how long should you date before havin...

how long should you date before having sex?

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My goodness

Little Rock, AR

#1 Apr 19, 2008
You can not put a time frame on something like that!! My goodness people, in all actuallity you are supposed to wait until after marriage.. Where is that in the list!!
turd burgler

Poplar Bluff, MO

#2 Apr 20, 2008
amen brother
Hmmm

Traverse City, MI

#3 Apr 20, 2008
Well, bare minimum, when you have decided he/she is what you're looking for in a lifetime/marriage/forever partner.

Since: Feb 08

Grosse Pointe, MI

#4 Apr 20, 2008
Hmm.. let's see, that's a tough one!! umm MARRAIGE, why isn't that one on the list?
cantwate

United States

#5 Apr 20, 2008
twenty minutes is the best I can come up with but don`t do it in piggly wiggly. They frown on this.
Bonita

Saint Louis, MO

#6 Apr 20, 2008
i dated my husband for a little over 6 months before we made love, we were married 2 months later and have been together for 22 years. we were each others first EVERYTHING !!
hello

AOL

#7 Apr 21, 2008
thats just what he told u lol and u believed it what a sucker
Missouriguy

Wardell, MO

#8 Apr 22, 2008
You look extremely familiar
xoxMommyof2xox wrote:
Hmm.. let's see, that's a tough one!! umm MARRAIGE, why isn't that one on the list?
Grandma X 7

Grapevine, AR

#9 Apr 22, 2008
I have only been with one man and that is my husband of 40 years, and have never thought of cheating on him unless it was with Charles Bronson, and now he has kicked the bucket, so I guess I will have to daydream about some other HUNK!!!!

Since: Feb 08

Grosse Pointe, MI

#10 Apr 23, 2008
Missouriguy wrote:
You look extremely familiar<quoted text>
I used to live in missouri, but that ws when I was like 5 so I probably don't look the same anymore, lol.
cantwate

United States

#11 Apr 23, 2008
I think you should have sex first and if you both like it ,then start dating. Sometimes it is not worth going back to get it the second time.
Banned

United States

#12 Apr 28, 2008
DATE?
bud dudley

United States

#13 Apr 28, 2008
Sex outside of marriage is wrong, period!

“The Anti-Kakistocrat”

Since: Jul 07

Kennett, Mo

#14 Apr 28, 2008
Depends totally on the person and if you think it's worth waiting for. I've known people who Met, Mated and Married in a couple of days who are together years later. Also know of several who had platonic relationships for years. Got married, had sex and split up a month later. Basically it comes down to what both of you want and if you can come to a mutual agreement then everything works out. But if your ready to hop in the hay and she (He??) has little/no experience or has been through a bad relationship, they may be reluctent to go all the way for a while. If you just can't wait, then this is not the person you need to be in a relationship with...
Rhonda W

United States

#15 Apr 29, 2008
cantwate wrote:
I think you should have sex first and if you both like it ,then start dating. Sometimes it is not worth going back to get it the second time.
My thoughts on this are as follows-

I believe you should date someone to learn more of who they are on the inside. You need to know them as well, if not better, than they know themselves, and vise versa. Once you can answer the questions of who they are, what they are, where they've been, where they want to go, their hopes, dreams, fears, their absolute whole, then you will know this person inside and out. When the time for sex arrives, there will be no doubt as to whether it will be worth it or not, you each will know how to make it worthwhile for each other time and time again-
huh

Wardell, MO

#16 Apr 30, 2008
Rhonda W wrote:
<quoted text>My thoughts on this are as follows-
I believe you should date someone to learn more of who they are on the inside. You need to know them as well, if not better, than they know themselves, and vise versa. Once you can answer the questions of who they are, what they are, where they've been, where they want to go, their hopes, dreams, fears, their absolute whole, then you will know this person inside and out. When the time for sex arrives, there will be no doubt as to whether it will be worth it or not, you each will know how to make it worthwhile for each other time and time again-
good luck with that theory! by the time you figure all of that out, you will be too old for sex.
Riparian Reptile

Mason, OH

#17 Apr 30, 2008
15 or 20 minutes.
panty perv

Portageville, MO

#18 Apr 30, 2008
Rhonda W wrote:
<quoted text>My thoughts on this are as follows-
I believe you should date someone to learn more of who they are on the inside. You need to know them as well, if not better, than they know themselves, and vise versa. Once you can answer the questions of who they are, what they are, where they've been, where they want to go, their hopes, dreams, fears, their absolute whole, then you will know this person inside and out. When the time for sex arrives, there will be no doubt as to whether it will be worth it or not, you each will know how to make it worthwhile for each other time and time again-
OH YEAH IM SOOO SURE YOU LIVE BY THIS
Rhonda W

United States

#19 Apr 30, 2008
huh wrote:
<quoted text>
good luck with that theory! by the time you figure all of that out, you will be too old for sex.
You will only be to old if you continually change running mates every few days-
Rhonda W

United States

#20 Apr 30, 2008
panty perv wrote:
<quoted text>
OH YEAH IM SOOO SURE YOU LIVE BY THIS
OH YEAH I'm sooo sure YOU DON'T live by this-

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