Kellyville Woman Killed In Highway 66 Accident

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A Kellyville woman was killed at about 7:18 p.m. Thursday on State Highway 66 near Bristow, according to a report from the Oklahoma Highway Patrol.
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Lovin Tulsa

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Nov 6, 2009
 
This is a very sad story, especially since no one mentions the family that Bobbie leaves behind! Details on this accident will likely show driver inattention...so why was he treated and released and not taken to jail? Sounds like vehicular homicide to this viewer...
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Bobbie's children and her loving companion are in our prayers. Accidents are called that for a reason and it's not our place to judge when we were not there to know the details of what might or might not have been.
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I know the kids that are left behind, wonderful kids that will need alot of prayer and alot of love and hugs.
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Bobbie was my sister. She was a very loving mother and leaves behind 7 children, 5 of which are with a wonderful lady and the other 2 are with there father. And this should be vehicular homicide. Please keep her children in your prayers. I'm going to miss my sister more than words can say. I love you Bobbie and god speed.
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they did not mention all the story....prayers are with the children and All the family members
Lovin Tulsa

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Caring Sister wrote:
Bobbie's children and her loving companion are in our prayers. Accidents are called that for a reason and it's not our place to judge when we were not there to know the details of what might or might not have been.
Appears you are Pat's Loving sister not Bobbie's, isn't that correct? How do you drive into oncoming traffic and not get cited or arrested, breathalyzed or something. Yes we all need prayers, but 'loving companion"...come on now. Go ask those children how they feel about the man that killed their mother...and what he made their home life like...and why they are scared to death of him! Yes,we will pray for 'him' too...that justice is done and he sees some jail time-and gets some rehabilitation and counseling there. He left 5 children motherless! Yes I am angry...this should NEVER have been allowed to happen...and if you know this family like I did...well, I will pray I can eventually forgive what 'his' family allowed to go on for so long! And your family will be in my prayers for being part of the problem instead of the solution!
Lovin Tulsa

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bike4life wrote:
Bobbie was my sister. She was a very loving mother and leaves behind 7 children, 5 of which are with a wonderful lady and the other 2 are with there father. And this should be vehicular homicide. Please keep her children in your prayers. I'm going to miss my sister more than words can say. I love you Bobbie and god speed.
I am so sorry that this happened! Believe all our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family! Anyone who knew Bobbie, like I did, knows she was a wonderful person, a great parent and friends were doing their best to help her out of this domestic situation. Call us in Tulsa or Oologah if we can help in anyway! We loved her and are praying for the best for her children!
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Lots of prayers go out to the families involved in this horrible tragic accident. Especially to Shayne Fairres (13) who is in stable but critical condition in St. Francis Hospital. She has had to have emergency surgery on her colon, small intestines and appendix. Grace Fairres was sent home after being treated for minor cuts,scraps and brusises. The girls father is also in St. Francis Hospital with 2 crushed feet and a broken collar bone. Because of Mr. Hedge's drinking and driving, these families have been changed for life. Everyone's Prayer's be with this family.
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After reading this article it makes it look like Mr. Hedge's vehicle was struck by the vehicle driven by Jamie Ray. That is not what happened. Mr. Hedge was drunk and hit the vehicle driven by Jamie Ray HEAD ON. Drunk Driver's need to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Accidents like this should never happen. Mr. Hedge needs to be put away for life.
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WOW - I am absolutely amazed by the hatred of people that pray and judge. I personally would not want prayers of any one filled with such rage. If a vehicle is hit on the passenger side, please explain to me how it is a 'Head On' collision. I will be praying for each individual and their families that were involved in this accident. In addition, please know that I will also pray for the judgmental people making comments. There are always 3 sides to every story - their side, our side and the one that really happened. God Bless!
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Anyone and everyone with any common sense knows that drinking and driving DO NOT MIX! PERIOD! It has nothing to do with "judging"... When you put other lives in danger by doing what too many have done on that same road...ending in the same way... how can you even say a negative word to the people that are concerned, upset and hurt by the actions of ONE man! One man who decided on that day he wanted to drive drunk!
Lovin Tulsa

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Concerned Citizen wrote:
WOW - I am absolutely amazed by the hatred of people that pray and judge. I personally would not want prayers of any one filled with such rage. If a vehicle is hit on the passenger side, please explain to me how it is a 'Head On' collision. I will be praying for each individual and their families that were involved in this accident. In addition, please know that I will also pray for the judgmental people making comments. There are always 3 sides to every story - their side, our side and the one that really happened. God Bless!
Why do I pray and have righteous indignation at the same time? DUI Vehicular Manslaughter makes GOD upset too! I knew this woman and she/her family did not deserve this. The obviously drunk (and on drugs as well) driver was released from the hospital and walked free to do this again, and again, and again. Creek County officers have much to learn from Tulsa officers!

If it was your sister would you not feel 'rage'...well she was my sister in Christ and sorrow and woe are not to be brushed aside. I personally am glad that GOD hears ALL prayers and not just the ones whose opinion HE happens to agree/disagree with. I Will take any and all prayers offered, but would ask instead you pray for these children to be given peace and healing - the driver is convicted and put away for LIFE - and that all people everywhere feel free to pray for anyone at anytime!! Have a very blessed day...Christians and all others!
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How can anyone say what happend that evening as the couple where on there way home... I bet if the children were really asked about there mother and pat (which was bobbies lover for 8 plus months) with out other family members around i bet stories would be different. Pat took this women and children in and loved them all he could! He protected them all from an ex husband by the name of V. Lee wallace. Who bobbie told was very abusive and thats why here children had speech problems and she was soo scared of him. Pat moved (what he considered his family to give them a home due to the reposestion of the trailer they were living in when pat met her. Bobbie and pat came over to my home several times for cook outs with the 5 children and all were very happy. I also visited there home to. This was a freak accident that no one knows except the 2 in the vehicle. Pat was tested for drugs and alcohole @ hospital. There was nothing there to charge him with. I knew both parties, and will be praying for all. Bobbie did state to me that she was not close to her family, that she talked to a sister that was in a abusive marriage every now and then. You all making these accusations need to ask god for forgivness and think of everything that bobbie and kids had allready gone through and be thankfull she lived as long as she did. I know they loved one another and had spoke on getting married. Bobbie rest in peace, i am so sorry that there is a battle over this when i know you would and did not want a battle. Pat loves you and your children and always will. There will never be a day that goes by that he wont think of you and you children. God bless you all!!!
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How can anyone say what happend that evening as the couple where on there way home... I bet if the children were really asked about there mother and pat (which was bobbies lover for 8 plus months) with out other family members around i bet stories would be different. Pat took this women and children in and loved them all he could! He protected them all from an ex husband by the name of V. Lee wallace. Who bobbie told was very abusive and thats why here children had speech problems and she was soo scared of him. Pat moved (what he considered his family to give them a home due to the reposestion of the trailer they were living in when pat met her. Bobbie and pat came over to my home several times for cook outs with the 5 children and all were very happy. I also visited there home to. This was a freak accident that no one knows except the 2 in the vehicle. Pat was tested for drugs and alcohole @ hospital. There was nothing there to charge him with. I knew both parties, and will be praying for all. Bobbie did state to me that she was not close to her family, that she talked to a sister that was in a abusive marriage every now and then. You all making these accusations need to ask god for forgivness and think of everything that bobbie and kids had allready gone through and be thankfull she lived as long as she did. I know they loved one another and had spoke on getting married. Bobbie rest in peace, i am so sorry that there is a battle over this when i know you would and did not want a battle. Pat loves you and your children and always will. There will never be a day that goes by that he wont think of you and you children. God bless you all!!!
So I 'Guess all 5 of the children at home are lying'? To the police and DHS? What about the reports of domestic violence filed against Pat? How many times did he come home drunk/doped out of his head to start a fight with Bobbie? Why was Bobbie looking for a new home to get her family away from him? How many broken windows, fist and boot holes are in the trailer now, and why was she calling her friends to get her out? Why did he take her keys away and push her vehicle back into the drive with his truck (that she bought and paid for...just like almost everything else he owned)? Sounds like you saw them in the 'beginning' when he would do anything for her....not recently. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but he is a murderer and he and her family and friends know it. The only reason he wants them now is for financial gain...and THE CHILDREN hate him also. Now, tell us that knew Bobbie closely and cared for the family deeply how sad this is for Pat.
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Believe what you want its your right. It will all come out in the end.... God bless you all.
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So I 'Guess all 5 of the children at home are lying'? To the police and DHS? What about the reports of domestic violence filed against Pat? How many times did he come home drunk/doped out of his head to start a fight with Bobbie? Why was Bobbie looking for a new home to get her family away from him? How many broken windows, fist and boot holes are in the trailer now, and why was she calling her friends to get her out? Why did he take her keys away and push her vehicle back into the drive with his truck (that she bought and paid for...just like almost everything else he owned)? Sounds like you saw them in the 'beginning' when he would do anything for her....not recently. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but he is a murderer and he and her family and friends know it. The only reason he wants them now is for financial gain...and THE CHILDREN hate him also. Now, tell us that knew Bobbie closely and cared for the family deeply how sad this is for Pat.
If pat was abusing her,why didnt your brother say or do anything about it when he was living with them? Bobbie had a few bad habits herself (Whisky every night) NO ONE IS PERFECT.. Pat would never take a life. What about you situation with your hubby? I have some pictures of you that bobbie sent me to get one of pats cousin to hook up with you. I have pictures of Bobbie, Pat and the kids and very happy!!
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How can anyone say what happend that evening as the couple where on there way home... I bet if the children were really asked about there mother and pat (which was bobbies lover for 8 plus months) with out other family members around i bet stories would be different. Pat took this women and children in and loved them all he could! He protected them all from an ex husband by the name of V. Lee wallace. Who bobbie told was very abusive and thats why here children had speech problems and she was soo scared of him. Pat moved (what he considered his family to give them a home due to the reposestion of the trailer they were living in when pat met her. Bobbie and pat came over to my home several times for cook outs with the 5 children and all were very happy. I also visited there home to. This was a freak accident that no one knows except the 2 in the vehicle. Pat was tested for drugs and alcohole @ hospital. There was nothing there to charge him with. I knew both parties, and will be praying for all. Bobbie did state to me that she was not close to her family, that she talked to a sister that was in a abusive marriage every now and then. You all making these accusations need to ask god for forgivness and think of everything that bobbie and kids had allready gone through and be thankfull she lived as long as she did. I know they loved one another and had spoke on getting married. Bobbie rest in peace, i am so sorry that there is a battle over this when i know you would and did not want a battle. Pat loves you and your children and always will. There will never be a day that goes by that he wont think of you and you children. God bless you all!!!
Thank you for your kind words - they are very much appreciated and I could not have said it better. Because we (Pat or his family) had no idea how to contact Bobbie's next of kin, it took the authorities longer to find them. Because we were 1 1/2 hours away, I called Pat's former wife and she and her family went to check on the kids. The kids didn't know any one to contact except for a neighbor who was their pastor and he and his wife took the children into their home. No one seems to realize how hard this is on Pat and our family. He loved Bobbie and is missing her terribly; in addition suffering from the physical injuries he sustained in the accident. God Bless!
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So I 'Guess all 5 of the children at home are lying'? To the police and DHS? What about the reports of domestic violence filed against Pat? How many times did he come home drunk/doped out of his head to start a fight with Bobbie? Why was Bobbie looking for a new home to get her family away from him? How many broken windows, fist and boot holes are in the trailer now, and why was she calling her friends to get her out? Why did he take her keys away and push her vehicle back into the drive with his truck (that she bought and paid for...just like almost everything else he owned)? Sounds like you saw them in the 'beginning' when he would do anything for her....not recently. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but he is a murderer and he and her family and friends know it. The only reason he wants them now is for financial gain...and THE CHILDREN hate him also. Now, tell us that knew Bobbie closely and cared for the family deeply how sad this is for Pat.
I am unsure where your information is coming from, but Pat did not have a truck. He has an automobile that HE bought from another of our family members. I understand there are many people hurt by this incident, but the incessant rage and hatred needs to stop.
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Lovin Tulsa wrote:
This is a very sad story, especially since no one mentions the family that Bobbie leaves behind! Details on this accident will likely show driver inattention...so why was he treated and released and not taken to jail? Sounds like vehicular homicide to this viewer...
Apparently since the police released the driver they felt it wasn't vehicular homicide. Since you think it sounds like vehicular homicide, were you a witness
to the accident? Have you seen the police report?
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<quoted text> If pat was abusing her,why didnt your brother say or do anything about it when he was living with them? Bobbie had a few bad habits herself (Whisky every night) NO ONE IS PERFECT.. Pat would never take a life. What about you situation with your hubby? I have some pictures of you that bobbie sent me to get one of pats cousin to hook up with you. I have pictures of Bobbie, Pat and the kids and very happy!!
Not sure who you think you are replying to but you obviously don't know ME. My brother doesn't live here and hasn't for sometime. Bobbie rarely drank, and what 'hubby' are referring to? Guess some would rather lash out than be sane...have a great day (if you can live with yourself)

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