why do people cheat when they are hap...

why do people cheat when they are happy at home

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curious

Oneida, TN

#1 Mar 18, 2011
just wondering why people still cheat when they are happy with the person they are with. maybe they just like to get some strange every once in awhile or maybe they get bored sexually with their partner and need a change.
wondering

Oneida, TN

#2 Mar 18, 2011
well, i dont know , but what i was wondering is why a man that is in his forties says he is already loosing his sex drive. he loves the sex when he gets it, but thats the problem , he only wants it like once a week or maybe once every two weeks. the woman is the same age and she wants it all the time. whats up with that? i thought most men wanted it all the time. i personally dont know how a man can lay in the bed with a woman night after night for a week at a time and can say he never gets horny, especially when the woman he is having sex with is really great in bed and he says she is great in bed, but he just doesnt want it that much. do men really go through the change and quit wanting sex as much just like a woman does when she goes through the change. that doesnt happen for a woman until she is in her fifties. go figure. guess some women just like sex more than some men.
duh

Columbia, SC

#3 Mar 19, 2011
Because they are not really happy. If my husband doesn't kick it in gear, I am leaving in July. Never even gives me a second glance, no sex in over a year.
Slipstream

Lancing, TN

#4 Mar 19, 2011
Well, I agree with Duh. If they were happy they wouldn't be cheating would they...unless they have an addiction. The problem is..we are living longer and the "til death do us part" crap doesn't fit the times. A marriage license ought to be good for a period of time then renewed.

And finally, women hear this - if your man doesn't get it at home, he WILL get it somewhere. So if you don't like sex, in any of its many forms, learn to or learn to be single! Is it realy so hard to enjoy ALL of your man? There is nothing you can do together that God doesn't approve of so ENJOY him! ALL of him! And be happily married or........
haha

Charlotte, NC

#6 Mar 19, 2011
Anyone that cheats isn't really happy at home!
curious

Oneida, TN

#7 Mar 21, 2011
the same is for a woman too, if shes not getting it at home she will get it somewhere the same as a man will. she has her needs just the same as men do. although, i do know that some people just cheat because its in there nature. it doesnt matter how much they get it at home, they just like th cheat. i dont know if its the thrill of doing it to see if they can get by with it or what but it does happen. all im saying is it doesnt necessarily matter if youre getting it at home or not, people will still cheat.
haha

Clover, SC

#8 Mar 21, 2011
curious wrote:
the same is for a woman too, if shes not getting it at home she will get it somewhere the same as a man will. she has her needs just the same as men do. although, i do know that some people just cheat because its in there nature. it doesnt matter how much they get it at home, they just like th cheat. i dont know if its the thrill of doing it to see if they can get by with it or what but it does happen. all im saying is it doesnt necessarily matter if youre getting it at home or not, people will still cheat.
TOTALLY AGREE!!!
curious

Oneida, TN

#9 Mar 24, 2011
i think that sex between a couple should be 50/50. what i mean by that is a woman should give in to her man at times when she doesnt really want to to satisfy his needs to keep him happy and a man should give in to his woman even if he doesnt want to from time to time to satisfy her needs and keep her happy. some men think that sex should only happen if they want it, so in other words if hes not in the mood and his girl is she still dont get it. thats not right idont think. especially if its been like a week or so and they havent had sex, even if hes not in the mood and his girl is he should give in to her anyway to satisfy her. thats why people do cheat sometime because their partner is not giving them enough sex, even if their sex life is great they dont get it from their partner enough. sex doesnt totally make the relationship but i think it plays a big role in a relationship. just my opinion though.i realize that for a man who works late hrs he does come in from work tired and if his girl doesnt work she may be in the mood for it more than he is, but it wouldnt hurt him to give in to her at least once a week, especially if she is keeping h is house clean and has a big meal on the table for him every night, why would it hurt him to return the favor, then save the rest of the sex for the weekend when hes not working.
Snarky

Wartburg, TN

#10 Mar 26, 2011
You should never have sex when you don't want to! If you don't want to have sex with your partner then something is wrong and you need to have s serious conversation with yourself. It may be time to negotiate an open relationship.
wonderin

Wartburg, TN

#11 Mar 27, 2011
what i would like to know is why a man gets off within like ten of fifteen seconds. the only way to make the sex last is to have some foreplay, then if he does that he cant keep it hard. it doesnt matter if he gets sex every night he still gets off in a matter of a few seconds. i myself believe size matters, but if the man is big its not really worth it if he only last a few seconds.
wonderin

Wartburg, TN

#12 Mar 27, 2011
in situations like this there is no wonder the woman gets it elsewhere. i dont blame her if her man cant last any longer than that. its not worth taking your clothes for ten or fifteen seconds. about the time a woman is getting started its already over.
wonderin

Wartburg, TN

#13 Mar 27, 2011
i know men in their sixties that can last longer than my man can and my man is only in his early forties.
stars

United States

#14 Apr 17, 2011
haha wrote:
Anyone that cheats isn't really happy at home!
I agree with you they must NOT be happy
sally950610

United States

#15 Dec 6, 2011
Well in my case, my husband is an alcoholic. And when he drinks he gets depressed and down on life. NOTHING makes him happy then. So he finds desperate pathetic creatures like Amanda Jones and Darcy Colby to abandon his family for because he thinks it will make him happy. But he always crawls back to where he knows he has it made. Now when he's sober, white trash like that couldn't turn his head for a second.
Conniedl

Oneida, TN

#16 Dec 6, 2011
Like my situation, my husband called me on the phone to tell me he wasn't coming home, moved in with some woman name Roetta West said he was in love but yet last week he was texting and calling me begging to come home, said she had to much "baggage" a daughter that was a B______ and he wasn't happy, but when I refused to let him come back his whole story changed, heck he was even texting me sex talk what he would do to me and how. Now explain that. He said he wasn't happy and made a mistake. Most men think with the wrong head LOL and when it doesn't work out they want to run back to the wife, well this is one wife that won't budge and even though our kids are grown, I am disabled [heart] and I am entilted to get up to 50% of his SS and I can get it now. My sons don't want anything to do with their dad, so he has lost his kids to. Hope the slutty pig is worth it all. My life goes on, the crying is over and I'm ready to move on!!
Conniedl

Oneida, TN

#17 Dec 13, 2011
because they are selfish!!!!!
Jtb

Vandergrift, PA

#18 Aug 4, 2013
He's sleeping with someone else. That's why...
Player

United States

#20 Sep 19, 2013
Men reach their sexual peak in their teen years and women hit it in their forties!! Go figure!!

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