women creepin on the side when married?

women creepin on the side when married?

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riding solo

United States

#1 Apr 23, 2013
is it me or are all women just prone to screw guys from there work or they meet on Facebook when they are married and come home and tell their husband they love them? I've seen this happen quite frequently to too many of my friends whom are hood guys that there only downfall is they work to much to provide their wives with what ever it is they want..It kinda makes men like me never want to get married..do they subconsciously want us to treat them like whore's and after we had are fill tell them to kick rocks?
h8 th

Terre Haute, IN

#2 Apr 23, 2013
riding solo wrote:
is it me or are all women just prone to screw guys from there work or they meet on Facebook when they are married and come home and tell their husband they love them? I've seen this happen quite frequently to too many of my friends whom are hood guys that there only downfall is they work to much to provide their wives with what ever it is they want..It kinda makes men like me never want to get married..do they subconsciously want us to treat them like whore's and after we had are fill tell them to kick rocks?
honestly, ive learned its up to the guy to keep their girl from cheating. If she cheats, she is looking for SOMETHING he isn't giving her.
My problem in the past was feeling like I was OWED loyalty, that's just not how it works. Plain and simple, they're unhappy in their relationship, the right thing to do would be for them to split OR figure out what the problems in the relationship are if they wanna salvage it.. But most people aren't mature enough to handle something like that, requires honesty and a lot of hard conversations.

however, it sorta sucks when she keeps spending his paycheck while cheating.
Sad

Indianapolis, IN

#3 Apr 23, 2013
Sad but true what you are saying, but its not just the women cheating. From you view point Im sure that is what you see and hear the most. I being female have had the same stuff happen to me and many of my friends. My philosophy is if you dont want to be with someone, break it off then move on. Too many these days act like relationships are like disposables. Throw one out and reach for another. Dont let what many do keep you from your search to marry. I finally found mine after being cheated on, ripped off, and used. It can happen. Im proof. Have the best husband ever. Have never had to even wonder if he would cheat. Its a great feeling to be content and in a trusting relationship.
riding solo

United States

#4 Apr 23, 2013
hood = good...sorry typo
riding solo

United States

#5 Apr 23, 2013
its just sad to me that people do this to each other..I've seen good men and women put there everything into a relationship and ignore all the urges and temptations only to end up cheated on and heart broken to the point that they admit themselves to a mental hospital not because they are weak or dependant but because they invested everything into a relationship and feel they have nothing left to give anyone else..gone are they days of married couples celebrating their 50th anniversary..i mean i know even back then those people who were married 50+ years had the same problems but they worked through them cause they made a commitment but people now act like its lame or cheesy to do that...i think it takes more to be a man or woman to stay and work through your problems but today society tells us we are lame or a punk for staying..i don't believe that at all it takes a strong and better person to stay.
MoJo

Indianapolis, IN

#6 Apr 23, 2013
I have been marrird 30+ years, not because I have all the answers, but because I really love the man I married.
When one cheats, you can bet they both had alittle to do with it, its not one sided.
We have been through the cheating thing, and way past it.
Women confuse love with sex, and when you feel like the man your with, really dont care if he is with or without you, it makes you start to feel unwanted, believe me, a wedding ring dont scare off a hard on.
So, she gives it up to the man that seems interested in her, next thing ya know, shes in love, or a reasonable fax, married woman are trouble boys.
When a man feels like he is just a pay check, and the only thing he hears from the woman is bitch, Bitch, BITCH!....we need to talk!
You CAN make it through it, but now days, they dont want to take some time, and fix things, they just move along, its generational I guess.
riding solo

United States

#7 Apr 23, 2013
I've had my buddy confide in me and tell me his old lady told him after she cheated that she doesn't know what's wrong with herself..she told him she 100% still loves him and genuinely still finds him 100% attractive and that she loves how he treats her but that she gets these urges sometimes and finally just submitted to it after fighting it for so long..she also told him she has these urges every so often and she's a bad person and he doesn't deserve her? WTF do you say to that?

Since: Nov 12

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#8 Apr 23, 2013
Disposable relationships...quite a few out there.
I took a vow: for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health;and by doing so, one finds out the meaning of good days and bad days. My man and me don't have the same likes but we've learned to accept the differences in each other and respect follows. Life is what you make it to be.every outcome is governed by a chain of events orchestrated by each individual in a relationship. Keep the lines of communication open. Embrace your differences and trust in yourself. Remember that no one is perfect so don't expect it.
Anyone can go out any given day and find or have sex....it takes a man and a woman to settle down and make love ...
bacon eater

Terre Haute, IN

#9 Apr 23, 2013
riding solo wrote:
I've had my buddy confide in me and tell me his old lady told him after she cheated that she doesn't know what's wrong with herself..she told him she 100% still loves him and genuinely still finds him 100% attractive and that she loves how he treats her but that she gets these urges sometimes and finally just submitted to it after fighting it for so long..she also told him she has these urges every so often and she's a bad person and he doesn't deserve her? WTF do you say to that?
This is what is known as having your cake and eating it too. Dump that b!tch!
Animated

Terre Haute, IN

#10 Apr 26, 2013
My ex went nuts and started messing around with married men and men in long term relationships.. I guess she felt like they were choosing her. Of course they're all with their girls and she's alone now, but I know of at least 4 married guys who cheat on their wives..

women are better at getting their men back for messing up, lol, that girl destroyed me.
faithful now

United States

#11 Apr 26, 2013
I am female . I have had many boyfriends that I cheated on. And as I am older now and look b ack. I think I did because I knew he was doing the same to me I went on to find a good man where at first I figured it would be the same stuff. No trust him never being home. The lies and all that comes with that . Well I was wrong . He stays home. He is now retired so no work/flirts either. So we spend a lot of time together. I have never cheated on him and I think it is because I trust him. And in my heart I know that he loves me and he won't cheat on me because I told him that if he ever does I am leaving. I told him that I. Was willing to be 100 with him and be true and I have been. So far so good. It has worked and we are making wedding plans. I can say from looking back on past relationships that it don't seem as if any of my exs took the time to show me that I was important and that I was worthy enough. To be their only woman. This one has done that... and I am happy and I ain't going nowhere. I am in love. And as long as the no cheating rule is. In full force in our relationship then we will have a happy life together and a happy ending.
GuyHere

Terre Haute, IN

#12 Apr 26, 2013
faithful now wrote:
I am female . I have had many boyfriends that I cheated on. And as I am older now and look b ack. I think I did because I knew he was doing the same to me I went on to find a good man where at first I figured it would be the same stuff. No trust him never being home. The lies and all that comes with that . Well I was wrong . He stays home. He is now retired so no work/flirts either. So we spend a lot of time together. I have never cheated on him and I think it is because I trust him. And in my heart I know that he loves me and he won't cheat on me because I told him that if he ever does I am leaving. I told him that I. Was willing to be 100 with him and be true and I have been. So far so good. It has worked and we are making wedding plans. I can say from looking back on past relationships that it don't seem as if any of my exs took the time to show me that I was important and that I was worthy enough. To be their only woman. This one has done that... and I am happy and I ain't going nowhere. I am in love. And as long as the no cheating rule is. In full force in our relationship then we will have a happy life together and a happy ending.
Well Dear,the cheating hasn't begun yet.....wait till you are Married & then let us know how it's going! I never cheated on my GF soon as we Married I started cheating on her just because..no reason just excited me I guess!!
badgirl

Miami, FL

#13 Apr 27, 2013
I was cheated on...on and off for 15 yrs...and was faithful...the last 6 yrs I had secretly been sleeping with one other man...and fell deeply for him bcuz he gave me all the attention that my husband never did...but my husband never knew about untilled we seperated...and I slept with this man 1last time...then found I was pregnant...and it was the other mans...Men do it...women do it...its a given...if u aren't getting it at home...you will go elsewhere ....and may end up in a sticky situation like myself...

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