Parental Alienation Awareness in Trenton
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#1 Mar 22, 2012
IMPORTANT: April 25, 2012 Rally in Trenton, NJ
SAVE THE DATE:
WHO: YOU! We cant make this without YOU!
WHAT: Rally for International Parental Alienation Awareness Day
WHEN: Wednesday, April 25, 2012, 12:00pm-2:00pm
WHERE: In front of the Statehouse, 125 West State Street, Trenton, NJ
WHY: To increase Parental Alienation Awareness to the general public, the media, and our legislators. To dedicate this day for every individual that has been hurt by Parental Alienation, because IT IS REAL and IT IS ABUSE.
NEEDED: People to help organize, People to help spread the word to organizations and individuals, People willing to speak, and People to show up in droves.
If you are interested in getting on our mailing list, signing your organization on with the rally, or helping to organize the rally in any way please contact us directly: [email protected] .
More information will follow soon.
Parental Alienation Support & Advocacy NJ
#2 Mar 23, 2012
#3 Mar 23, 2012
PAS is the systematic denigration of one parent by the other with the intent of alienating the child against the other parent. The purpose of the alienation is usually to gain or retain custody without the involvement of the other parent.
Symptoms that the child exhibits include:
1.The child has a campaign of denigration against the alienated parent. The child has absurd or unrealistic complaints or accusations against the target parent. In essence, the child is looking for any negative to grasp onto and elevates each negative to the level of abuse.
2.The child shows no ambivalence in their animosity toward the target parent.
3.The child feels and believes that all of the emotion that is directed against the target parent is their own and that no one else had any influence on their feelings in this regard.
4.Reflexive support of the alienating parent. In any situation the alienating parent can do no wrong and any attempt or perceived attempt to refute or deny this is evidence that the target parent is victimizing the alienating parent.
5.The presence of borrowed scenarios. The use of what are obviously not the childs own experiences to bolster the negative image of the target parent, such as quoting experiences that the child was too young to remember or was not present for or that did not even occur. The extended family can also exhibit many of these symptoms as they become programmed by the alienating parent as well. Symptoms that the alienating parent can exhibit include the following:
6.Giving the child choices involving visitation when there are no real choices. The alienating parent may let the child believe that they have an active choice in whether or when they may visit the other parent when in fact the parent or courts have already decided on the visitation situation. The result is usually that the child blames the non-residential parent and that parent ends up victimized no matter what the outcome.
7.Telling the child everything about the divorce and custody situation under the guise of being honest with the child. This is destructive and painful for the child and the honest representation of the proceedings invariably favor the alienator and show the target parent as the aggressor.
8.Refusing to allow the child to transport belongings to the other parents residence.
9.Refusing or resisting allowing the target parent access to the childs school or medical records or schedules of extra-curricular activities
10. Blaming the target parent for the divorce, the alienating parents financial position, changes in lifestyle or lack of romantic life.
11. Refusing to be flexible with visitation.
12 .Forcing the child to choose between one parent and the other. Essentially asking the child to abandon the target parent.
13. Questioning whether or not to change the childs name or suggesting that a step-parent adopt the child.
14. Having secret or special signs with the child. Secret words or words with special meanings are very destructive and reinforce alienation.
15. Setting up temptations that interfere with the target parents visitation
16. Reacting with hurt or sadness at the childs having a good time with the target parent, as though the child has betrayed the alienating parent.
Asking the child about their other parents personal life. This can cause considerable tension and conflict within the child.Physically or psychologically rescuing the child when there is no threat to their safety, thereby reinforcing the alienation by portraying the other parent as a danger.
Not all child abuse leaves bruises. Parental Alienation thrives in an environment of incompetence, ignorance, apathy, and deceit. It can be defeated through education, increased awareness, and action.
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