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A voice of reason

Irvine, CA

#168 Mar 30, 2007
-ooo- wrote:
<quoted text>
i think you should give the photos to cosibella or ela or even the police
Why is the world would you suggest giving the pictures to an 11 year old child, Ela?
ilovejasha

United States

#169 Mar 30, 2007
theres no way it was suicide, "Second Chance"...wtf, NO.. if you put 2 slits on your throat, think about this; 1 slit would not give you any strength at all the make one more, and if he used both hands, they would have found something, its not like he had time to stash a weapon before he left. jasha was a dear friend of mine, and he wouldn't do this to himself. xoxojasha. <3
ilovejasha

United States

#170 Mar 30, 2007
theres no way it was suicide, "Second Chance"...wtf, NO.. if you put 2 slits on your throat, think about this; 1 slit would not give you any strength at all the make one more, and if he used both hands, they would have found something, its not like he had time to stash a weapon before he left. jasha was a dear friend of mine, and he wouldn't do this to himself. xoxojasha. <3
LH MOM

Aliso Viejo, CA

#171 Mar 30, 2007
I meant "praying" not "preying" - sorry!:(
to Second Chance

United States

#172 Mar 30, 2007
shutup.
Anonymous

Aliso Viejo, CA

#173 Mar 30, 2007
RIP Jasha I love you!!!!!!!!!! have the most wonderful time in heaven! <3
friend of jasha

Laguna Beach, CA

#174 Mar 31, 2007
he commited suicide, i went to the memorial ceremony where they talked about what happened, it was suicide whether you want to believe it or not

i love you jasha <33

we will always remember you
From Aus - not in ashram

Wondai, Australia

#175 Mar 31, 2007
After learning of this forum only a couple of hours ago, and having now read the numerous accusations and speculations, my heart is deeply saddened.
Cosibella and Louix are, in my experience (without question), the most devoted, caring, and compassionate parents I have ever encountered. And as for Ela. PLEASE listen to her request. Anyone who truly knows her will also know, that the level of maturity she displays for girl of her age is very rare. Same goes for Jasha... Where did that big smile come from? I know that is not a product of an abusive household. Not possible!!! To the concerned parents, if you 'really' contemplated and sat with those facts until they sink in deeply, i'm sure they would instantly set your hearts at ease.
Please leave them to grieve. Cosibella is one of the wisest and strongest women I know and I have a lot of respect for her. She lives for her children. Beleive me, if she saw that it served their best interests to leave, she could and would.
Louix is a kind and good man.
They could not be in a better place.
Again, please leave them alone.
with love.
-ooo-

Melbourne, Australia

#176 Mar 31, 2007
please when you see ela can somone close to her please tell her Alyse sends her luv!!
RIP Jasha

Melbourne, Australia

#177 Mar 31, 2007
??? wat
A voice of reason

Irvine, CA

#178 Mar 31, 2007
Can anyone explain why Ela felt the need to tell people that Louix was molesting her brother? She now recants those accusations that she started LAST YEAR. Cosibela and Louix knew of the acusations. What did the parents do to disprove Ela's claims. She told meny people how much she and her brother hated Louix and that she had no respect for her mother's"weakness". Does Ela actually feel SAFE where she is? Look what happened to her brother. This is not a lynch mob, people are seriously concerned for her safety. How about why did Louix felt it was approriate, not to mention relevent, that Jasha was gay at the memorial service last night. Half the audience walked out when Louix got up to speak. Earth, Wind and Fire...give me a break.
Gee

Melbourne, Australia

#179 Mar 31, 2007
For the people wondering why this isnt in the media and wishing it was..why dont you stop and think for a second? Its a blessing that the media hasnt become involved because can you imagine how aweful it would be if you had lost YOUR brother,son and had cameras and journalists in your face asking you "Did you abuse your son?" "Do you think your brother was murdered or do you think he took his own life?" and having it flashed all over the news for everyone to see. I understand that this is a horrible incident and I am heart broken because Ive been friends with Jash since he was 5 and my brother was one of his best friends and our mums are best friends, but the most important thing is not for everyone to know exactly what happened down to the last detail and certainly not to encourage these rumours which a grieving family absalutely should not have to deal with. I will have you know that Jashas step dad was nothing but loving to jasha and treated him as his own flesh and blood. As terribly sad and hard to believe, and as much as it pains me to think that such a great kid would be dealing with so much that he could not continue, he was not murdered. I feel it is much more important to focus on jashas life and not his death. We need to remember all the great things he achieved and the beautiful person he is. I feel so blessed to have been a part of his life and I love and miss him so much. Rest in Peace beautiful boy. And all my love to all Jashas friends, family and everyone who were effected by this tragic loss.
I WANT THE TRUTH wrote:
I am tired of guessing and hearing rumors about what happened to Jasha. i want to hear the whole truth. I WANT MEDIA! the longer they put off putting this in the media the less likely they will ever do it. we all need to do something that will make the media look at this! I WANT ANSWERS!
Gee

Melbourne, Australia

#180 Mar 31, 2007
Beautifully said. I completely agree.
From Aus - not in ashram wrote:
After learning of this forum only a couple of hours ago, and having now read the numerous accusations and speculations, my heart is deeply saddened.
Cosibella and Louix are, in my experience (without question), the most devoted, caring, and compassionate parents I have ever encountered. And as for Ela. PLEASE listen to her request. Anyone who truly knows her will also know, that the level of maturity she displays for girl of her age is very rare. Same goes for Jasha... Where did that big smile come from? I know that is not a product of an abusive household. Not possible!!! To the concerned parents, if you 'really' contemplated and sat with those facts until they sink in deeply, i'm sure they would instantly set your hearts at ease.
Please leave them to grieve. Cosibella is one of the wisest and strongest women I know and I have a lot of respect for her. She lives for her children. Beleive me, if she saw that it served their best interests to leave, she could and would.
Louix is a kind and good man.
They could not be in a better place.
Again, please leave them alone.
with love.
Extremely concerned

Laguna Hills, CA

#181 Mar 31, 2007
I was at the memorial last night too and I walked in while Louix was talking about Jasha being gay. Everybody was gasping, shaking their heads, and saying, "This is bullshit." They were walking out, his friends were all looking around at each other like, "What the hell?" People were genuinely pissed. And Louix? If you're reading this, they weren't ticked off because you announced that Jasha was gay. They loved their friend and would still love him and support him no matter what. They were ticked off because of the tasteless way you got up there and started talking about how "buddy buddy" you two were the night before he died. You were clearing your own slate and everybody in that room knew that.

You took the focus off of Jasha's life and turned it into a mockery of him. You should have been celebrating his life when all you were doing was talking a load of bullshit. The biggest clue to me that is was a bunch of crap were his friends walking to the back, crying and pissed off. At you. Not at Jasha. If Cosibella hadn't gotten up to speak so quickly after you, they would have gone up and denounced your lies.

Whether Jasha was gay or not, it didn't have to be mentioned like that in front of all those people. Louix should have taken his closest friends aside a day or two before the memorial. But he didn't. He put this private, sensitive matter (true or not true) out in front of all those people in the most insensitive way.

That memorial was the weirdest I've ever been too. Everybody had such good things to say about Jasha and about his life. His mother and sister were heartbroken. Everybody cried. But Louix just got up there and spoke in the same monotone voice, unaffected.

Whether Jasha killed himself or not is irrelevant. That man is a creep. He probably came on here and read all the things that were being said about him and felt the need to make crystal clear that he had nothing to do with Jasha's death. I have an extremely hard time believing that Jasha wouldn't have gone to his dearest friends to tell them he was gay. Why would he go to a stepfather he didn't get along with? That's my point exactly. He would have told his friends. From everything I've heard, one thing is clear: Jasha didn't like his stepfather.

R.I.P., Jasha. I know you're looking down on all this and shaking your head. You were loved, Jasha, and I'm sure that the truth WILL come out.
jazza

Melbourne, Australia

#182 Mar 31, 2007
All you people saying all these horibble things about Jasha and his family that you didnt even know is just cruel.
what his family are going throungh now would be so hard and all the things that everyone is saying would make it even worse. Jasha and all his family were beautiful people, and it is so sad that this happened to such special person, but posting rumours isnt going to make things better!!
If Jasha was here he would probably be so angry at everyone making things up and not supporting his family, the people he loved...
so for his family and all his frineds sake, people that are posting horrible things, just stop!
PLEASE

IF THIS WAS SOMEONE YOU LOVED, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?
God has a new angel

Aliso Viejo, CA

#184 Mar 31, 2007
May Jasha rest in peace. My condolences to the family and friends who lost such a special person in their lives.
I can't help but say it was almost as though I was watching a performance last night. I am not sure how anyone could not release a single tear while standing there talking about a boy who "was loved as his own son." There wasn't a dry eye in the place except for the one person some speculate to have had something to do with this.
I see these postings from all walks of life here. People speculating, guessing and some who really think they know what happened. Let's face it, mystery is intriguing to us. It's human nature to be interested and want to know. For those who were truly close to Jasha would know him best as we tend to tell our secrets to those who surround us every day(geographically as well). An adult who has had a relationship with a child doesn't necessarily 'know' the child inside and out. And let me tell you... people can be different outside the home when surrounded by people. Put on a good 'front' so to speak for the mere sake of looking good. But that doesn't mean that is who they are at home. I'm not making accusations here, I'm just saying it's not completely unheard of.
People keep writing, "Just leave them alone and let the family grieve." No one here is trying to hurt the family, they are here to question and discuss. There is nothing wrong in people coming together to talk about how they feel or offer up their oppinions. It's what forums such as these are for. If anyone is offended by these then do not keep coming back to read them.
When it comes down to it, God knows what happened and Jasha is with his earthly and heavenly father now. May this beautiful boy rest in peace.
Common Sense

United States

#186 Mar 31, 2007
I attended the memorial for Jasha and was appaulded at the circus that took place. For the man to get up in front of all and tell HIS story of why Jasha is no longer here was nothing more than showman ship on his part. Whether what the stepfather said was true or not it doesn't matter as that had nothing to do with the life of this young person, who was loved by so many. It should have been a celebation of Jasha's life and not a circus side show.
someone else

Aliso Viejo, CA

#187 Mar 31, 2007
Amen, Concern!

Since: Mar 07

Victoria, Canada

#188 Mar 31, 2007
Finally the truth is coming out!!!!!! Everyone has good chunk of it. Thank you for this space to share it however painful the reality of it may be. We all need to share everything we know now. Yesterday I finally knew it in my heart that Louix has been sexually abusing Jasha. The reality of that fact felt like a knife in my heart. Everything started to fit. Louix is a self confessed sex addict from days ago and he in fact is gay! He said to me that when he took Cosibella to be his wife, "now the tongues will stop wagging"! He wanted to make himself respectable so he could carry out his charade.
How could he tell his followers that Jasha died for them and they should feel blessed and grateful?!! Again I will say this is SICK! All of his 'disciples' need to understand the implications of accepting Louix's dictum. This is a serious criminal offence. Talk about bad karma. Also another thing that needs to be looked at is the way he has brought over people from Australia and Canada to 'serve' him at his home for up to a year at a time. This they must do without pay from morning until night. They must look after the children and cook and clean his home. Yes, all for no pay. He claims he is 'sourcing' them. Another thing is everyone is made to tithe him 10% or more of their monthly gross income. All so he can 'source' them. Wake up people!!!! He is deceiving you and you are blind. All those that have been afraid to speak must start speaking up now. You owe it to Jasha's memory. Did Jasha take his own life or did someone kill him to hush him up? We all need to come up with clear evidence to present to the police.
unknown

San Clemente, CA

#189 Mar 31, 2007
i agree! luix is a JERK and he should not be in the same house with his two other kids! it is a bad place to live, especially when luixs followers also live there. i know ela and she seems like a really nice and happy girl but there might be something hiding in the background that we dont know yet, ela and her brother were really close and i dont believe jasha did this to himself! but we never know...

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