Bi-Polar Women Who Present Well
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Monopolar

Westwood, MA

#87 May 13, 2013
The best money I spent on her was to get rid of her . That was worth it.
Funny

Westwood, MA

#88 May 13, 2013
They!re experts are drawing pity out of people. It's always a con, no matter what they say, they don't mean it.
Guestion

Earlville, NY

#89 May 13, 2013
Monopolar wrote:
Empty wine bottles all over the house. Lying to your face. Spending money like she's the one making it . Can't balance a check book. No credit. Dropped by car insurance companies because of all the accidents. Not counting the ones you weren't supposed to know about that she paid for with "her money" . I'm laughing because after all these years I can't believe I never saw it. They are world class actresses and liars. I was such a fool.
if she has no credit then how can she pay for the stuff ? Accidents due to empty wine bottles ? Is she a drunk ?
Monopolar

Westwood, MA

#90 May 14, 2013
Guestion wrote:
<quoted text> if she has no credit then how can she pay for the stuff ? Accidents due to empty wine bottles ? Is she a drunk ?
Because she didnt work. Stayed home with our child. I gave her money for the house and whatever else she wanted. It was a nice life for a while . As far as credit cards, she would run them up to the limits make minimum payments. I paid them off twice . Later after we split, I'd call from credit card companies and cell carriers about unpaid bills and collection actions. All that I had no knowledge off. Yes, she drank and from what I can see from the little interaction we have, she still does. One poster hit on the head, they're great actors and know how to get pity.

It took me a long time to realize that it wasn't me, but she was incapable of feeling joy feeling true emotions other than what she presented to get what she wanted at a particular moment. In some way I feel sorry for her. I'm glad she is out of my everyday life. The obnoxious behavior, the lies, the rudeness to waiters, sales people , flirtation are all the things that come to mind and still leave bitter after all these years. She was an embarrassment to me, our daughter, and herself.
Guestion

Earlville, NY

#91 May 14, 2013
Monopolar wrote:
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Because she didnt work. Stayed home with our child. I gave her money for the house and whatever else she wanted. It was a nice life for a while . As far as credit cards, she would run them up to the limits make minimum payments. I paid them off twice . Later after we split, I'd call from credit card companies and cell carriers about unpaid bills and collection actions. All that I had no knowledge off. Yes, she drank and from what I can see from the little interaction we have, she still does. One poster hit on the head, they're great actors and know how to get pity.
It took me a long time to realize that it wasn't me, but she was incapable of feeling joy feeling true emotions other than what she presented to get what she wanted at a particular moment. In some way I feel sorry for her. I'm glad she is out of my everyday life. The obnoxious behavior, the lies, the rudeness to waiters, sales people , flirtation are all the things that come to mind and still leave bitter after all these years. She was an embarrassment to me, our daughter, and herself.
yeah she sounds like a beauty . Good look whatever may come your way
Radar Love

Utica, NY

#92 May 14, 2013
Monopolar wrote:
<quoted text>Later after we split, I'd call from credit card companies and cell carriers about unpaid bills and collection actions. All that I had no knowledge off. Yes, she drank and from what I can see from the little interaction we have, she still does. One poster hit on the head, they're great actors and know how to get pity
Yup. Get the collection agency calls looking for her.(And now her brother!!!)

Drinking? Check.
Actors? Check.
Play the victim? Check.

Like Sam Kinison said, pretty much the bitch combo plate.
Monopolar

Roslindale, MA

#93 May 15, 2013
I just had to move on. My daughter's emotional and financial well-being are my concern. As far as my ex, she's tearing through her settlement and is someone else's problem now.
truth

Utica, NY

#94 May 15, 2013
Monopolar wrote:
I just had to move on. My daughter's emotional and financial well-being are my concern. As far as my ex, she's tearing through her settlement and is someone else's problem now.
Identical situation here. Keep your head up. Take the high road. They're worse than any lifetime movie script. Focus on your daughter first. It will get better. Just take the time to understand what attracted you and what need she satisfied. Use that information to protect yourself and make better choices.
Monopolar

Roslindale, MA

#95 May 15, 2013
Thank you I'm fine with it. I was just commenting on the topic and offering advice from my experience. My discernment meter is well tuned.
I'm happy , my daughter is happy and well adjusted. My ex will always be what she is and there is nothing I can do about it. I did love her, and she used me for it. Some people just can't get beyond whatever childhood trauma they experienced , and appreciate when someone treats them with love and respect. I read here once that normal is crazy and crazy is normal. Very true
thinking back

Ardsley, NY

#96 May 15, 2013
Monopolar wrote:
Thank you I'm fine with it. I was just commenting on the topic and offering advice from my experience. My discernment meter is well tuned.
I'm happy , my daughter is happy and well adjusted. My ex will always be what she is and there is nothing I can do about it. I did love her, and she used me for it. Some people just can't get beyond whatever childhood trauma they experienced , and appreciate when someone treats them with love and respect. I read here once that normal is crazy and crazy is normal. Very true
Do you think that there was ever a time where she really did love you in her own sort of bi-polar way despite all of her contradictory behaviors? I often wonder myself about this after showing her unconditional love and acceptance for so long. Sometimes, I can't help but feel like I was a safe zone for her where she knew I would see her as normal.
Monoploar

Roslindale, MA

#97 May 15, 2013
No I don't. It was all an act.
First Hand

New York Mills, NY

#98 May 15, 2013
Monoploar wrote:
No I don't. It was all an act.
I think anyone who shows a bi-polar woman random acts of kindness and generosity will be rewarded with great sex. The key is understanding that it's just sex and anything but love. This is a tough pill for a lot of guys to swallow. Bi-polar types are not capable of unconditional love. They see a person who adores them as the perfect place to hide out and operate. You might not even realize that you're being used in this capacity.

In the end when you break it off with them, they will blame you for, "why they did what they did." Usually, something that was impulse behavior related.

Look for the signs. It's more prevalent in incestuous places like the Utica are than you can imagine.
Monoploar

Roslindale, MA

#99 May 15, 2013
Exactly . The unfortunate part is you believe what they say because you don't see any reason for them to lie.The lying is pathological. It's automatic it's their first impulse. The signs: no relationship with their family. No girlfriends, but guy friends because "I can relate to them and there is no competition" - sick right. I can go on
Just beware and trust your instincts.

I think we gave this thread enough time. Thanks

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#100 May 15, 2013
squalid cny lives wrote:
<quoted text>What's the "proper treatment"? They marry correction officers and get the shyt kicked out of them for the rest of their squalid cny lives.
I call that a positive and it keeps the gene pool chlorinated!
They get old desperit troopers to call her boyfriend and get them to do anything that gets in there way. Thats how good she is. Did she get it out of her? Why didn't her husband it out of her? maybe he don't care.
That poor guy.
Jodi

AOL

#101 May 15, 2013
The goof ruined her family......her mother wanted to place her in a foster home when she was jr high b/c she was so out-of-control! All she did was tell everyone how bad her MOTHER was! It was her...all the time. She destroyed the relationship the son had with his family. She literally opened her mouth & swallowed him up. Now, the 2 of them feed off each other. He supports her & her kids. Always has an excuse why she can't work. She loves to throw things & slap my friends son around. Oh, how we could go on......
Generation all messed up

Earlville, NY

#102 May 15, 2013
I'm bipolar and I was the one getting hurt in my younger years with maybe exception of one person. If I hurt someone kinda always felt bad but usually because I wasn't into the dude like that ,these woman just straight up are ruthless . I would nt take a mans money or whatever unless I planned on staying with him . Goes both ways. I think there's a proportion of people that have cheated . They have felt bad about it , ok maybe after the bust but I'm just saying . These woman sound like players . If theyre are not players inside themselves hot mess . They don't suffer any less

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#103 May 16, 2013
Jodi wrote:
The goof ruined her family......her mother wanted to place her in a foster home when she was jr high b/c she was so out-of-control! All she did was tell everyone how bad her MOTHER was! It was her...all the time. She destroyed the relationship the son had with his family. She literally opened her mouth & swallowed him up. Now, the 2 of them feed off each other. He supports her & her kids. Always has an excuse why she can't work. She loves to throw things & slap my friends son around. Oh, how we could go on......
Are you talking about Kim Celecki? She's worse than I thought!
why

Massena, NY

#104 May 16, 2013
Who cares! To the original poster, do what you feel is right. Obviously you already had concerns about this woman otherwise you wouldn't have started this post. As for the ex husband of that crazy woman.... I don't know either one of you, but consider yourself lucky to be rid of the dead weight. You are right, she is someone else's problem now and unfortunately you have kids together that will have to deal with her craziness....very sad.

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#106 May 17, 2013
Lot of people care. He baby daddy dont care. Even the baby dont care! You suck Kim Celecki.

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