Lizzy

Utica, NY

#1 Dec 25, 2013
How was everyones xmas? Good i hope. Did u miss anyone special or was it all good?
Zoo

Paterson, NJ

#2 Dec 25, 2013
Yes, my son is in harm's way in Afghanistan. I wish he was home
Lizzy

Utica, NY

#3 Dec 26, 2013
Zoo wrote:
Yes, my son is in harm's way in Afghanistan. I wish he was home
sorry to hear that. Prayers!
bitter sweet

Utica, NY

#4 Dec 26, 2013
Lizzy wrote:
How was everyones xmas? Good i hope. Did u miss anyone special or was it all good?
I had an ok day. I miss her still but each day is getting easier. It was really hard not call on Christmas but she made it very clear that she never wanted to hear from me break ups suck worse at this time of year, now just have to get through NYE
Bradley

Utica, NY

#5 Dec 26, 2013
bitter sweet wrote:
<quoted text>I had an ok day. I miss her still but each day is getting easier. It was really hard not call on Christmas but she made it very clear that she never wanted to hear from me break ups suck worse at this time of year, now just have to get through NYE
i hear u bro. It sucks this time of yr. Esp when u miss someone. My xmas sucked but my fault since i told someone special not to ever contact me again. Wish i never did that! Goin out Nye. Maybe ill meet someone who knows.
Hang in There

Utica, NY

#6 Dec 26, 2013
Bradley wrote:
<quoted text>i hear u bro. It sucks this time of yr. Esp when u miss someone. My xmas sucked but my fault since i told someone special not to ever contact me again. Wish i never did that! Goin out Nye. Maybe ill meet someone who knows.
There is a reason you did that. The person was not as special as you hoped. When you break up you tend to forget the bad and remember "only" the good, and that is not realistic. Time will pass and hopefully you will find the right one. It's a grieving process and not easy. Dieting and exercising are tough, but the end result is good. Break-ups are kinda like that. Get through the struggle and find yourself in a better place. Hang in there.

Hope 2014 is a better one for you.
Glad its over

Cortland, NY

#7 Dec 26, 2013
Always lonely day for me. Most of my relatives are gone or live out of state. My children in other states with families of their own. All of my friends have families. Parents are in heaven. I always spend the Holidays alone. It's not a happy time at all for me. Hope most of you had a Good One. Peace....
pam

Little Falls, NY

#8 Dec 26, 2013
Bradley wrote:
<quoted text>i hear u bro. It sucks this time of yr. Esp when u miss someone. My xmas sucked but my fault since i told someone special not to ever contact me again. Wish i never did that! Goin out Nye. Maybe ill meet someone who knows.
Tell that someone special you're sorry you told them non to contact you and see what they say
Bradley

Utica, NY

#9 Dec 27, 2013
pam wrote:
<quoted text>Tell that someone special you're sorry you told them non to contact you and see what they say
can't do that. Won't change anything anyway. I was told i would lose and i did. They r happy now. Good for them. If seeing me hurt makes that person happy i am better off anyhow. But ty.
Hope

Danielson, CT

#10 Dec 27, 2013
Bradley wrote:
<quoted text>can't do that. Won't change anything anyway. I was told i would lose and i did. They r happy now. Good for them. If seeing me hurt makes that person happy i am better off anyhow. But ty.
If you care that much about her, why let her go??? Finding someone else isn't going to ease your pain nor help your case any. I am sure that she isn't happy seeing you happy. At least make peace with her - what do you have to lose at this point???
Hope

Danielson, CT

#11 Dec 27, 2013
I meant not happy seeing you UNhappy.

What did you do or what happened to hurt her so badly??
Bradley

Utica, NY

#12 Dec 28, 2013
Hope wrote:
I meant not happy seeing you UNhappy.
What did you do or what happened to hurt her so badly??
embarrassed to say but i lied to her.
Holly

Danielson, CT

#13 Dec 28, 2013
Bradley wrote:
<quoted text>embarrassed to say but i lied to her.
No offense but we are used to that from guys. Must have been a really really low lie for her to turn her back on you like that. For your sake, you should try to at least apologize to her - Again, you have nothing to lose at this point
hopeless

United States

#14 Dec 28, 2013
I miss my daughter. My wife cheated and yet here I sit alone waiting for my 2days a week. Its called visitation for a reason. You Keep in touch but you miss out on the Goodnite kiss and morning hugs. This state is so unfair when comes to great fathers and their kids. She gets her cake. Now my child spends her days with mommy and the new man introduced into her life. When will I no longer cry myself to sleep? Cause every day seems to get harder while everyone claims it should be easier. I can't live this life without my angel And for anyone to expect that I should just make the best of it must not have the same love in their hearts that I do.
Nothing but truth

Frankfort, NY

#15 Dec 28, 2013
Holly wrote:
<quoted text>No offense but we are used to that from guys. Must have been a really really low lie for her to turn her back on you like that. For your sake, you should try to at least apologize to her - Again, you have nothing to lose at this point
If you're used to that from guys, you're hanging with the wrong ones.
Holly

Utica, NY

#16 Dec 28, 2013
Nothing but truth wrote:
<quoted text>
If you're used to that from guys, you're hanging with the wrong ones.
No argument here. That is why I choose to be single from now on
Slow joe

Clarksville, TN

#17 Dec 28, 2013
I miss Janie Worley

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