Teen driver charged with DWI after crash

[Big Cheeze it]

GOD wrote:

Teen driver charged with DWI after crash.....lets through a pity party!
I could care less what the family has done or not done in the past. They have brought the problems with the law upon themselves. We all have heartache and difficult times its just that most families don't bring it upon themselves and then ask for sympathy. Its what you do about it when it happens that define who you are. Its obvious the parents are very selfish. The father tried to kill himself and the mother left him. Both very selfish acts for parents of three children. This kid has been on a crash course for the last 6 months.He has been drinking at his fathers house on a daily basis and whether any want to admit it or not, many of you already knew this. This kid put many lives at risk and to say he is lucky is an understatement. The only justice to this point is that he is the only one in the hospital. His parents are responsible for his actions until he is an adult. He is 16! He is drinking 7 nights a week. His father and Mother have failed him.16 years old driving at 11:30 PM, drinking a bottle of rum that someone had to purchase, drunk and doing 80 mph in a 25 mph zone with speed bumps is a death wish. If other kids don't learn from this then shame on them. As far as the stupid passenger that got in the car with this drunk kid, yes she thinks its a joke and she has made this quite clear to several other kids.
As far as perfect Uncle Frank.....well he who lives in glass houses should not through stones. I am sure you have your faults too. You mentioned how Renee left her son but failed to speak of dad trying to kill himself.....perhaps that is the only reason the boy stayed with his father to begin with, to prevent him from screwing it up the next time. Don't pick and choose your words, it makes the good things you attempt to say have less meaning.

Heres someone who knows that the Booze was In FACT RUM , Maybe its the name on the blog G.O.D. pretty interesting reading. Pretty strong wording but RIGHT ON THE HEAD OF THE NAIL. This info is correct and on task. THANKS G O D looks like you DONT get thiese 2 kids at the gate. i hope they learned something, i belive they did

[JoeJoe uncle]

Well there has been many things said and to be honest I agree with many things on this. As for "GOD" I never said anything about me being perfect and I did say that I have made many mistakes so just read over what was said. I do AGREE with you as to what you commented on. Also the reason I didn't mention his father and what happen and as I was talking with JoeJoe over at my house I KNOW what was bothering the kid and I only mentioned what JoeJoe was going through and his mother commented on it right before and said it so there was no reason for me to say again. So again before anyone comments about me again I have to let you all know again the I am no where even close to being perfect and YES I have made many wrong choices and I have been wrong many times. One last thing as to us bring this on our selfs is so wrong and not true. I don't want to get into this on this blog because it is again about JoeJoe and Kayla getting better and also for their support. But if you would like to talk and go over it I would love to talk with you about this and see how you feel. I also know JoeJoe was making some bad choices and I did say things to him all the time, and tried to talk with him. I just keep thing as to what more I could of did.

OH yeah before I forget to give the best news. JoeJoe is leaving the hospital today and going to rehab. He is up eatting, walking, talking. So the only thing I have to disagree with is JoeJoe and Kayla are not lucky, those kids are blessed by the real God (not the one on this blog) to be alive. Have a great and blessed day.

As for Big Ceeze It I agree with you about talking to authorities about this and how ever they got it needs to be stopped and not so easy to get. I know there is comments on here as to the dad giving it and I know that is not true (as for what dad tells me). I don't know and I am not sticking up for anyone here and if he did give it to them then he needs to be delted with. Also as for Kayla laughing I hope and pray that girl is not taking this s a joke.

[amazing]

GOD wrote:

Teen driver charged with DWI after crash.....lets through a pity party!
I could care less what the family has done or not done in the past. They have brought the problems with the law upon themselves. We all have heartache and difficult times its just that most families don't bring it upon themselves and then ask for sympathy. Its what you do about it when it happens that define who you are. Its obvious the parents are very selfish. The father tried to kill himself and the mother left him. Both very selfish acts for parents of three children. This kid has been on a crash course for the last 6 months.He has been drinking at his fathers house on a daily basis and whether any want to admit it or not, many of you already knew this. This kid put many lives at risk and to say he is lucky is an understatement. The only justice to this point is that he is the only one in the hospital. His parents are responsible for his actions until he is an adult. He is 16! He is drinking 7 nights a week. His father and Mother have failed him.16 years old driving at 11:30 PM, drinking a bottle of rum that someone had to purchase, drunk and doing 80 mph in a 25 mph zone with speed bumps is a death wish. If other kids don't learn from this then shame on them. As far as the stupid passenger that got in the car with this drunk kid, yes she thinks its a joke and she has made this quite clear to several other kids.
As far as perfect Uncle Frank.....well he who lives in glass houses should not through stones. I am sure you have your faults too. You mentioned how Renee left her son but failed to speak of dad trying to kill himself.....perhaps that is the only reason the boy stayed with his father to begin with, to prevent him from screwing it up the next time. Don't pick and choose your words, it makes the good things you attempt to say have less meaning.

Personally, I think you, "God", have a lot of nerve to be posting the disgraceful things you've said. No one is calling for a "pity party" for anyone. We are simply concerned with JoeJoe's health and the health & care of his family. As far as them bringing the law problems upon themselves, i'm sure you're ignorant to the situation and should be careful what you are talking about. His parents are not selfish in the least, in my experiences the last 10 years or so that i've known them & the Houghtaling family. His parents have been there day and night, while also managing to care for their other 2 children, and provide comfort and support to Joe Joe's concerned friends. No one is making excuses for his drinking and driving, and no one is asking for sympathy, but before you point fingers, look at what your sons, daughters, peers & family members are doing as well. Just because he was out at 11:30 p.m on a wednesday doesn't make his parents bad parents. Any 16 year old can have an excuse good enough to pass parent consent to be out at that hour, trust me, it's no talent. As for Kayla, I know she's not taking this situation lightly & doesn't find this ordeal a joke by any means. You also mention the fact that Joe attempted suicide and Renee left them; no marriage is perfect and I don't see you pointing fingers at any other marriage that has failed. Joe's attempted suicide is also the business of Joe & his family & has nothing to do with joe joe's accident. Lets try to keep the important things in perspective and that is joe joe. he's doing great, despite everyone on here's negativity. grow up please people, and joe joe stay strong baby keep up the good work.

[Jess]

GOD wrote:

Teen driver charged with DWI after crash.....lets through a pity party!
I could care less what the family has done or not done in the past. They have brought the problems with the law upon themselves. We all have heartache and difficult times its just that most families don't bring it upon themselves and then ask for sympathy. Its what you do about it when it happens that define who you are. Its obvious the parents are very selfish. The father tried to kill himself and the mother left him. Both very selfish acts for parents of three children. This kid has been on a crash course for the last 6 months.He has been drinking at his fathers house on a daily basis and whether any want to admit it or not, many of you already knew this. This kid put many lives at risk and to say he is lucky is an understatement. The only justice to this point is that he is the only one in the hospital. His parents are responsible for his actions until he is an adult. He is 16! He is drinking 7 nights a week. His father and Mother have failed him.16 years old driving at 11:30 PM, drinking a bottle of rum that someone had to purchase, drunk and doing 80 mph in a 25 mph zone with speed bumps is a death wish. If other kids don't learn from this then shame on them. As far as the stupid passenger that got in the car with this drunk kid, yes she thinks its a joke and she has made this quite clear to several other kids.
As far as perfect Uncle Frank.....well he who lives in glass houses should not through stones. I am sure you have your faults too. You mentioned how Renee left her son but failed to speak of dad trying to kill himself.....perhaps that is the only reason the boy stayed with his father to begin with, to prevent him from screwing it up the next time. Don't pick and choose your words, it makes the good things you attempt to say have less meaning.

How dare you give youself the name GOD.. You are far from it. Everything you said was mean and nasty and uncalled for. You sound like a vary angry individual who needs to get a life.

[JoeJoe uncle]

"amazing" THANK YOU!!

[Mother to Mother]

The kids uncle wrote:

Big Cheeze it first I don't know why the address is like that also. And the hospital has a computer that we can use and that is the one I use sometimes when I come out and them my home computer also so that maybe why the change of address. As for the BOOZE and where it came from I don't know and to be very honest if it did come from someone in my family (dad or whoever they need to find out and then the police need to get involved. I don't condone that at all.
Also to "mother to mother" I have to let you know something here. You said "wonder if when Joe Joe reads the blogs , how embarrassing it is that his uncle is making accusations against his mother, there's 2 sides to every story..." see you don't know JoeJoe (or our family and what he said to me about this situation. First you don't know us and I didn't make any accusations at all I just said what happen. JoeJoe said it also to many people. Also you are very right as to there are two sides to a story but if you were there when I had my nephew crying to me about what happen with his mother then you might be in a position to make a comment but again you are from the BRONX and you don't know our family and to be honest you didn't listen to both side of this story either to make comment so I would say with all the kindness that I have, read what you write first! You said I am a hypocrit you need to look in the mirror before you comment about anyone else. You also said that I aired my family dirty laundry but I have not said anything bad about my family. All these blogs are from other people and not me if you looked at the names.I have been nothing but truthful on here. I have commented on here when someone said something wrong about us but I just said what the truth was and that is all. So I understand people have their own views and that is fine but if you make your opionion on something is so far from the truth about my family or myself then YES I will tell the truth and if you still feel that way then fine. One last thing and I think I said a little before but I never blamed ANYONE for what choice JOEJOE made that night.I was looking more at myself as to what I could of done.******The only thing I did say was that kid had to deal with ALOT ( JoeJoe and his mother were very close and when she left him it was as if his world was crashing down.) and if the truth hurts you then I guess we will have to let it hurt you because it is the truth what I said. I have been very nice about this whole situation and I didn't say anything bad about anyone on here.

the point is that whether "TRUTH" or not, the mother already explained her son was under stress, and immediately following that you felt the need to stress only her as the problem ..as if she is not suffering herself already. BLAME -(My opinion) Would joe joe want the world to know this kids very personal details that are already emotionally painful ? even if they are true ? that's what therapist are for. As the uncle your blogs are the ones taken the most serious, and as a mother, yes It was cruel of you. TRUTH or not some things should stay between the family just like " amazing " said. Happy to hear the best news, Joe Joe is leaving the hospital ! What a relief ! Good LUCK JOE JOE !*** This blog is about JOEJOE and KAYLA and them getting better and for support for them.***GOD BLESS

[family]

Mother to Mother wrote:

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OK FRANK, I find this interesting, not only do YOU have ALL the answers to every post on here, and ask other people NOT TO JUDGE, but there is only two times you have mentioned Joe Joe's mother and that is to both blame, degrate & JUDGE her...while you are preaching to everyone else !! I have been praying for Joe Joe, Kayla and your family since this happened , as a mother I could not imagine this happpening to my child let alone being slandered online on top of it ??? You should be ashamed of yourself hypocrit , I wonder if when Joe Joe reads the blogs , how embarrassing it is that his uncle is making accusations against his mother, there's 2 sides to every story...I wonder why the mother had to leave the suicidal husband ?? fear ? mabey you should check out a domestic violence blog..I'm sure you have all the answers to that too. It is a discrace that you try to come accross that you want to use this situation to help teenagers, when you are actually just airing your families dirty laundry..I bet this would depress & embarrass a teenager SO WHO'S JUDGING WHO ?? LOOK AT YOURSELF..

k well first off i dont think you know my family at all if you are going to get your big mouth into it because my uncle was NOTHING but good to my aunt and the kids and dont even say its fear that she left him because there was A LOT of things that she did too. so go right on ahead and make your little comments but you look like the fool because you dont know anything that goes on with my family. so thanks for your input but im pretty sure you can stay out of it or if you are going to get into it you can find out ALL the facts. thanks xoxo

[family]

oh and by the way, id just like to add that my dad is letting everyone know how joe joe is doing and the fact that you are going to call him a hypocrit for what he says about my aunt is really funny in my opinion because he knows more than you know about anything that goes on, so why dont you try and split up another family like you've already done and stay away from mine hunny. thanks girl.

[Big Cheeze It]

Whoa Hold up i thought this was about the two People That almost were KILLED in a bad choice crash. Could we keep the blog to the topic.
Yea i know i may be full of it but its getting personal not to the topic of saving lives.

[JoeJoe uncle]

If you must say bad things about me on here to make yourself feel better or others that is fine because I have big shoulders and don't mine what people say about me. There is no reason that I need to justify what I say on here to you. You only heard one side of the story and let me tell you from someone who has talked to both that what you were told IS NOT the truth or even close. So come back up to see JoeJoe and we can talk and I will let you know what really happen with Renee and Joe sitting right there. One other thing is you said the mother already said that he was under a lot of stress but she had no problem (and you didn't as well) when said and you repeated what the dad did. Which had no point of what I put on there but I put what I did because others commented about him more and I said that with what JoeJoe and his mom went through is enough for any boy to lose it period. Not to mention all the other thigs but as a man I know how I felt towards my mom growing up and there is a totaly different relationship with my dad. So as I said before that this kid went through a very great deal of things and didn't make the right choice that night. Again I blame no one but JoeJoe for that choice at all. The kid made a mistake that night and yes I said a mistake to get behind the wheel. So your and my opionion doesn't mean a thing unless we get to these kids and stop them from making the same "wrong" choice.

Well enough of all this and to let you all know as I just was told and don't know to much but JoeJoe is out of the hospital and is now in REHAB thank God. I will let everyone know as soon as I found out how he is. Thanks for your support and God bless you all (even the blog name of god).

[JoeJoe uncle]

"Big Cheeze It" you are so right. It seems as people are coming at me and getting to far off topic. So I will not comment on here to keep it about JoeJoe and Kayla. I will just send in a comment as to how JoeJoe is doing and that is it. So please don't think I am rude if I don't reply back. Have a great and blessed day to all and thank you for all your support that you have shown toward my entire family. God bless you all and kids please read and see what this has done and don't make the same choice.

[Reality Bytes]

Great news Uncle!

I don't mean any disrespect by this, but do you think that it is in Joe Joes best legal interest to be posting so much information? No need to answer that.

Muenster cheese I can see all your points, however there is a presumption of innocence in this country and that includes Colonie. Innocent until proven guilty.

[Mother to Mother]

Big Cheeze It wrote:

Whoa Hold up i thought this was about the two People That almost were KILLED in a bad choice crash. Could we keep the blog to the topic.
Yea i know i may be full of it but its getting personal not to the topic of saving lives.

YES BIG CHEEZE IT THAT HAS BEEN THE POINT ALL ALONG....

[Mother to Mother]

The intent was not to offend this family, I apologize, Correct I do not know either side of the story other than the blogs, and thank you , but I don't want to know...my Intent was only that the topic was getting personal and for the childs best interest his personal problems should be kept private. No less I felt for a hurting Mom.
To "family" you obviously are a child, I am sorry if you misunderstood my comment, and I also never split up a family , nor intended on upsetting yours , some things should remain private.

[Michele]

Big Cheeze It wrote:

Whoa Hold up i thought this was about the two People That almost were KILLED in a bad choice crash. Could we keep the blog to the topic.
Yea i know i may be full of it but its getting personal not to the topic of saving lives.

Absolutly...and I dont see it as a pity party...yes the whole situation was WRONG...but if we as adults do not share information or even give a hoot...how the hell can we expect our kids to take this seriously? Everyone needs to step up to the plate here to at least try to make it not happen again. These kids were wrong, but lucky enough to survive and not kill anyone else. Time to take life seriously here.

[anyone23]

i think most of you are trying to get into this case. but really you shouldnt. the driver is in the hospital and suffering for a MISTAKE. he didnt do it on purpose. yeah he drove drunk but that doesnt give you the right to bash him about it. i actually know the driver. he is a good friend of mine and you guys dont know how amazing of a person he is. all your worried about is bringing up the past with his parents and bashing him about doing something wrong. he did not do this on purpose it was a mistake. but do you really think bashing him for this is really doing anyone any good? if you have something to say, call his parents or wait til he gets out. dont post a blog on here with a name thats real. not fake. but other then that, keep your opinions to yourself and stop bringing up the past.

[Big Cheeze It]

anyone23 wrote:

i think most of you are trying to get into this case. but really you shouldnt. the driver is in the hospital and suffering for a MISTAKE. he didnt do it on purpose. yeah he drove drunk but that doesnt give you the right to bash him about it. i actually know the driver. he is a good friend of mine and you guys dont know how amazing of a person he is. all your worried about is bringing up the past with his parents and bashing him about doing something wrong. he did not do this on purpose it was a mistake. but do you really think bashing him for this is really doing anyone any good? if you have something to say, call his parents or wait til he gets out. dont post a blog on here with a name thats real. not fake. but other then that, keep your opinions to yourself and stop bringing up the past.

First your friend did make two MISTAKES 1. Drinking under 21 , i know he was in his home. 2. HE MADE THE CHOICE to get behind the wheel of a 2-3 thousand pound guided missle and drive under the infulence of a DRUG(alcohol). He is a very lucky young ADULT and so was his passenger. Now don't get mad at me all im doing along with some others on this post is TRYING to get you young A D U L T S to make better choices. I could care less what his parents, uncle or any others in his family have done.Lets not forget that this ACCIDENT could have been avoided and all of this crap on the blog would not be here. Your friend (when he is back to full action) go to church and light a candle.,it might be a good idea for you and his friends thank him for this (as you call it ) accident to WAKE ALL OF THE YOUNG ADULTS to the fact that Inhaleing/drinking any thing other that soda or the semi fresh air is not in your best health. Im Done have a SAFE weekend.

[Big Dog Rick]

this guy is a scallywag.there are new dwi protocols being instated,he should do some jail time.bet he won't do it again.

[Michele]

anyone23 wrote:

i think most of you are trying to get into this case. but really you shouldnt. the driver is in the hospital and suffering for a MISTAKE. he didnt do it on purpose. yeah he drove drunk but that doesnt give you the right to bash him about it. i actually know the driver. he is a good friend of mine and you guys dont know how amazing of a person he is. all your worried about is bringing up the past with his parents and bashing him about doing something wrong. he did not do this on purpose it was a mistake. but do you really think bashing him for this is really doing anyone any good? if you have something to say, call his parents or wait til he gets out. dont post a blog on here with a name thats real. not fake. but other then that, keep your opinions to yourself and stop bringing up the past.

First off , none of us are "in this case" This is a blog for and about joe joe and kayla. And here is a reality...I dont know either of them but I do care about them. You can tell me its none of my business all day long...but if a kid is hurt by a poor choice (not a mistake) it is everyones business simply because this must STOP. You say your a friend...and i have heard joe joe is an awsome kid..so friend how would you feel if his outcome was NOT what it is now? Are you ready to deal with your friends funerals? If not, then spread the word...dont drink and drive! Praying for joe joe !!

[Michele]

Ok unc, I have seen nothing since thursday on how joe joe is doing..I am sitting here waiting for my kid to arrive home from prom and as i do i find myself thinking of joe joe and kayla. Prayers for both of them and all of the prom kids out there tonight...may they all arrive home safely.
Have a great Sunday !!