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Schenectady, NY

#43 Aug 4, 2014
There are di many men and women this applies to it isn't funny. Let's start with county workers with multiple baby Mommys some legit and some not who act like they are fine upstanding people.
John

Gouverneur, NY

#44 Aug 4, 2014
Daniel wrote:
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No one you would remember. To say the very least an old friend. It would seem there are enough foes on here already.
For an old friend you know a lot about me...who r u?
Terry Murad

Utica, NY

#45 Aug 5, 2014
Husnays wrote:
Hmmmm. Is it something with the name John? Are they all alike?
Sounds so in this case.......both SCUM!!
drlisa

Tampa, FL

#46 Aug 5, 2014
Not many parents would deny food, clothing and shelter to their child in this day and age but way too many deny the child two married parents to care for him. Putting the father's last name on a kid's birth certificate has very little meaning when at the end of the day the kid spends 90% of his time alone or with one parent while daddy is with his other family and his other children. The children of unmarried parents traditionally do not do well and underachieve their entire lives. All the happy talk and all the sugar coating in the world doesn't help that kid when their is no committed relationship(marriage) between his parents. Extended familial care may be convenient for the mother or father but the kid still feels the odd man out and will his entire life. The statistics are all there to back up the facts if you just look for them. I am not targeting any one individual as so many do on this site. I have worked in a professional manner with these broken children and their broken parents for quite some time and I can tell you with certainty that the kid suffers and will most of his life. Next time you screw around, make sure you don't get pregnant and ruin some kid's chances at a really happy life.
Terry Murad

Boston, MA

#47 Aug 5, 2014
Husnays wrote:
Hmmmm. Is it something with the name John? Are they all alike?
Sounds so in this case....both SCUM!!
One who knows

Carthage, NY

#48 Aug 5, 2014
drlisa wrote:
Not many parents would deny food, clothing and shelter to their child in this day and age but way too many deny the child two married parents to care for him. Putting the father's last name on a kid's birth certificate has very little meaning when at the end of the day the kid spends 90% of his time alone or with one parent while daddy is with his other family and his other children. The children of unmarried parents traditionally do not do well and underachieve their entire lives. All the happy talk and all the sugar coating in the world doesn't help that kid when their is no committed relationship(marriage) between his parents. Extended familial care may be convenient for the mother or father but the kid still feels the odd man out and will his entire life. The statistics are all there to back up the facts if you just look for them. I am not targeting any one individual as so many do on this site. I have worked in a professional manner with these broken children and their broken parents for quite some time and I can tell you with certainty that the kid suffers and will most of his life. Next time you screw around, make sure you don't get pregnant and ruin some kid's chances at a really happy life.
You are probably nothing more than one of these Social Workers that think ALL children should be raised out of what is printed in some book written by someone who never raised a child by themselves!!!!!
I know many people that have raised children as Single Parents and have done a terrific job doing so. NONE of their children were arrested, got into drugs or abused alcohol, and have grown into good adults which are assets to society - NOT a drain on it.
Some came from divorced parents where Daddy became a Deadbeat and was never around. Some were "illegitimate" and the father was never around -or- even paid child support.
Some were by women who choose to get pregnant and did NOT want the sperm donor in their lives (they only wanted a child).
It does NOT mean a damn thing if parents are married or not. No one cares today - it all depends on how the child is raised, nutured, and values and manners are taught to them at an early age. Raise a child by a bad, immoral, and non-caring adult and you will end up with the same type of child.
Raise a child with love, always there for them, teaching them morals and values and integrity - and you will have a wonderful and caring adult that will thank you for the rest of his/her life.
NO CHILD SHOULD BE RAISED BY "THE BOOK"!
right

Utica, NY

#49 Aug 5, 2014
One who knows wrote:
<quoted text> You are probably nothing more than one of these Social Workers that think ALL children should be raised out of what is printed in some book written by someone who never raised a child by themselves!!!!!
I know many people that have raised children as Single Parents and have done a terrific job doing so. NONE of their children were arrested, got into drugs or abused alcohol, and have grown into good adults which are assets to society - NOT a drain on it.
Some came from divorced parents where Daddy became a Deadbeat and was never around. Some were "illegitimate" and the father was never around -or- even paid child support.
Some were by women who choose to get pregnant and did NOT want the sperm donor in their lives (they only wanted a child).
It does NOT mean a damn thing if parents are married or not. No one cares today - it all depends on how the child is raised, nutured, and values and manners are taught to them at an early age. Raise a child by a bad, immoral, and non-caring adult and you will end up with the same type of child.
Raise a child with love, always there for them, teaching them morals and values and integrity - and you will have a wonderful and caring adult that will thank you for the rest of his/her life.
NO CHILD SHOULD BE RAISED BY "THE BOOK"!
You say "no one cares today". The child cares and that is my focus, unlike you. You have been writing on this site and spewing shit for way too many years, old fool. You know nothing, and should change that to your moniker. Your formula for child raising doesn't work and sound s like it came out of a bad novel. Your own granddaughter is a prime example of kids gone bad. You need to focus all your "skill" on her instead of wasting space here. Guess your formula for child rearing didn't work for her, did it jackass?
raoulastudent

Utica, NY

#50 Aug 5, 2014
One who knows wrote:
<quoted text> You are probably nothing more than one of these Social Workers that think ALL children should be raised out of what is printed in some book written by someone who never raised a child by themselves!!!!!
I know many people that have raised children as Single Parents and have done a terrific job doing so. NONE of their children were arrested, got into drugs or abused alcohol, and have grown into good adults which are assets to society - NOT a drain on it.
Some came from divorced parents where Daddy became a Deadbeat and was never around. Some were "illegitimate" and the father was never around -or- even paid child support.
Some were by women who choose to get pregnant and did NOT want the sperm donor in their lives (they only wanted a child).
It does NOT mean a damn thing if parents are married or not. No one cares today - it all depends on how the child is raised, nutured, and values and manners are taught to them at an early age. Raise a child by a bad, immoral, and non-caring adult and you will end up with the same type of child.
Raise a child with love, always there for them, teaching them morals and values and integrity - and you will have a wonderful and caring adult that will thank you for the rest of his/her life.
NO CHILD SHOULD BE RAISED BY "THE BOOK"!
You are a prime example of why kids shouldn't be raised by the likes of you. You used to call yourself ONE WHO CARES but were laughed off of this site. Of course, disguising your name like you have, no one knows that. lololo Ignorant and stupid moron. You probably raised 6 kids by 6 different fathers and they are all trash just like you.
pieman

Utica, NY

#51 Aug 5, 2014
One who knows wrote:
<quoted text> You are probably nothing more than one of these Social Workers that think ALL children should be raised out of what is printed in some book written by someone who never raised a child by themselves!!!!!
I know many people that have raised children as Single Parents and have done a terrific job doing so. NONE of their children were arrested, got into drugs or abused alcohol, and have grown into good adults which are assets to society - NOT a drain on it.
Some came from divorced parents where Daddy became a Deadbeat and was never around. Some were "illegitimate" and the father was never around -or- even paid child support.
Some were by women who choose to get pregnant and did NOT want the sperm donor in their lives (they only wanted a child).
It does NOT mean a damn thing if parents are married or not. No one cares today - it all depends on how the child is raised, nutured, and values and manners are taught to them at an early age. Raise a child by a bad, immoral, and non-caring adult and you will end up with the same type of child.
Raise a child with love, always there for them, teaching them morals and values and integrity - and you will have a wonderful and caring adult that will thank you for the rest of his/her life.
NO CHILD SHOULD BE RAISED BY "THE BOOK"!
Sounds like you know some real quality folks, nana, you ridiculous old woman. LOLZ
elocution

Utica, NY

#52 Aug 5, 2014
drlisa wrote:
Not many parents would deny food, clothing and shelter to their child in this day and age but way too many deny the child two married parents to care for him. Putting the father's last name on a kid's birth certificate has very little meaning when at the end of the day the kid spends 90% of his time alone or with one parent while daddy is with his other family and his other children. The children of unmarried parents traditionally do not do well and underachieve their entire lives. All the happy talk and all the sugar coating in the world doesn't help that kid when their is no committed relationship(marriage) between his parents. Extended familial care may be convenient for the mother or father but the kid still feels the odd man out and will his entire life. The statistics are all there to back up the facts if you just look for them. I am not targeting any one individual as so many do on this site. I have worked in a professional manner with these broken children and their broken parents for quite some time and I can tell you with certainty that the kid suffers and will most of his life. Next time you screw around, make sure you don't get pregnant and ruin some kid's chances at a really happy life.
You are correct. Kids thrive with two married parents. The best gift you can give them is a happy marriage.

Since: Sep 14

Cleveland, NY

#53 Sep 9, 2014
What, are all you guys on here from the 1800s? Since when was having children out of wedlock a HUGE disgrace anymore? That's way old news. Get with the times people, it happens all the time now and it doesnt make that kid any more stupid, or any smarter, than anyone else.

Since: Sep 14

Cleveland, NY

#54 Sep 9, 2014
You know, having kids from a "loving commited" relationship doesnt always turn out good. The family may seem all smiles and joyfulness but thats not always the case. Just because the couple is married doesnt mean that will make the kids lives better. Both of my parents were married when my brother and I were born but that didnt make it all lucky charms. I grew up with kids that their parents were married when they were born but ended up being more messed up than charles manson. Just because their parents werent married, or one parent wasnt present for the child, doesnt make them less of a child. Children from married couples also doesnt mean that they are perfect. Jeffey Dahmer's parents were married when he was born but we all know how that one turned out (they didnt divorce until later on). So...how does that theory still stand? Take a psychology class instead of believing a fake book...
Yeeeeeehaaaaa

Utica, NY

#55 Sep 10, 2014
Drakon8891 wrote:
What, are all you guys on here from the 1800s? Since when was having children out of wedlock a HUGE disgrace anymore? That's way old news. Get with the times people, it happens all the time now and it doesnt make that kid any more stupid, or any smarter, than anyone else.
Sounds like you are illegitimate and rationalizing the fact that your parents mated like animals , got pregnant but just couldn't Seem to manage to get married. Yeah, single parent homes are really the tops. Lololol. And, Of course, it's perfectly all fine and good. Lololol. Get real, azz hole, you and your kids are still looked upon as trash if u r not married.

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