It's not gossip if you comment on public record facts....I have always acknowledged (and if you look back at my comments) I don't deny that Lydia has suffered a great loss... I do say and stand by my belief that all of this could have been avoided if Lydia had just said "No, don't stay here tonight considering in her testimony she had a "weird vibe/feeling" from Dustin.As an out sider and just came across this. People that gossip make me sick. Better come off that high horse of yours before you fall off and break your own neck, because you are too high up there for your own good. I hope you never have to feel the pain of losing a child or losing a close family member in a murder, because it just about destroy's you. I have lost both a child and than lost a family member young in a murder. It's a pain that stays with you always. I have met many people like you always pointing that fingure at everyone else but never point it at your self, because if you did you might not like what you would see. Talking trash about people doesn't help anyone, all it does is hurt people and why hurt someone when you can help. Did you try to help anyone invovled in this case or just gossip about it? Did you open your arms to this poor family or hide in the back ground doing nothing, but making it harder for them to move on with there lives? Try to do this for awhile, find the good in a person and talk about that, everyone always wants to talk about the bad and the mistakes someone has done. I personally dislike gossip all it does is hurt everyone and doesn't fix anything but make life on hard on the recieving end of it. Let the person without sin cast the first stone. One day you could be judge in the same manor as you are judging and Personally I wouldn't want to be YOU on that day.
And as for your comment about "one day you could be judge (which should be judged)" I would NEVER put myself in this position...because I put the needs of my kids before my own...and if you have followed this forum, you would know that!!!!