stoutland school mess
concered community member

Columbia, MO

#1 Apr 10, 2009
OK I have read a lot of post about the problems at Stoutland School. Let me give my point of view. At the firs of the school year everything was peachy then the supers step son doesn't get to start or play when he thinks he should and instead of them telling him that he can work at being a team player and earn the spot they start causing trouble for the other players, coach, and parents (this includes the parents that payed for the summer team that the super son was on to play in numberous games)all because he whats to play and isn't a team player. I have watched lots of ball games don't have a kid on the team but if he was my son I think I would sit back and watch tapes with an open mind. Now this same student has been getting away with being late and tardy until the last month so that problem seems to be en taking care of. I think everyone just wants all students to be treated equal. The supers wife most people don't have a problem with her volunteering at school but that doesn't mean sitting in class all day talking to teachers so they can't teach, sitting in on teachers meeting on PD days. I think that if the super would of came in and had a meeting with people explained that they were taking over all the concession for the junior classes (basketball has been ran by all organization and baseball and softball by booster club has their money maker) instead of saying this is the way it is. Booster use to do all concession and saved sports for the school for many years when money for those programs wasn't availavble now they are just booted out of those. Mrs. Super does a wonderful job with the concession stand and it is a very time consuming job, that doesn't mean when she comes in to work on that before a game that she should chew out teachers. One last thing about Mrs. Super she is the supers wife and should be respresents him at school and public and mouthing in front of people that or my I will probably be on the blog for being at school. Think it but don't mouth because that is like a childish two year old and not professional at all.Mr Super seemed like a very caring person when first meeting but don't disagree with him or that will be it. It is his way or no way. It is sad that this has gotten so out of control that I have heard of at least 20 students that may not be back at Stoutland next year. I am not saying that other people don't keep this fueled but I think that the supers are not helping the problem at all. I know Mr. Super started a basketball team and ask girls from another team that were atleast 2 years younger than his daughters team to be on that team. Sad things is that just put more fuel on the fire. Mr. Super you should help put this fire out and bring back the harmony we have had. I am not saying that it is always great but I have never seen such a mess and it makes me sick to my stomach each and everyday. Basketball has always had its drama but nothing like this until your step son started acting like this. I think If you search your soul you would never let any student get by with cussing and yelling at the coach with out some sort of punishment not even once and I am sure the second time that student girl or boy would not be back a any sports team the reat of the year. I know if it was my child he wouldn't been able to sit down for a long long time, and yes mine had more stuff happen to him then yours and he still held his tongue and played and restpected his coach. Lets all try to work this out so we can save out school and children because it effects them each and every day not just the grown up and if you don't believe me ask them.

Since: Apr 09

Lebanon, MO

#2 Apr 10, 2009
you should join the thread "stoutland school current conflicts"
concered community member

Saint Louis, MO

#3 Apr 10, 2009
ok I think I should of proof read what I wrote sorry for the confussion but you get the gest of it.
concered community member wrote:
OK I have read a lot of post about the problems at Stoutland School. Let me give my point of view. At the firs of the school year everything was peachy then the supers step son doesn't get to start or play when he thinks he should and instead of them telling him that he can work at being a team player and earn the spot they start causing trouble for the other players, coach, and parents (this includes the parents that payed for the summer team that the super son was on to play in numberous games)all because he whats to play and isn't a team player. I have watched lots of ball games don't have a kid on the team but if he was my son I think I would sit back and watch tapes with an open mind. Now this same student has been getting away with being late and tardy until the last month so that problem seems to be en taking care of. I think everyone just wants all students to be treated equal. The supers wife most people don't have a problem with her volunteering at school but that doesn't mean sitting in class all day talking to teachers so they can't teach, sitting in on teachers meeting on PD days. I think that if the super would of came in and had a meeting with people explained that they were taking over all the concession for the junior classes (basketball has been ran by all organization and baseball and softball by booster club has their money maker) instead of saying this is the way it is. Booster use to do all concession and saved sports for the school for many years when money for those programs wasn't availavble now they are just booted out of those. Mrs. Super does a wonderful job with the concession stand and it is a very time consuming job, that doesn't mean when she comes in to work on that before a game that she should chew out teachers. One last thing about Mrs. Super she is the supers wife and should be respresents him at school and public and mouthing in front of people that or my I will probably be on the blog for being at school. Think it but don't mouth because that is like a childish two year old and not professional at all.Mr Super seemed like a very caring person when first meeting but don't disagree with him or that will be it. It is his way or no way. It is sad that this has gotten so out of control that I have heard of at least 20 students that may not be back at Stoutland next year. I am not saying that other people don't keep this fueled but I think that the supers are not helping the problem at all. I know Mr. Super started a basketball team and ask girls from another team that were atleast 2 years younger than his daughters team to be on that team. Sad things is that just put more fuel on the fire. Mr. Super you should help put this fire out and bring back the harmony we have had. I am not saying that it is always great but I have never seen such a mess and it makes me sick to my stomach each and everyday. Basketball has always had its drama but nothing like this until your step son started acting like this. I think If you search your soul you would never let any student get by with cussing and yelling at the coach with out some sort of punishment not even once and I am sure the second time that student girl or boy would not be back a any sports team the reat of the year. I know if it was my child he wouldn't been able to sit down for a long long time, and yes mine had more stuff happen to him then yours and he still held his tongue and played and restpected his coach. Lets all try to work this out so we can save out school and children because it effects them each and every day not just the grown up and if you don't believe me ask them.
b lebanon

Lebanon, MO

#4 Jan 13, 2010
i agree just because your step father is super that doesnt mean that you can just show up to class late and think that you an always get your way i say that the supers wife is wonderful but she needs to stop ****((BABYING))**** him he is 18 so grow up and take responsiblity

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