Ex Wife will not stop harassing new wife

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Sally

AOL

#1 Mar 10, 2010
Does anyone else have an ex wife they have to deal with on a regular basis? It's a crazy maker for sure. My husband and his ex wife have no children together so there's no bond there. He and I have been married for over 10 years. For a long time she called anon, then called me demanding money. Wow ... Is anyone else dealing with something like this? Even the police agencies have not been able to stop her.
Stop It

Humble, TX

#2 Mar 11, 2010
Sally wrote:
Does anyone else have an ex wife they have to deal with on a regular basis? It's a crazy maker for sure. My husband and his ex wife have no children together so there's no bond there. He and I have been married for over 10 years. For a long time she called anon, then called me demanding money. Wow ... Is anyone else dealing with something like this? Even the police agencies have not been able to stop her.
Get a no contact restraining order against th stupid b--ch.
have a phone that has caller ID and an answering machine and also a recorder so you can record her for prove to the cops.
Then demand the cops prosicute her for violation of the rerestraining order.
She has no right to even phone you.
You could also sue her for harrasment and mental anguish.
joe dirt

Rowlett, TX

#3 Mar 12, 2010
Sally wrote:
Does anyone else have an ex wife they have to deal with on a regular basis? It's a crazy maker for sure. My husband and his ex wife have no children together so there's no bond there. He and I have been married for over 10 years. For a long time she called anon, then called me demanding money. Wow ... Is anyone else dealing with something like this? Even the police agencies have not been able to stop her.
Sounds like she may still be giving him a shot of it!
yep

Lindale, TX

#4 Mar 25, 2010
Yep for over 34 yrs you would think she would give up when the children were gone she went on the internet and kept saying i was the most evil woman as if anyone in the world would care but no she will never stop some women cannot take rejection and will never get over it . just ignor her and go on with your life even a restraining order won't work she will find a way just wave at her and go on with your life .She is not after your husband she don't want him she is after you.
dummy

Tyler, TX

#5 Mar 28, 2010
u cant just sue someone and claim MENTAL ANGUISH.

your post caused me mental anguish can i sue you?

ill bet youre one of those people that tries to sue mcdonalds for their coffee burning your mouth.
sally

Schertz, TX

#6 Mar 31, 2010
well it looks like i know someone just like her and the bad part of it she just got out of jail and she move in with her ex-husband in wills point and the ex girlfriend is very upset that this ex jail bird is livin with him now and she dont like this woman livin with her man i dont know what this ex jail bird did to have him get her back but im sure as a ex jail bird she found a way to mess with his head to take her back in what i know this woman have been trying hard to go back to her ex-husband for some months that's intill he gave up and toll his girlfriend she out of her

this ex jail bird is from gatesville jail and her name is deborah prater and now she back with her ex and ex-girlfriend stills gets calls from this woman and wont stop she did file charges but the cops have not dont notting about it

as i see it this ex-jail bird deborah prater needs to go back to jail and stay there and the woman can go back to her man i told her to dig up her past and find out what you can and use it on her im sure this deborah prater would not want nobody to find out about her past and what kind of con person she is i hope in time the ex-girlfriend will find something on her and get payback
what come's arouond goes around

good luck to the ex-girlfriend
Stop It

Humble, TX

#7 Apr 5, 2010
dummy wrote:
u cant just sue someone and claim MENTAL ANGUISH.
your post caused me mental anguish can i sue you?
ill bet youre one of those people that tries to sue mcdonalds for their coffee burning your mouth.
Nope, I don't drink coffee and if I did it wouldn't be at mcgaggles, also never filed a law suit in my life, and that has been a lot of years. It might just scare the crap out of the woman to the point that she would stop the harrasment. You don't nessesarily have to go all the way with it, a letter from an attorny might just do the trick. Turn it around on HER.
Just someone

Garland, TX

#8 Apr 9, 2010
Stop It wrote:
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Get a no contact restraining order against th stupid b--ch.
have a phone that has caller ID and an answering machine and also a recorder so you can record her for prove to the cops.
Then demand the cops prosicute her for violation of the rerestraining order.
She has no right to even phone you.
You could also sue her for harrasment and mental anguish.
First, "cops" don't prosecute. They file charge and the D.A. or County Attorney does the prosecution.

Secondly, police officers can't enforce a restraining order because it's a civil matter. Police can enforce a Protective Order because it's a criminal matter.

Third, you can't sue for harrassment. You can press charges for harrassment but it would be considered telephone harrassment and most of those cases will be put in File 13. Don't know what that means? Google it.

Lastly, mental anguish is hard to prove and you can't put a value on it. When you can't put a value on something you can't sue for it.

Learn the law before you start giving advice. Your advice sucks, at best, and no one should take anything you say seriously.
someone who knows

Nicholasville, KY

#9 May 26, 2010
You can file a Motion for Harassment put in the letter what you want to happen if Motion is violated if the Judge signs it than you have ammunition. Make sure if you were brought back in court and proven your case file that she/he is responsible for all court cost. If they don't then you have no grounds for Harassment. You can't sue, this really is waste of time. The hard part is getting the Judge see this a reasonable harassment. You don't need a lawyer to file a motion, just make sure you can back up your story. Always have a fully charged recorder cassette or video at all times. Always use speaker phone, Keep track of your phone records. Never dial back a phone number you do not reconize, this is only to get you to call them. Don't do this the first week you get your info. Survey this for couple months before going to court. If you repeated filing papers with the court they eventually will listen. No one should have to be harassed by anyone. The relationship did not work out move on, don't waste your days hung up on someone who doesn't care about you anymore. When you can find the love your life with someone else. Jealousy comes in a form when the Jealous person sees that the other person is happier.
Jacqueline112

Saint Cloud, FL

#10 Jun 16, 2010
I am married now to a wonderfull man that has 4 children, however the x-wife will justnot stop.. she is a vet so she makes a boat load of cash, so she does any an everything to make our life misserable. she has pulled the kids from him over 6 times an told him that if I dont go he will not see them anymore, so we broke up everytime an not to mention she has bugged our office, truck, and house an is completely violatingour home? Now we r married an she has taken kids because he always paid her cash for childsupport an she turne around an said he hasnt been paying? So now we are married an she is at her worst an wont stop, i swear what she does should be agaisnt the law? He is a wonderfull father an love those kids like my own... Y cant she just STOP, she is even remarried an wont give up???
david30918

Dallas, GA

#11 Jun 16, 2010
dummy wrote:
u cant just sue someone and claim MENTAL ANGUISH.
your post caused me mental anguish can i sue you?
ill bet youre one of those people that tries to sue mcdonalds for their coffee burning your mouth.
you can sue someone for anything, doesnt mean you will win. And you can claim anguish for an ongoing harassment situation.
Milesisdone

Wilkinson, IN

#13 Aug 16, 2010
Oh I have an ex-wife who posts comments to popular blogs about me. Which means, they get published. Using my name and everything. The internet can be vicious but, when your dealing with someone like that you gotta just lay low. People listen, the best way to stay above water with less ripplin (I'm telling ya) IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE. I know it's hard, I realize that. I'm living it 24/7 and not so-bad now because I DON'T RESPOND. Thankfully, we never had children.
Britt

United States

#14 Aug 18, 2010
yep wrote:
Yep for over 34 yrs you would think she would give up when the children were gone she went on the internet and kept saying i was the most evil woman as if anyone in the world would care but no she will never stop some women cannot take rejection and will never get over it . just ignor her and go on with your life even a restraining order won't work she will find a way just wave at her and go on with your life .She is not after your husband she don't want him she is after you.
yes and Some women chase men also, there is one that lives in Lindale Tx that has a beauty salon in Tyler .I know for a fact.She acts like miss goody goody.
another unfortunate

Southampton, UK

#15 Aug 19, 2010
Sally wrote:
Does anyone else have an ex wife they have to deal with on a regular basis? It's a crazy maker for sure. My husband and his ex wife have no children together so there's no bond there. He and I have been married for over 10 years. For a long time she called anon, then called me demanding money. Wow ... Is anyone else dealing with something like this? Even the police agencies have not been able to stop her.
thank you lord im not the only one, i think there are alot of us out there that are having to put up with physco x wifes seeing the police tommorrow
Nightingale

Nacogdoches, TX

#16 Oct 19, 2010
You are not alone. It has been going on now for many years here. No children at home. Gifts, cards, phone calls, emails, following our every move via relatives who just can't believe she would do such a thing. Just this week, when we were supposed to be visiting relatives I stayed home instead. The ex phoned the house, knowing there wasn't anyone home? Pretty freaky. I keep a loaded shotgun behind my door just in case. Otherwise, we just hit the "ignore" button. This is a mental illnes and the most common type of stalker. They are extremely narcissistic and want what they want with no regard for their victims. They would like your love and attention but will settle for your anger if that is all they get. There is nothing an obsessive stalker hates more than being completely ignored. You can't stop them so save your energy for something positive you would like to do. Learn how to protect your privacy. These women know your spouses SSN; BD; mother's maiden name; etc etc. We have had our banks, credit card, and home broken into. We have had our cars vandalized. She has attempted to sully our reputation, but the only person who looks like an idiot is her and as the years go on and the stalking continues she has made believers out of many folks who doubted us in the beginning. Keep all your evidence. Keep track of dates, times, locations, what was said, sent etc etc. We hope that this never escalates to violence, learn what the triggers are; for example family birthdays, holidays, anniversarys, family get togethers. Our best advice is to know the enemy. Learn where she works, who her friends are. Do not react or retaliate. We have stopped short of criminal charges because the drama and attention simply feeds the illness, like throwing gasoline onto a hot fire. The best thing that can happen is that your stalker will get bored or find someone else to focus on.

“No body loves me like I can”

Since: Oct 10

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#17 Oct 19, 2010
Just have a threesome man. Then every one is happy.
TOBADSOSAD

Fort Worth, TX

#18 Nov 19, 2010
sally wrote:
well it looks like i know someone just like her and the bad part of it she just got out of jail and she move in with her ex-husband in wills point and the ex girlfriend is very upset that this ex jail bird is livin with him now and she dont like this woman livin with her man i dont know what this ex jail bird did to have him get her back but im sure as a ex jail bird she found a way to mess with his head to take her back in what i know this woman have been trying hard to go back to her ex-husband for some months that's intill he gave up and toll his girlfriend she out of her
this ex jail bird is from gatesville jail and her name is deborah prater and now she back with her ex and ex-girlfriend stills gets calls from this woman and wont stop she did file charges but the cops have not dont notting about it
as i see it this ex-jail bird deborah prater needs to go back to jail and stay there and the woman can go back to her man i told her to dig up her past and find out what you can and use it on her im sure this deborah prater would not want nobody to find out about her past and what kind of con person she is i hope in time the ex-girlfriend will find something on her and get payback
what come's arouond goes around
good luck to the ex-girlfriend
Sounds like Debra Prater needs some more jail time,And she needs to leave the dude alone period.He did move his ex in with him!
Cici

Houston, TX

#19 Jan 3, 2011
dummy wrote:
u cant just sue someone and claim MENTAL ANGUISH.
your post caused me mental anguish can i sue you?
ill bet youre one of those people that tries to sue mcdonalds for their coffee burning your mouth.
Yeah actually you can, but it is harder to do and it is more than just you get annoyed or upset. It has to be SEVERE and the conduct has to be outrageous and systematic, which is difficult to prove. But yes there is a tortious action called Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress and Negligent Infliction of Emotional Distress. Not trying to be condescending, just updating your information. I thought the same thing at first and then I went to law school.
Butch

Paris, TX

#20 Jan 6, 2011
I have a friend who is a local business owner and very well liked in the community. His ex wife harasses him by imposing herself into his life on a daily basis. It's very clear to everyone he doesn't want her around but she continues her imposition and I see it driving her literally insane. She's even taken on the look of a madwoman. It's sad really. Unfortunately some people are unstable when it comes to matters of the heart and for whatever reason cannot let go of the past. It's always wise to pay attention to red flags before you marry someone. You can avoid these situations if you really want.
Being Harrassed

United States

#21 Jun 22, 2011
another unfortunate wrote:
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thank you lord im not the only one, i think there are alot of us out there that are having to put up with physco x wifes seeing the police tommorrow
What do you do when the exwife harrassing you is the police?????

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