Who else had a bisexual wife?

Who else had a bisexual wife?

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Hank

Lady Lake, FL

#1 Jul 28, 2014
My wife was a virgin when we married. After about 5 years she invited her girlfriend to have sex with me and then joined us afterwards. We had all been naked together when skinny dipping and very close to her for a long time that predated our marriage. After we were done, my wife entered the bedroom and I asked her to join us. She did and that is when I found out that she really likes women a lot. It was her first time with a female but not her girlfriend's.

Afterwards we talked privately and my wife told me that she only fantasizes about women but does not want to have sex with them without me present. For the next 38 years we had sex as a threesome. The ladies never had sex without me in the room, if only to just watch the show they liked to put on for me. My wife also liked to watch me with her g/f and her g/f liked to watch me with my wife. You get the pictures. We all satisfied each other's sexual needs.

Eventually our g/f had her own room in our home which she used part time. She even got married halfway through our relationship after first finding a guy who was OK with her relationship with us. We never knew why and our g/f would not say as she wanted to keep the two relationships separate. We never were invited to their home but her husband did visit us to check us out. He allowed his last wife to see other men and she ran off with one. He was happy with our arrangement because he felt safer.

We made it work for us. No jealousy or problems the whole time. I read posts by guys who are OK with their bisexual wives having sex with other women but do not want to watch or take part in it. I will never understand that. Other guys consider it cheating. For us it was just our normal life and only after it ended did we view it differently. My wife never even thought about if she was bisexual or not because the way she is, is the only way she knows to be. Gender does not matter to her, just the person. I remained her only man and her g/f, her only female.

Anyone else with a bisexual wife? When did you/her know? How did you handle it?
Dude

Ocala, FL

#2 Aug 27, 2014
Interesting lifestyle. Where are you now ? Are you still married ? Why did the g/f leave after 38 years ? You could write a book. This is good stuff. I wish I was so lucky. Good for you.
Hank

Lady Lake, FL

#3 Aug 28, 2014
Dude wrote:
Interesting lifestyle. Where are you now ? Are you still married ? Why did the g/f leave after 38 years ? You could write a book. This is good stuff. I wish I was so lucky. Good for you.
Many people tell me that I should write a book and they have no idea of my sex life. My personal and professional life was filled with a lot of interesting stuff.

We are in TV, and still married after 4 decades. Our g/f and her husband were supposed to move with us and had a down payment on a house in TV. However, they lost most of their money in the last recession because of one or two of those companies who scammed the public. They had to both come out of retirement and go back to work. Their professional licenses are only good for NY so they are stuck up there. It is a shame. Her husband sold his practice for a large chunk of money and retired but he was a gambler who thought that he was smarter than Wall Street. We talk to our girlfriend by phone often and she has visited us once. Who knows what will happen in the future.
kat

Van Nuys, CA

#4 Sep 13, 2014
Hank wrote:
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Many people tell me that I should write a book and they have no idea of my sex life. My personal and professional life was filled with a lot of interesting stuff.
We are in TV, and still married after 4 decades. Our g/f and her husband were supposed to move with us and had a down payment on a house in TV. However, they lost most of their money in the last recession because of one or two of those companies who scammed the public. They had to both come out of retirement and go back to work. Their professional licenses are only good for NY so they are stuck up there. It is a shame. Her husband sold his practice for a large chunk of money and retired but he was a gambler who thought that he was smarter than Wall Street. We talk to our girlfriend by phone often and she has visited us once. Who knows what will happen in the future.
I'm Available =)
Dude

Ocala, FL

#5 Sep 25, 2014
kat wrote:
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I'm Available =)
What's the matter fatkat, you can't get a date in LA ?
I'll never understand why people from half way across the world, post on a Villages, fl website.
Ben

Kabul, Afghanistan

#6 Oct 5, 2014
Recently found out my wife is bi, she doesn't know that I know. Saw some texts on her phone from other females. Wasn't sure if she'd done anything till I found a strap on in her closet. I find it hot that she likes women but wish she would at least tell me about it. Any of you ladies out there wanna chat. Maybe you've done this or are doing it?
Dude

Ocala, FL

#7 Oct 20, 2014
Ben wrote:
Recently found out my wife is bi, she doesn't know that I know. Saw some texts on her phone from other females. Wasn't sure if she'd done anything till I found a strap on in her closet. I find it hot that she likes women but wish she would at least tell me about it. Any of you ladies out there wanna chat. Maybe you've done this or are doing it?
Ben, you have the PERFECT opportunity...don't blow it. you already HAVE a HOT woman. WHY oh WHY are you asking OTHER women to talk. TALK TO YOUR WIFE and let us know how it turns out.
good luck.
Airlinegirl

Portland, OR

#8 Feb 9, 2015
I have a few girlfiends that I love to have sex with. My husband doesn't mind as long as I can take care of him as well. Bisexuality is a great thing and should be encouraged.
werd

Orlando, FL

#9 Feb 10, 2015
pretty weord.
bigdawg

United States

#10 Apr 30, 2015
I just found out that my girlfriend has been carrying on a lesbian relationship for months. I asked her do she consider herself a lesbian, bi, or straight? She said, "straight ". How? But, we working through it at the moment.
ChocolatePuzzy

Silver Spring, MD

#13 Oct 8, 2015
I'm a straight female, and was married to a bisexual man for fifteen years. He died, having colon cancer two years ago. I know this is about bisexual females. However, I wanted to share my experience, as a straight wife married to a bisexual husband. I met him in CA, as I put myself through my undergraduate years in the Armed Forces. I met him through my friend. He was in his first year of medical school as I was finishing up my senior year of college, as well as my last year of my term with the Armed Forces. My husband was very manly, and played sports a lot. Well, needless to say, we hit it off, and a romance sparked. The sex was amazing. Then, after we got serious, he asked me not to move back to Boston after I graduater and finished my time with the Armed Forces. He also told me that he was bisexual, and understood if I didn't want to be with him. That felt weird, at first, because most guys I knew back home that were bisexual never admitted to it. You just caught them in "the act." But, after I thought about it, I realized I loved him, regardless of his preference. After we married, we explored our fantasies together. It was amazing, because I loved him and he loved me. The hardest thing for me was when he was diagnosed with cancer, and that it was terminal. I wish I had a keepsake, instead of memories. But, I had to be strong, for my son, as he was only 11 when his father passed. The point I'm making is this: if you and your significant other want threesomes, or if your significant other is bisexual, there is nothing wrong with it, as long as you can communicate with each other about it. A man can boast about being with a bisexual female, but women cannot boast about being with a bisexual male. Double Standards.
Magic7

Santa Barbara, CA

#15 Jan 19, 2016
My X left me to experiment with women. We reconnected over ten years later and developed a femdom relationship where I became her slave. We both regretted not doing this from the beginning. She had her ladies secretly and dominated me on a 24/7 basis in every imaginable way experimenting in many nasty kinks!
Brownwood Bob

Ocala, FL

#16 Jan 24, 2016
You have to be discreet living in the villages though. Now that my wife's female friend and I are living under the same roof I have a hard time keeping my happiness in check. Our sex lives have been great. Loving on two women can be draining but so satisfying.
Village Monkey

Ocala, FL

#17 Jan 26, 2016
You lucky dog. You'd better not screw that up. Keep them both happy. Are they both chubby by any chance? Just curious.
Brownwood Bob

Ocala, FL

#18 Jan 26, 2016
Village Monkey wrote:
You lucky dog. You'd better not screw that up. Keep them both happy. Are they both chubby by any chance? Just curious.
That, I truly am. Actually both do have meat on their bones and wifey is 62. Our roomie is 52. Since neither can conceive saying my balls are drained is putting it lightly. Hey. I'm not complaining and they are both smiling as well!
Sandy

Lady Lake, FL

#19 Jan 30, 2016
Realy
Brownwood Bob

Ocala, FL

#20 Jan 31, 2016
Sandy wrote:
Realy
Yes, Really. I do get my rest tho.
Sid

Queensbury, NY

#21 Feb 4, 2016
I have a bi sexual wife. My wife would prefer to be with her girlfriend then with me. I'm okay with it. I much prefer the satisfaction of masturbating as opposed to trying to turn her on. I openly masturbate in front of her and she's okay with it. We haven't had intercourse in 9 years. I Happy that my wife has found satisfaction. Recently I've become bicurious. I too want to explore my sexuality to the fullest.
Village Monkey

Ocala, FL

#22 Feb 5, 2016
Sid wrote:
I have a bi sexual wife. My wife would prefer to be with her girlfriend then with me. I'm okay with it. I much prefer the satisfaction of masturbating as opposed to trying to turn her on. I openly masturbate in front of her and she's okay with it. We haven't had intercourse in 9 years. I Happy that my wife has found satisfaction. Recently I've become bicurious. I too want to explore my sexuality to the fullest.
You are another lucky dog. I'm hoping you masturbate while watching them two play. I know I would at least.
Sid

Queensbury, NY

#23 Feb 8, 2016
My wife is bi. Women tend to be that way anyway. My wife came our to me about it. It started as just friends having coffee. Then a little hugging then touching . Some how it satisfies an emotional need. My wife asked me if she could spend the weekend with her friend. I said okay. They went somewhere together and fell in love. My wife said that she would stay with me as long as she can have Carol as a lover. Now she wants her to move in with us and that she and Carol will share. A bedroom. Wow I don't feel that I have a choice. I love her and will accept her on any terms.

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