Compromise and care and fairly share your communal property out there; even though, because of your hard work and good behavior, you need no government savior. You and your spouse should support your halfway house by letting anyone who boohoos move in with you! Yes, that is what you should do! Admit those inlaws and outlaws and siblings with your teenaged kids, not that hard, and give them all checks and credit cards! While dealing with their feelings, you can try and compromise and tell them that they have to stick to spending limits with debt ceilings! They will understand your plans and be your fans! Of course, half of your dependents will be drunks, punks, dropouts, drug addicts, baby daddies, baby mamas, undwed mothers and other bastard breeders and bottom feeders who always seem to be in need. It is judgmental to hatefully state that they made their own beds and say that you have to ration your compassion. You are just going to have to work harder and smarter, maybe doing two jobs to allow them to legally rob. Add a gun nut with their own media sluts who is on a mission to keep borrowing to buy more guns and ammunition, acting all tough and saying that you can never have enough. You and your spouse will soon think and feeeeeeelllll that you are supporting a nut house!