I feel used and abused

I feel used and abused

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JCW

Pompano Beach, FL

#1 Jan 20, 2013
I am a 19 y/o black young adult. Recently got a woman pregnant, african american, a little younger than me. She gave birth about 6 months ago and I have yet to see the child. The mother told me right after she got pregnant that she just wanted to have a baby to ensure for welfare. On the childs birth certificate, the father is listed as unknown. This way the govt will act as the "father" and always ensure the welfare checks coming. She says her mom put her up to this and thats what most of us do to keep the welfare rolling in. So now technically I'm a deadbeat dad but I want to be part of the kids life but not allowed to see the child. Help
JJFLORIDA

AOL

#2 Jan 21, 2013
Taker Her On The Maury Povich Show For A DNA Test And Call The Welfare Dept And Let Them Know That Your The Father:):)

Get Your Child Off Welfare, Be The Childs Dad, And Do Whats Right
Jerry Springer

Altamonte Springs, FL

#3 Jan 24, 2013
JCW wrote:
I am a 19 y/o black young adult. Recently got a woman pregnant, african american, a little younger than me. She gave birth about 6 months ago and I have yet to see the child. The mother told me right after she got pregnant that she just wanted to have a baby to ensure for welfare. On the childs birth certificate, the father is listed as unknown. This way the govt will act as the "father" and always ensure the welfare checks coming. She says her mom put her up to this and thats what most of us do to keep the welfare rolling in. So now technically I'm a deadbeat dad but I want to be part of the kids life but not allowed to see the child. Help
Man up and marry the woman.

Age has nothing to do with it, you were man enough to roll in sack and now you've created a life. Instead of this 'I wanna be part of the kids life' crap, do the right thing and be a parent...not just a father.

Or is that too much of a committment for you?

Since: Mar 13

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#4 Mar 4, 2013
Keep ur head up bro

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