Since: Aug 08

Blytheville, AR

#1 Aug 20, 2008
How many people out there know what its like to be cheated on? Im sure a he** of alot of you. Well I think my wife cheated on me and now I don't know what to do. We have kids and I love her more than anything, she's my world. All I know is it hurts to know that she possibly cheated on me, and now I feel like it's my fault. Any comments?
well

Memphis, TN

#2 Aug 20, 2008
you will not have peace until you find out for sure. so do what you have to do to find out.

Since: Aug 08

Blytheville, AR

#3 Aug 21, 2008
well wrote:
you will not have peace until you find out for sure. so do what you have to do to find out.
I understand that, it's just you don't know the whole story. 2 much to explain on here. But I totally agree with you.
Really

United States

#4 Aug 21, 2008
Nope! I think it will be better for you to try and just let it go. If you love her and have children forget about it, if you seek the truth and she did cheat do you really think you could live with that, think about how it will affect you and your marriage. I would not want to know, just my opinion, but I wish you the best and hope that she did not do it!
i hate cheaters

Blytheville, AR

#5 Aug 21, 2008
once a cheater always a cheater! and everyone deserves to know the truth if their spouse is cheating.
well

Georgetown, TX

#6 Aug 21, 2008
It is something you need to know. You have to know to be able to get past it.There are many diffrent reasons people cheat. But you have to remember that it isn't your fault, if there was a issue with you then it was her that needed to tell you so you could talk about it.

My ex cheated on me and OMG it does hurt and is so hard to get past, we went to get help and I learned there it wasnt my dault, it was his own, there is chioices in everything we do. We got past it but then 2 years later it happend again so we didnt make it, but some do make it. Just dont blame yourself, there is never a good reason for cheating.
hmmm

Arkadelphia, AR

#7 Aug 21, 2008
I wouldn't never cheat but I was in a relationship that I was completely unhappy and my husband was always gone and never had anything to do with me. I won't lie and say that I didn't think about it but could never bring myself to do it. I was mostly looking for someone that wanted to be with me and go places with me and that sort of stuff. Unfortunatley I never got that with him. We divorced after a few years and I hated it but in the long run everything turned out fine. We are both very happy now and on good terms!

But I would have to know if he did ever cheat. Just for my own self if nothing else.
been there

Blytheville, AR

#8 Aug 21, 2008
My husband cheated on me constantly or so people kept telling me. I never caught him, but I could never trust him. Needless to say we finally split up. When you can't trust someone you can't make it work. So if you think your wife is cheating, you will have to decide if you can ever trust her again. If you think you can, then make it work.
been there

Blytheville, AR

#9 Aug 21, 2008
I also want to ask you why you think it's your fault.
Ex Wife of a cop

State University, AR

#10 Aug 21, 2008
Hey Been There....My ex-husband did too.... never caught him technically.... but he did manage to have another kid during our marriage - but the kid doesn't know it....

good thing was.... he was soo busy cheatin on me - that he didn't have a clue when I started cheatin on him...otherwise, he would've killed me!

...I didn't leave him for cheatin... I left him because he was abusive.... which is why I decided to cheat as well....

One thing I've learned tho, until you see it with your own eyes.... they will talk you out of it!
fred

Scranton, AR

#11 Aug 27, 2008
well if any of you wife's want to cheat just drop me a line I,m your man easy in and easy out
hurt and confused

United States

#12 Sep 4, 2008
I also know how it feels to be cheated on. my fiance cheated on me not to long ago with an older woman from his work place, he tried to tell me and his dad that she was his friends girlfriend but come to find out she wasnt. What hurt me the most was that he acted like he didnt feel guilty for what he done. Also she had a family of her own. But when I confronted her she told she didnt care how long me and him had been together and that we had a one year old little girl together. So if you have a family with a man that works at clombia forest watchout you could be next. She works first shift in the wear house and her name is lashondra and she is white. If your wife is cheating on you dont just throw everything away sit down and talk with her find out what happened and why she did what she did youll be surpised what you could achieve out of all of this plus you know the sayin PAY BACK IS A BITCH!
SAD

Hermann, MO

#13 Sep 4, 2008
hurt and confused wrote:
I also know how it feels to be cheated on. my fiance cheated on me not to long ago with an older woman from his work place, he tried to tell me and his dad that she was his friends girlfriend but come to find out she wasnt. What hurt me the most was that he acted like he didnt feel guilty for what he done. Also she had a family of her own. But when I confronted her she told she didnt care how long me and him had been together and that we had a
one year old little girl together. So if you have a family with a man that works at clombia forest watchout you could be next. She works first shift in the wear house and her name is lashondra and she is white. If your wife is cheating on you dont just throw everything away sit down and talk with her find out what happened and why she did what she did youll be surpised what you could achieve out of all of this plus you know the sayin PAY BACK IS A BITCH!
Sondra Darby?
oh my

Lake City, AR

#14 Sep 4, 2008
Are you serious? My husband works there! i think I know the woman ur talking about! Not sure tho! How long ago did this affair happen??

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