Bi-Polar Women Who Present Well
only way a guy can win

Utica, NY

#66 May 7, 2013
Most women will tell you they love sex but you know eventually they're just having it to keep you. Eventually they'll want something out of you or else they'll grab a better offer.

I tell em right up front they aren't getting anything. They think they can change me. They end up cheating. I let em and then I go find another pig. That's how the cycle rolls. Meanwhile they all come running back. The real fun is in letting them hang themselves first and making them pay.
FAILURE DARK

Fayetteville, NY

#68 May 7, 2013
only way a guy can win wrote:
Most women will tell you they love sex but you know eventually they're just having it to keep you. Eventually they'll want something out of you or else they'll grab a better offer.
I tell em right up front they aren't getting anything. They think they can change me. They end up cheating. I let em and then I go find another pig. That's how the cycle rolls. Meanwhile they all come running back. The real fun is in letting them hang themselves first and making them pay.
Back in the 1970s, a chimpanzee named Nim Chimpsky took part in a Columbia University research study called "Project Nim."

Project Nim was led by Herbert Terrace, a psychologist at Columbia who was attempting to find out if a chimpanzee could learn to communicate using American Sign Language.

"Everyone knows that words are learned one at a time," but something happens when children begin to combine words and create true language, Terrace says.

The question, he says, was, "Could Nim do this?"

A newly released book takes a look at the project, and the people involved examine the ethics of the experiment.

The name Nim Chimpsky was a twist on Noam Chomsky, the MIT linguist who theorized that language as we know it is unique to humans. Terrace wanted to disprove Chomsky's theory and show that a chimpanzee could develop real language.

To immerse Nim in a world where he would be taught sign language in the same way a human child would, Terrace brought him to live with a family in New York City in 1973, not long after the chimp was born. There, Nim joined a sprawling, chaotic blended family with many human siblings who could teach him sign language.

Since: Nov 12

Location hidden

#69 May 7, 2013
bad times wrote:
<quoted text>WERE WAS SHE FROM??7
Barneveld! One of her boyfrieds shot the dog on the walking trail last year. She off the charts withj what sex she do on ya! Called her the c*mloader..she take it ALL>
Girl

Massena, NY

#70 May 7, 2013
Did it cross your mind that the person who called you could be somebody who really doesn't like her and trying to ruin her life making up stories, maybe one of her jealous exes or something...And since you've been advised not to confront her, which means they really did not want her to know that you received this call, that to me sounds even more suspicious. You never know what people can do out of hate or jealousy.
words to live by

Utica, NY

#71 May 8, 2013
A warning is a warning. Despite the messengers intentions genuine or not. Question everything and verify. There is nothing worse than discovering the truth years later. Everyone has a past. Some darker than others.

Ask yourself with each new relationship, what does this person bring to the table in value that you can't provide for yourself. If you can't provide for your self, get yourself to that point. Once you can, you need no one. It's not fun to go through life alone but in the end, we really are alone. Start looking at life as a journey and not a destination. Live, love and laugh. Enjoy those who you meet along the way. Always protect your heart, because someone will always break it. Don't be vulnerable in life. Give love, just don't always expect it back in return. Life is short. Live each day like your last. Trust no one except yourself. You'll never wake up to disappointment.
Oh please

Mount Vernon, OH

#72 May 8, 2013
only way a guy can win wrote:
Most women will tell you they love sex but you know eventually they're just having it to keep you. Eventually they'll want something out of you or else they'll grab a better offer.
I tell em right up front they aren't getting anything. They think they can change me. They end up cheating. I let em and then I go find another pig. That's how the cycle rolls. Meanwhile they all come running back. The real fun is in letting them hang themselves first and making them pay.
you sound like the devil , let me date you I'm a woman ill eat u up and spit u out you freain jerk . A man like you deserves noone . I hope you die alone .
Oh please

Mount Vernon, OH

#73 May 8, 2013
only way a guy can win wrote:
Most women will tell you they love sex but you know eventually they're just having it to keep you. Eventually they'll want something out of you or else they'll grab a better offer.
I tell em right up front they aren't getting anything. They think they can change me. They end up cheating. I let em and then I go find another pig. That's how the cycle rolls. Meanwhile they all come running back. The real fun is in letting them hang themselves first and making them pay.
on the other hand a woman should know where the relationship is going before sex occurs , so who knows . Saying you should die alone can be a little harsh I suppose . The nice thing about topix is you can take out your fusterations without really hurting anyone .(If names aren't mentioned)
Way It Is

New York Mills, NY

#74 May 8, 2013
Oh please wrote:
<quoted text> on the other hand a woman should know where the relationship is going before sex occurs , so who knows . Saying you should die alone can be a little harsh I suppose . The nice thing about topix is you can take out your fusterations without really hurting anyone .(If names aren't mentioned)
I think it's safe to say that both men and women will tell you they want commitment but value having a handful of options. This seems to be the new norm. No one wants to give anything up. Instead, relationship building is too much work. It's easier to cast someone aside and click on a new date.

The bi-polar ones seem to be the ones that will tell you they want a relationship and there's no one else. They are masters of telling you what you want to hear. Nowadays, you can't help but be suspect about someone's true intentions. Seems people talk alot of smack. I think with forums like topix for better or worse, the education piece is there to better inform people about
what's going on out there in the dating world.
Julie

United States

#75 May 8, 2013
Sounds like Julie Westcott
Shipwreck Lady

Syracuse, NY

#76 May 8, 2013
In other news, a drunken idiot was seen standing outside a bar he had just recently been thrown out of and asking repeatedly: "So that's how it's gonna be, huh?"

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Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#77 May 8, 2013
Julie wrote:
Sounds like Julie Westcott
and it sounds like Kim Celecki from Barneveld. People in Holland Patent knpw all about her.
Sick Women

Utica, NY

#78 May 8, 2013
These types are everywhere around cny and not getting the proper treatment.
squalid cny lives

United States

#79 May 8, 2013
Sick Women wrote:
These types are everywhere around cny and not getting the proper treatment.
What's the "proper treatment"? They marry correction officers and get the shyt kicked out of them for the rest of their squalid cny lives.

I call that a positive and it keeps the gene pool chlorinated!
Tlc

Great Barrington, MA

#80 May 8, 2013
Loving one can be all to painful . They tell you how much they love you , when the mood swing kicks in very painful . Get agitated and mean very guick . You think it's you and you feel unwanted . I really love my bipolar person I'm with but it's never easy all too painful at times . Moving on easier said then done . It's not easy to stop loving someone if you really do . Couples argue or have disagreements . A bipolar person will drag it out , overexaggerate it . They just lack consistency . The relationship will be up and down with someone that has this . Perhaps maybe even on and off . Bipolar people usually have a mean streak along with the sweet side . Being emotionally unstable doesn't mean someone is bipolar , it can mean other things . You would know if your lover or whatever was bipolar .i wish I understood sooner my life would be different . Being with these people it's hard to have compassion cuz you take everything personal when your involved . At some point have to come to terms it's not all you .

Since: Nov 12

Location hidden

#81 May 10, 2013
So accurate, you know what its all about. I don't matter what you hope for, this is the realty of what she's about. Watch out and you will see she is not stable.
Iowegian

United States

#82 May 12, 2013
Cant B Trusted wrote:
Giving up good sex with a bi-polar woman is like trying to kick an addiction of some sort. The problem is, these kind of women don't value monogamy. They have a whole slew of enablers who are granted sexual favors. This is why a bi-polar women can't be trusted. Don't get me wrong. I don't think they're out to consciously hurt people. It's just that their sense of self-worth is derived from multiple sources. Expect whoreish like behavior.
This encapsulates to a "T" what I have just recently gone through with a bipolar woman. From the very beginning of our relationship, I knew she had tons of guy friends. Nothing wrong with that on the surface, but the red flags started to appear about 3 months into our relationship. When she started staying over at one of these guy's home all night, the same guy who had fed her pot and likely other drugs on a daily basis, it was time to be done with her.
wow

Utica, NY

#83 May 13, 2013
Iowegian wrote:
<quoted text>
This encapsulates to a "T" what I have just recently gone through with a bipolar woman. From the very beginning of our relationship, I knew she had tons of guy friends. Nothing wrong with that on the surface, but the red flags started to appear about 3 months into our relationship. When she started staying over at one of these guy's home all night, the same guy who had fed her pot and likely other drugs on a daily basis, it was time to be done with her.
She sounds like someone that I was with too. Could it be that some of these same women are in a rotation with a bunch of different guys here? Has the dating pool in the Utica area gotten that bad?

Wake up guys. Take care of yourselves first. This is the time of year when needy women will give you sex in return for helping them with their outdoor house work. Don't be a fool! This is how they operate. I'm not saying don't help out. Just don't get caught up in it all. Always remember, as soon as your gone, she'll have another one filling your shoes...so don't kill yourself for her!
Monopolar

Westwood, MA

#84 May 13, 2013
Don't forget about the PO boxes , credit cards, and cellphone bills you were never supposed to see.
Radar Love

Utica, NY

#85 May 13, 2013
Monopolar wrote:
Don't forget about the PO boxes , credit cards, and cellphone bills you were never supposed to see.
Egg-axctly. And boinking whatever "friends" you have that really aren't.
Monopolar

Westwood, MA

#86 May 13, 2013
Empty wine bottles all over the house. Lying to your face. Spending money like she's the one making it . Can't balance a check book. No credit. Dropped by car insurance companies because of all the accidents. Not counting the ones you weren't supposed to know about that she paid for with "her money" . I'm laughing because after all these years I can't believe I never saw it. They are world class actresses and liars. I was such a fool.

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