Cassaundra Baber Interview WKTV

Cassaundra Baber Interview WKTV

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Real Cheese

Utica, NY

#1 Feb 15, 2013
Did anybody catch Cassaundra on KTV? It was about her single life and dating problems. Cassy baby, I watched it and here are a few unsolicited comments::

You're not ugly, but you're not Bridgett Bardot either. And you're opinionated, which can be ok if you know when to stop and stuff a cork in your mouth.

Do you?

Hey, you're at the point where alot of people are starting their 2nd (or 3rd!!) marriages and you're still out there looking for 'a good guy'... Where to find them? Try church. Try the grocery store. Try the ski slope. Try anywhere but bars. Bars are for horny one night stands, that's about it.

And c'mon! Filmed while putting on makeup? How high maintenance are you? Most guys looking for another relationship by their mid-30s have already dealt with high maintenance girls. Now they're looking for earth-mothers, minimalists if you know what I mean. Yeah, some makeup is fine, but don't overdo it.

And I couldn't help but notice your house was kind of sloppy during the clip. Not dirty sloppy, but papers and crap all over the place. Not orderly and neat. Yes, guys who are neat and organized kind of look at that stuff right away.

So you think you're the only side doing the choosing? HAH! Men have standards too. I'm sorry some guys flipped on you when you told them it wasn't going to work out, and maybe your intentions were good, but maybe you ought to go back to square one and reconfigure how it is you deal with telling men no thanks.

I'm not looking to meet your or go out with you. I'm on significant relationship #3 and have modified my attitudes and behavior because I have learned compromise and looking at things from a different angle serve me much better than digging in my heels and waiting for candidate X to meet my qualifications.

Maybe you should withdraw from the dating scene for a while and give thought to just how you'd like to spend the rest of your life and what adjustments and concessions you might have to make ... because Cassy baby, men aren't perfect and ... neither are you.

Sorry if this sounded like a lecture. Just trying to let you know the hard line is not going to serve you well in life. Good luck, and I mean that sincerely.
HUGE TOM HUGE

Camillus, NY

#2 Feb 15, 2013
That's disgusting, AHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
Please

Chittenango, NY

#3 Feb 15, 2013
Is she at it again? Who wants to be associated with a big mouth like her? Now that she had the gastric by pass surgery, her weight is in control. Let's see how long it is before she porks out again
wow

Camillus, NY

#4 Feb 15, 2013
Real Cheese wrote:
Did anybody catch Cassaundra on KTV? It was about her single life and dating problems. Cassy baby, I watched it and here are a few unsolicited comments::
You're not ugly, but you're not Bridgett Bardot either. And you're opinionated, which can be ok if you know when to stop and stuff a cork in your mouth.
Do you?
Hey, you're at the point where alot of people are starting their 2nd (or 3rd!!) marriages and you're still out there looking for 'a good guy'... Where to find them? Try church. Try the grocery store. Try the ski slope. Try anywhere but bars. Bars are for horny one night stands, that's about it.
And c'mon! Filmed while putting on makeup? How high maintenance are you? Most guys looking for another relationship by their mid-30s have already dealt with high maintenance girls. Now they're looking for earth-mothers, minimalists if you know what I mean. Yeah, some makeup is fine, but don't overdo it.
And I couldn't help but notice your house was kind of sloppy during the clip. Not dirty sloppy, but papers and crap all over the place. Not orderly and neat. Yes, guys who are neat and organized kind of look at that stuff right away.
So you think you're the only side doing the choosing? HAH! Men have standards too. I'm sorry some guys flipped on you when you told them it wasn't going to work out, and maybe your intentions were good, but maybe you ought to go back to square one and reconfigure how it is you deal with telling men no thanks.
I'm not looking to meet your or go out with you. I'm on significant relationship #3 and have modified my attitudes and behavior because I have learned compromise and looking at things from a different angle serve me much better than digging in my heels and waiting for candidate X to meet my qualifications.
Maybe you should withdraw from the dating scene for a while and give thought to just how you'd like to spend the rest of your life and what adjustments and concessions you might have to make ... because Cassy baby, men aren't perfect and ... neither are you.
Sorry if this sounded like a lecture. Just trying to let you know the hard line is not going to serve you well in life. Good luck, and I mean that sincerely.
You are in a relationship and you had enough time to think about and write this crap? I wonder what your significant other was doing while you were writing this. Sounds like you have a lot of issues to deal with, maybe you should try counseling, and I mean that sincerely.
Just Wondering

Hampton, VA

#5 Feb 15, 2013
wow wrote:
<quoted text>You are in a relationship and you had enough time to think about and write this crap? I wonder what your significant other was doing while you were writing this. Sounds like you have a lot of issues to deal with, maybe you should try counseling, and I mean that sincerely.
You are right, seems like the guy had a lot of common sense to me...and attractive - so what she was putting on makeup, at least she took the time to do so.
Just Wondering

Hampton, VA

#6 Feb 15, 2013
I mean the girl.
Cant blame her

Utica, NY

#7 Feb 15, 2013
Anyone with anything negative to say about her are merely haters. She has plenty of sense to me and what man wouldnt want a mother like her for his children? Are you kidding me? If you are not choosy when looking for a soulmate then when will you be?
Pat Jazinski

Utica, NY

#8 Feb 15, 2013
Seems as though she was a young single mom. Mid 30's and her kid is 17.

I'd hit it. What the heck, right?
LMFAO

White Plains, NY

#9 Feb 15, 2013
Literally busted out laughing in the office when I read this. But yeah Im with ya. Id punch one in her...
Utican

Utica, NY

#11 Feb 15, 2013
Do you folks really get enjoyment out of bashing everyone?!?!?

She's a single mom, pretty (which shouldn't matter) and worked to create a successful career for herself.

No, I don't know her personally. But I'm so sick of everyone bashing on this stupid forum.

If you don't like her then don't date or talk to her. But the fact that you have to run to Topix and bash her says much more about yourself than her.

I watched the story and thought it was a great story about being single in Utica. And despite people like you, she still spoke highly of the area.

Here's a reality check, my generation (I'm roughly her age) isn't getting married at 21 anymore. There are PLENTY of 30 somethings out there that have yet to marry - me included.

So, in summary, why not stick to bashing public officials. At least they signed up for public scrutiny. But this is disgusting.

Level 9

Since: Jun 10

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#12 Feb 15, 2013
Real Cheese wrote:
Did anybody catch Cassaundra on KTV? It was about her single life and dating problems. Cassy baby, I watched it and here are a few unsolicited comments::
You're not ugly, but you're not Bridgett Bardot either. And you're opinionated, which can be ok if you know when to stop and stuff a cork in your mouth.
Do you?
Hey, you're at the point where alot of people are starting their 2nd (or 3rd!!) marriages and you're still out there looking for 'a good guy'... Where to find them? Try church. Try the grocery store. Try the ski slope. Try anywhere but bars. Bars are for horny one night stands, that's about it.
And c'mon! Filmed while putting on makeup? How high maintenance are you? Most guys looking for another relationship by their mid-30s have already dealt with high maintenance girls. Now they're looking for earth-mothers, minimalists if you know what I mean. Yeah, some makeup is fine, but don't overdo it.
And I couldn't help but notice your house was kind of sloppy during the clip. Not dirty sloppy, but papers and crap all over the place. Not orderly and neat. Yes, guys who are neat and organized kind of look at that stuff right away.
So you think you're the only side doing the choosing? HAH! Men have standards too. I'm sorry some guys flipped on you when you told them it wasn't going to work out, and maybe your intentions were good, but maybe you ought to go back to square one and reconfigure how it is you deal with telling men no thanks.
I'm not looking to meet your or go out with you. I'm on significant relationship #3 and have modified my attitudes and behavior because I have learned compromise and looking at things from a different angle serve me much better than digging in my heels and waiting for candidate X to meet my qualifications.
Maybe you should withdraw from the dating scene for a while and give thought to just how you'd like to spend the rest of your life and what adjustments and concessions you might have to make ... because Cassy baby, men aren't perfect and ... neither are you.
Sorry if this sounded like a lecture. Just trying to let you know the hard line is not going to serve you well in life. Good luck, and I mean that sincerely.
More women need to heed your advice.
HiHello

Utica, NY

#13 Feb 16, 2013
HI Cassy I'm a Tom Cruise lookalike with a Masters in Biogenetics, Economics, a JD in law and Marine Biology. I'm quiet and reserved. I make a gazillion dollars a year. I live in a mansion with maids and a butler. I'm looking for a girl EXACTLY like you and by chance I saw you on TV. I have Jaguars and Porsches and want to give you one. I fly in my Gulfstream-III jet all over and have homes in Malibu, Rio and Monaco.
Oh please will you go out with me?
Well Well Well

Utica, NY

#14 Feb 16, 2013
HiHello wrote:
HI Cassy I'm a Tom Cruise lookalike with a Masters in Biogenetics, Economics, a JD in law and Marine Biology. I'm quiet and reserved. I make a gazillion dollars a year. I live in a mansion with maids and a butler. I'm looking for a girl EXACTLY like you and by chance I saw you on TV. I have Jaguars and Porsches and want to give you one. I fly in my Gulfstream-III jet all over and have homes in Malibu, Rio and Monaco.
Oh please will you go out with me?
Oh hell, I will, but I won't put out.
KKK Guy

Manchester, CT

#15 Feb 16, 2013
I've known Cassaundra for many year and can remember when she was with her sons father.This guy came from a good family,worked hard to provide for her and his son and loved her dearly.It seems this was never enough for her when she was in school she would stay out partying until daybreak and come home so messed up she couldn't function.After awhile she stopped coming home and next thing you know she is fooling around with a bunch of different men wich were either black or middle eastern.Her and her boyfriend tried to patch things up until he found out that she had brought home S.T.D.s and took many visits to the Drs.to clear up.If Cassaundra had as many cocks sticking out of her as she has had stuck in her she would look like a porcupine.
face the facts

Herkimer, NY

#16 Feb 16, 2013
In her 30's and still single? Enough of the I was focusing on my career excuse. I got married at 20 and focused on my career just fine. 30's and single tells me she:
-has a big mouth.
-has a kid - but now refuses to put out.
-has daddy issues
-has some serious misconceptions about what kind
of guy she has a shot with. Waiting for Mr Right?
This is Utica. It could be a while, Toots.
-is literally crazy.
-is a stalker.
-is both.
-has more hang ups than a bat cave.
-is far uglier than she thinks she is.
-has an addiction of some sort. Most likely
smoking and boozing.
-has some sort of physical abnormality be it as
mild as crooked teeth or as severe as a missing
limb.
-thinks that the bar scene is where you meet
a future mate.
-is just plain unattractive and/or undesireable.
-any combination of the above.

If you are in your 30's and still single it's time to stop coming up with ridiculous excuses. Do yourself a favor and take a long hard look in the mirror.
funny

Cortland, NY

#17 Feb 16, 2013
I read this story and laughed, she is by far not a great mom, she is not the worst either but I always felt sorry for her poor kid. She may have been single but was trying not to be, and any one who really knows her knows why she is single. She is an arrogant, self absorbed person with unbelievably unrealistic standards, even when she was heavy she still put herself on a pedestal. I don't think anyone will ever be up to her standards.
DeQuan

Utica, NY

#18 Feb 16, 2013
KKK Guy wrote:
I've known Cassaundra for many year and can remember when she was with her sons father.This guy came from a good family,worked hard to provide for her and his son and loved her dearly.It seems this was never enough for her when she was in school she would stay out partying until daybreak and come home so messed up she couldn't function.After awhile she stopped coming home and next thing you know she is fooling around with a bunch of different men wich were either black or middle eastern.Her and her boyfriend tried to patch things up until he found out that she had brought home S.T.D.s and took many visits to the Drs.to clear up.If Cassaundra had as many cocks sticking out of her as she has had stuck in her she would look like a porcupine.
So she likes *iggers or sand *iggers. I remember she tore some guy up who was hitting on her in an article she wrote for the OD a few years ago and I thought to myself-what a douche. But, she also wrote a tear jerker about her mom and son which made me pause-maybe she wasnt so bad afterall.
barfly guy superfly

Rome, NY

#19 Feb 16, 2013
i -ucked the shit outta that stout little bitch in the back of club monarchs parking lot a couple years ago, it was a real good piece and tight as heck too!, it was late summer and she kept complaining and scooting her ass around on the hood of my car because it was too cold on her ass she said, that was a fun night i took it home and tore it up all night but made the mistake of giving her my number, it took months to rid myself of her...but he yi banged someone famous in the mohawk valley...lol

Since: Feb 13

Location hidden

#20 Feb 17, 2013
Uh hot uh
Cassie

Danielson, CT

#21 Feb 18, 2013
I'd like to get with her! Cassie, get with me! Meet me at Applebee's in New Hartford on Friday! We'll catch a bite and then bang all night!

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