they killed already. A robbery does not leave you with emotional scars for life. I promise if someone said give me all your money or I will rape you, you hand it all over. DWI, they lose their license to drive, in a lot of city's if you are ticketed for DWI it gets posted in the paper. As does most of the other crimes you mentioned. However none of those groups only target the weak and vulnerable. When they do they end up with life in prison. This is a trade off, we can either free these people who are HIGHLY likely to offend again, thereby being a danger to the public in return they have to notify the people of said danger.
Protect yourself and those you love? Or would you rater wait till after you are raped for the officer to say...."sorry mam we knew he enjoyed raping women and children that look like you, but we could not say anything because he might not get the job he wanted, or people might make him feel bad about himself and what he did".
It's funny how the "great parents" turn out to be the gossips who stare at "whos arrested" sites all day.

Nobody likes kids getting molested or women raped but many people are prone to hysteria about crimes and sex crimes. Fact: Sex offenders are the LEAST LIKELY OF ALL OFFENDERS that reoffend. Look it up.
If you teach your children the signs and how to talk to you instead of them not wanting you to scream so the whole of utica can hear what happened] they'll do fine. I blame the offenders AND the parents of the kids because usually the parents are so paranoid they make the kids not listen to them out of resentment or the parents sit on line and gossip all day about "who's arrested" while little davy is betting his carrot picked for the first time by someone who looks like Billy Williams.
You spaz at your 13 year old for talking to the 14 year old kid at church so by 15 to spte you and because she resents your overreacting hysterical mouth she's now packing a henhouse for the 24 year old crack thug she sees after school.
Dad's a drunk or only half-a-dad so his son's out playing a new kind of ball with the "coach".
If you educate your kids and don't stigmatize THEM about "taboo" subjects you'll do fine. But if you approach it the way most of you approach "Wboro vs. Proctor" then get used to your son's new older boyfriend! People ASK for this by being dysfunctional parents.
I had great teachers who are now child psychologists and authors of children's books for troubled kids and they'll tell you it's the parents almost every time for worrying about the boogieman while "Uncle Weirdo" is buying your kid an Ipad. Wherever there's a molested kid there's a parent who dropped the balls. You let them into an environment you weren't sure of and ALSO created some wall that prevents them from telling you, or wanting to tell you.
Time and again the jumping at shadows does nothing positive. If you raise a level headed communicative and intelligent kid you don't have this problem. Go talk to your kids about the "what ifs" drugs or sex. Don't expect some website to protect them Jesus fkn Christ people. Anytime I get to the utica area I always notice how dumbed down and unmotivated those kids are. That's the biggest sin what you made for your kids there. And I always noticed that the area doesn't seem to have much of a track record for producing too many brightstar good kids at all. It comes back to the parents. Always.

Even the kids they hold up as "geniuses" are vegetables compared to the youth you see in more advanced areas, and that's just a sin.
Mom always said that parents always pass on their worst, and sometimes most irrational fears to their kids.
Dear deluded

Atoka, TN

#301 Aug 25, 2012
Parents cause it too wrote:
<quoted text>It's funny how the "great parents" turn out to be the gossips who stare at "whos arrested" sites all day.
Nobody likes kids getting molested or women raped but many people are prone to hysteria about crimes and sex crimes. Fact: Sex offenders are the LEAST LIKELY OF ALL OFFENDERS that reoffend. Look it up.
If you teach your children the signs and how to talk to you instead of them not wanting you to scream so the whole of utica can hear what happened] they'll do fine. I blame the offenders AND the parents of the kids because usually the parents are so paranoid they make the kids not listen to them out of resentment or the parents sit on line and gossip all day about "who's arrested" while little davy is betting his carrot picked for the first time by someone who looks like Billy Williams.
You spaz at your 13 year old for talking to the 14 year old kid at church so by 15 to spte you and because she resents your overreacting hysterical mouth she's now packing a henhouse for the 24 year old crack thug she sees after school.
Dad's a drunk or only half-a-dad so his son's out playing a new kind of ball with the "coach".
If you educate your kids and don't stigmatize THEM about "taboo" subjects you'll do fine. But if you approach it the way most of you approach "Wboro vs. Proctor" then get used to your son's new older boyfriend! People ASK for this by being dysfunctional parents.
I had great teachers who are now child psychologists and authors of children's books for troubled kids and they'll tell you it's the parents almost every time for worrying about the boogieman while "Uncle Weirdo" is buying your kid an Ipad. Wherever there's a molested kid there's a parent who dropped the balls. You let them into an environment you weren't sure of and ALSO created some wall that prevents them from telling you, or wanting to tell you.
Time and again the jumping at shadows does nothing positive. If you raise a level headed communicative and intelligent kid you don't have this problem. Go talk to your kids about the "what ifs" drugs or sex. Don't expect some website to protect them Jesus fkn Christ people. Anytime I get to the utica area I always notice how dumbed down and unmotivated those kids are. That's the biggest sin what you made for your kids there. And I always noticed that the area doesn't seem to have much of a track record for producing too many brightstar good kids at all. It comes back to the parents. Always.
Even the kids they hold up as "geniuses" are vegetables compared to the youth you see in more advanced areas, and that's just a sin.
Mom always said that parents always pass on their worst, and sometimes most irrational fears to their kids.
First, I talk to my kids, and believe it or not they talk to me. I know where my children are at all times. I know that "uncle bob" is more apt to touch my kids then a stranger. My kids are well adjusted at 13 and 16 years old. They have never been abused but know how to handle themselves should anyone attempt to. I have never stressed stranger danger to them, because I know it's crap anyone can hurt your kids. I do not have time for gossip, I normaly do not even post on these sites. This topic however was one I felt the need to speak out on as it hit a nerve and has affected my life in a personal way. Stats of reoffending is crap on both sides and you know it. The FACT is that most predators get away with it because it is under reported. Due to (unwarranted) shame from the victims, pressure from family, or just plain fear. I know from PERSONAL experience that offenders do reoffend they just get better at covering their tracks or picking damaged children to victimize who are less likely to tell.
Dear deluded

Atoka, TN

#302 Aug 25, 2012
Btw I have looked up the offender registry exactly two times. Once when I moved here and once last Halloween so I would not have my children knocking on their door so they could be arrested. (the are not allowed to give out candy here and I don't want my kids knocking on their door anyway). I used the site for what it is....a tool to help me be proactive in protecting my children. Not a place to stalk a perv.
hank hill

United States

#303 Aug 25, 2012
He needs to be castrated. She needs a lobotomy. And possibly her jaw wired shut.

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